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Merlin28

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658 posts

149 months

Saturday 28th July 2012
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I hate them, struggled to jump off a 3m diving board wednesday is there a way to get rid of the fear i need to jump off a 5m one in 6 weeks.

2 sMoKiN bArReLs

30,274 posts

236 months

Saturday 28th July 2012
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Merlin28 said:
i need to jump off a 5m one in 6 weeks.
You need to? Do tell biggrin

didelydoo

5,528 posts

211 months

Saturday 28th July 2012
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Jump of a 10m one, then the 6m one will be a piece of piss.

Loopyleesa

2,894 posts

168 months

Saturday 28th July 2012
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I used to dive for my school off of a 5m board.
As I got older I developed a fear of heights, and I hate it.

I shake, get dizzy and tearful when I know I have to go up!

Good luck to you! Let us know how you got on!

Why did you agree to it knowing you don't like heights?

Merlin28

Original Poster:

658 posts

149 months

Sunday 29th July 2012
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Loopyleesa said:
I used to dive for my school off of a 5m board.
As I got older I developed a fear of heights, and I hate it.

I shake, get dizzy and tearful when I know I have to go up!

Good luck to you! Let us know how you got on!

Why did you agree to it knowing you don't like heights?
It's for my new job and a requirement of that job. i.e if I don't do it I won't have that job anymore. Also I am fed up of being afraid realistically I know I won't get hurt and I like water so there should be no reason to fear it.

TwigtheWonderkid

43,475 posts

151 months

Sunday 29th July 2012
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I don't like heights, but have no fear if over the water. I don't like climbing up the steps of the diving board, but once I walk along it and am clear of concrete below me, what's to worry about. I'm quite happy to dive in from the top board.

You say you don't like heights, but in reality what you don't like is the idea of hitting the ground from a height! Like people say they are scared of flying, but are actually scared of crashing.

Suggest you do as I do, get up as quick as you can and get clear of the concrete.

BlackVanDyke

9,932 posts

212 months

Sunday 29th July 2012
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Do it as regularly as you can between now and then, it probably won't improve the fear (might for some, didn't for me) but it will improve your ability to cope with it. I still get pretty nasty vertigo if I'm up high or near a ledge, but I handle it much better than I used to.

PS what the fk kind of job is dependant on diving from a height?!

Merlin28

Original Poster:

658 posts

149 months

Sunday 29th July 2012
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BlackVanDyke said:
Do it as regularly as you can between now and then, it probably won't improve the fear (might for some, didn't for me) but it will improve your ability to cope with it. I still get pretty nasty vertigo if I'm up high or near a ledge, but I handle it much better than I used to.

PS what the fk kind of job is dependant on diving from a height?!
not diving jumping feet first I will be going to sea so it's part of my sea survival training to simulate abandon ship proceedure.

Zad

12,709 posts

237 months

Sunday 29th July 2012
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Go and stand up at the 5m board as often as you can. Just go and be there. Initially you might not even be able to let go of the ladder or whatever, but familiarise yourself as much as you can with what the height feels like. If possible, watch other people dive from that height. It won't cure you overnight, but it will help plant the thought in your deeper brain that jumping from that height is okay for those other people.


Hoofy

76,430 posts

283 months

Sunday 29th July 2012
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What's a fear of people misusing the term "vertigo"?

Agree with standing at the top. Go up there, have a look around, enjoy the view. Do it regularly so you get used to it before the jump.

BlackVanDyke

9,932 posts

212 months

Sunday 29th July 2012
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Hoofy said:
What's a fear of people misusing the term "vertigo"?

Agree with standing at the top. Go up there, have a look around, enjoy the view. Do it regularly so you get used to it before the jump.
If you mean me, I used it in its conventional clinical sense - vestibular wrongness.

Pints

18,444 posts

195 months

Sunday 29th July 2012
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I generally hate heights but oddly enough I have always been much more comfortable when diving from high-boards or into water.

Well that was a useful contribution. hehe
Sorry.

Hoofy

76,430 posts

283 months

Sunday 29th July 2012
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BlackVanDyke said:
If you mean me, I used it in its conventional clinical sense - vestibular wrongness.
Anyone, really. I don't see how low heights (ie where low pressure isn't really an issue) affects the inner ear.

JontyR

1,915 posts

168 months

Sunday 29th July 2012
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Try thinking of it as having a healthy respect for heights instead of a fear!

It's all in your mind...go see a hypnotist could be an option?

TwigtheWonderkid

43,475 posts

151 months

Sunday 29th July 2012
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JontyR said:
Try thinking of it as having a healthy respect for heights instead of a fear!

It's all in your mind...go see a hypnotist could be an option?
I know a good hypnotist but unfortunately his office is on the 24th floor! hehe