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3doorPete

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6,971 posts

104 months

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At 6:30 on Thursday morning, I got the call that everyone dreads. My sister's husband, who I introduced to biking, had a severe accident commuting to the station.

As the morning unfolded, it went from being bad to worse to nightmare news. Due to his head and then stomach impacting with a lamp post, that lights a largely pointless keep left island, his injuries list just got longer and more serious. He is currently being operated on for a 2nd 3 hour operation and is still in an induced coma. On top of the multitude of broken bones and lacerations, he's so far got:

Brain bleed.
Ruptured spleen that's been removed.
Torn liver
Damaged one side of his heart
Perforated bowel
Internal bleeding they are struggling to control

Even if he gets through the internal damage, the head injury severity is still not confirmed and he will need further ops to pin/plate broken bones. 2.5 days on, it's still touch and go in ICU and he is not stable enough for them to be happy.

I'm godfather to both his kids (my nieces) who are 1 and 3 and are shortly arriving at my house to relieve my mum for a day or so.

A full police investigation and a radio appeal are happening due to a witness arriving just after it happened describing a white van that was already stopped and helping, but left the scene. It was a straight road in drizzle at 5:45am.

This is the second time I've gone through this, losing my best mate in 2001 and I wouldn't wish it on anyone.

I guess this post is just to try to direct the random thoughts and lack of sleep, addled brain I have at the moment. I know a lot of people won't want to read this - I feel the same when I stick my head in the sand over some of the bad bike things I've seen and had happen to me - but I can't avoid facing this one. Sitting in an ICU looking at someone close to you who is completely and utterly fked, is one of the worst feelings ever.

I probably won't be on here for a few more days, but I hope to update with good news at some point.

Please, please be careful out there.

CBR JGWRR

5,174 posts

19 months

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Edit - read the whole post...

Hope he comes out of it ok.

Zoobeef

1,335 posts

28 months

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What a shame.
Thoughts are with you all

Shrimper

363 posts

64 months

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my thoughts are with you and your family mate

MrOrange

691 posts

123 months

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Hope things turn out okay, fingers crossed.

3doorPete said:
... white van that was already stopped and helping, but left the scene...
Not intending to jump the gun but, *if* there was some complicity from the van driver you have to ask what sort of human being could leave the scene. Just awful.
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vonuber

4,124 posts

35 months

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Sad news; hope he pulls through.

RemaL

19,969 posts

104 months

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Sorry to hear this Pete and thoughts with you and his family. please keep us updated and I hope the news is better very soon

Chilli

16,140 posts

106 months

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Echo Remal's post, Pete.
It's devastating news, but keep positive, these docs can work miracles. I'll keep everything crossed and look out for updates.

Good luck mate.

podman

4,044 posts

110 months

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Thats awful Pete..I hope for the best possible outcome for him.

Keep us updated.

off_again

8,987 posts

104 months

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Incredibly sad news. Best wishes to all and hope everyone is OK.

Prof Prolapse

7,549 posts

60 months

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I'll have my fingers crossed mate.

I've heard of far worse bouncing back.

mrdelmonti

1,257 posts

51 months

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I wish all the best, it's amazing what doctors can do so keep your hopes up.

Nigel Worc's

5,315 posts

58 months

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I can only echo other peoples thougts really, and wish your family well.

It'll be hard not to feel blame yourself, I remember the grief my uncle got when I had my first off, many years ago.

We all know just how easily we can be hurt, and how it only happens to others etc.

Lets hope you get the right kind of news soon.

Best wishes from me.

996 sps

5,718 posts

86 months

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Sorry to read this, thoughts with everyone involved, hope you all get some positive news.

y2blade

46,892 posts

85 months

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My thoughts are with you all.

Yazza54

9,796 posts

51 months

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Very sorry to hear this, hope to hear some good news soon.

mitzy

11,961 posts

67 months

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Truely Awful News Pete

Thinking of your BIL his family and You xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx


spareparts

3,988 posts

97 months

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Pete, I am very sorry to hear of the accident, and hope your BIL pulls through.

Importantly, this could have happened to anyone who made the decision to bike and enjoy biking, regardless of who 'introduced' us to it - a total irrelevance whether it was you or anyone/anything else.

AndyM31

804 posts

75 months

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Our thoughts are with your family.

bass gt3

3,853 posts

103 months

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Pete

Truly saddened to hear your news. Ican only say i wish you and yours the very best and a speedy recovery and my thoughts are with you.

Steve
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