Falling in love at 40
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Sciroccology

Original Poster:

29,908 posts

259 months

Tuesday 9th October 2007
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It shouldn't happen. It really shouldn't happen. We have 81 years and 3 marriages between us. We've been there, done that and got the t-shirt. In fact, we've had to get a new t-shirt, because the original one faded and had a few holes in it - that's how long we'd had the t-shirt.

We are old, jaded and cynical. It shouldn't happen.

So why then, did we spend the first hour of our first meeting smiling like loons until our cheeks ached, giggling inanely, looking at each other then looking away and generally acting like 19-year-olds on their first date at the local Odeon? For crying out loud, we went for a walk and held hands - in public!

Is it wrong for "grown-ups" to be acting in this way? Is there a sell-by date on love? Or can it happen at any age?


By the way, I am in no way complaining. It's really rather wonderful.

AndyBe

6,927 posts

236 months

Tuesday 9th October 2007
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Enjoy it while it lasts.

SplatSpeed

7,491 posts

280 months

Tuesday 9th October 2007
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viagra is your friend

bluto

418 posts

233 months

Tuesday 9th October 2007
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You seem to be happy with it so go for it! Love can happen whenever, dont get tied up with analising it all and reading too much into it all. Just enjoy it cloud9

And before someone calls me a gayer, im female and allowed to say these things^^^^^^^

Mr MoJo

4,698 posts

245 months

Tuesday 9th October 2007
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SplatSpeed said:
viagra is your friend
Viagra is her friend wink

Sheets Tabuer

21,408 posts

244 months

Tuesday 9th October 2007
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eww, have you not learnt by now wimmins are icky?

And another thing, worst I have a girlfriend thread ever wink

Anyway I say go for it you really do only live once

Sciroccology

Original Poster:

29,908 posts

259 months

Tuesday 9th October 2007
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Mr MoJo said:
SplatSpeed said:
viagra is your friend
Viagra is her friend wink
Viagra is unnecessary smile

Sheets Tabuer

21,408 posts

244 months

Tuesday 9th October 2007
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bluto said:
dont get tied up
WTF is the point then?

2 sMoKiN bArReLs

32,006 posts

264 months

Tuesday 9th October 2007
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Sciroccology said:
For crying out loud, we went for a walk and held hands - in public!
hurl



hehe

bluto

418 posts

233 months

Tuesday 9th October 2007
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Maybe he doesnt like being tied up. I do though.

Zod

35,295 posts

287 months

Tuesday 9th October 2007
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SplatSpeed said:
viagra is your friend
at 40???

2 sMoKiN bArReLs

32,006 posts

264 months

Tuesday 9th October 2007
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Zod said:
SplatSpeed said:
viagra is your friend
at 40???
Gets more tricky at NSL biggrin

Zoom_Jones

858 posts

288 months

Tuesday 9th October 2007
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bluto said:
Maybe he doesnt like being tied up. I do though.
  • thud*

Sheets Tabuer

21,408 posts

244 months

Tuesday 9th October 2007
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bluto said:
Maybe he doesnt like being tied up. I do though.
I've always liked you

davido140

9,616 posts

255 months

Tuesday 9th October 2007
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awwwwwww aint they cute! smile

enjoy yourselves!

Mate of mine in his early 40's is all loved after meeting his ideal woman on the internet. she's a similar age too. perfectly natural.

Just think, 20 or 30 years ago you'd probably have just stuck it out and not got divorced like all our parent did boxedinwink

branflakes

2,039 posts

267 months

Tuesday 9th October 2007
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bluto said:
Maybe he doesnt like being tied up. I do though.

bluto

418 posts

233 months

Tuesday 9th October 2007
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Always liked me eh scratchchin

ClassyChassis

231 posts

228 months

Tuesday 9th October 2007
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I'm trying to think of something lovely and positive to say, but having been recently binned off out of the blue and being ever so slightly ruined by it all, I'm struggling.

Have a forced smile smile and just enjoy it.

SplatSpeed

7,491 posts

280 months

Tuesday 9th October 2007
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Zod said:
SplatSpeed said:
viagra is your friend
at 40???
cum early cum often

AlexKP

16,484 posts

273 months

Tuesday 9th October 2007
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bluto said:
dont get tied up with analising it...
This is good advice. I would wait a few weeks before suggesting that.