Have a look at disco3.co.uk which I was pointed to of late when asking about D3s - there's a big thread on there with pics of the facelifted model with different bumpers / lights and so on...
The My09 seems to simply be colour coded bumpers and wheel arches. So not a huge change. The XS model spec is now enhanced to include leather etc as standard. (although they did put the price up).
