Although I don't post much here, it is the only forum I am a member and due to peoples varying degree's of successes on this site I thought I would give it a lash and ask for some advise.
Over the weekend it was one of my best mates 30th birthdays. Unfortunately, my mates dad passed away suddenly only 3 weeks ago so it was a very mixed emotion birthday and it was always going to a be a rip roaring session. Which it was.
Due to said rip roaring session I had to take two days off work due to an extreme (and I mean extreme) hangover. This all happened in an very busy time for work. I work as an Event Manager and we have our biggest event, which I am highly involved in coming up.
Long story shortened, it looks like my boss has fired me. It also looks like that my work e-mail has been de-activated, I am not getting returned calls from my boss. The last contact from him was yesterday afternoon telling me to stay away until I heard from him.
He did tell me he was done with me over me over the phone but didn't leave it as the final nail, but it does look that way.
Now, this is my dream job, its all I ever wanted to do. Its the only work experience I have in 10 years and I am only 25.
So this morning, after a few attempts to call him and another e-mail sent I am now sitting on my bed thinking what the f
k am I to do now?
My boss is very tough cookie, we have become mates but that isn't making it an easier.
I was due to be paid 2 months wages on the 18th but it wouldn't surprise me if a halt has been called to that payment. This leaves me even more screwed.
The biggest part of my professional experience was with this company, it looks like any kind of reference is now up in smoke.
Now here comes the question:
Should I just appear at this event and expect to talk face to face with my boss?
Should I continue to call him?
Should I give him space?
Should I try to contact his boss and explain?
What do i do now? This is all new to me, I have never been in this situation before.