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E65Ross

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35,078 posts

212 months

Tuesday 10th November 2015
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funkyrobot said:
How about a picture of one of the x-rays showing the tumour, then a picture of you at full health and happiness? I don't think an ICU picture goes well on the shelf. smile
Good call!

crikey

1,700 posts

211 months

Wednesday 11th November 2015
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Go for it, it'll be very much appreciated. The christmas after my op I got my consultant and his fellow presents and some selection boxes for the consultant's kids, and while in hospital my other half kept up a steady flow of chocs and biscuits for the nursing staff smile

E65Ross

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35,078 posts

212 months

Wednesday 11th November 2015
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Thanks crikey!

I wanted to see about getting a picture of me, mum and brother together holding up a big piece of paper or something with a big "thank you" written on it.... But I'm not sure the 3 of us can get together in time for that to happen.

Less than 3 weeks until I can drive now, really not long. I've got the day off work and in just going to go for a drive for a few hours hehe

E65Ross

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35,078 posts

212 months

Monday 23rd November 2015
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Just out of question, is anyone who's posted on this thread going to goodwood Sunday service 13th December?

Would be great if I could meet another face or 2!

1 week tomorrow until I can drive biggrin

Ozzie Dave

565 posts

248 months

Friday 27th November 2015
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Our Daughter suffered a serious medical incident, while they were trying to save her life in ICU the man beside her had a second heart attack and died, for the next 3 hours they worked feverishly to save her, apologising all the time and unable to do anything for him, allowing his relatives to see him before he was taken away. (there was about 8 staff working on her plus a helicopter crew on standby for her and no more rooms available) .
The following day I returned to ICU, they expected to have a complaint issued over what happened, the look on their faces when I gave them a very large box of chocolates was priceless, a senior member who I gave then to said in 10 years it was the first time anyone had done that for them.
What we saw that day was both ends of life, and the teams did everything they could for both parties.

funkyrobot

18,789 posts

228 months

Friday 27th November 2015
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Ozzie Dave said:
Our Daughter suffered a serious medical incident, while they were trying to save her life in ICU the man beside her had a second heart attack and died, for the next 3 hours they worked feverishly to save her, apologising all the time and unable to do anything for him, allowing his relatives to see him before he was taken away. (there was about 8 staff working on her plus a helicopter crew on standby for her and no more rooms available) .
The following day I returned to ICU, they expected to have a complaint issued over what happened, the look on their faces when I gave them a very large box of chocolates was priceless, a senior member who I gave then to said in 10 years it was the first time anyone had done that for them.
What we saw that day was both ends of life, and the teams did everything they could for both parties.
Wow. Heart wrenching stuff. cry

crikey

1,700 posts

211 months

Tuesday 1st December 2015
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I assume Ross left his house at 00:01 and is currently on his 2nd lap of the Uk..... smile

E65Ross

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35,078 posts

212 months

Tuesday 1st December 2015
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crikey said:
I assume Ross left his house at 00:01 and is currently on his 2nd lap of the Uk..... smile
hehe Not quite, I did go for a drive but only around 45mins. Wasn't nervous at all...was just like riding a bike! It did feel great to be back behind the wheel again!

My physical licence is still yet to arrive though, hopefully will be here tomorrow.

I suppose this just about sums this thread up, in reality. Life if pretty much back to normal, bar a few small deficits I still have.

Once again, I'd like to say a big thank you to everyone on this thread who's helped me get by! You've all been utterly magnificent.

SydneyBridge

8,604 posts

158 months

Tuesday 1st December 2015
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67 pages since 9th September 2013 - what a journey you have been on

Tyre Tread

10,534 posts

216 months

Tuesday 1st December 2015
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I'd like to thank you for sharing your, no doubt at times, difficult experiences and helping some of us keep our own lives in perspective.

You are an inspiration.

Now get out and enjoy that car!

br d

8,400 posts

226 months

Tuesday 1st December 2015
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Great news Ross! Enjoy mate.

It has been some ride, I'm amazed at how far you've come in such a short time. I'm sure I speak for many when I say you've earned a great deal of respect around here.

Did you give the old girl a bit of a wake up? smile

rovermorris999

5,202 posts

189 months

Tuesday 1st December 2015
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br d said:
Did you give the old girl a bit of a wake up? smile
Is that a euphemism?

NelsonP

240 posts

139 months

Tuesday 1st December 2015
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Congrats Ross!

E65Ross

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35,078 posts

212 months

Tuesday 1st December 2015
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rovermorris999 said:
br d said:
Did you give the old girl a bit of a wake up? smile
Is that a euphemism?
hehe

I didn't actually drive too far today as I had a few things to do. I think I drove a total of approx 30 miles max.

It isn't just the actual driving again.... It's more about what it symbolises for me. It's the last big step to normality, the last piece of the puzzle, as it were.... And getting my freedom and independence back. It's a nice feeling to say the least!

Thanks for the kind words everyone! You've been amazing to me!

Shaw Tarse

31,543 posts

203 months

Tuesday 1st December 2015
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thumbup

rovermorris999

5,202 posts

189 months

Tuesday 1st December 2015
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Ross, with a more serious hat on, has your experience changed your outlook on life in any way? Although it sounds a bit naff, reading about this sort of thing certainly focusses my mind on what is important in life.

E65Ross

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35,078 posts

212 months

Tuesday 1st December 2015
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rovermorris999 said:
Ross, with a more serious hat on, has your experience changed your outlook on life in any way? Although it sounds a bit naff, reading about this sort of thing certainly focusses my mind on what is important in life.
Absolutely, it has. I tend to value my time with my friends and family more (and keep in more regular contact with those close to me, too); I also don't bother with people who don't bother with me....I don't see the point. I don't get as stressed about smaller things any more, and realise that we generally take good health for granted.

I have had a bit of a cold and sore throat this last week (which is now almost gone) but, perhaps stupidly, thought...."it hurts when I swallow....but at least I can swallow!"

Is anyone from here going to Sunday Service on 13th December by any chance?

0a

23,901 posts

194 months

Wednesday 2nd December 2015
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br d said:
0a said:
I'll donate another £100 to your very worthy cause when you drive me around the block in the E65 at the next PH event Ross!

All the best with getting your licence back.
Now that's genius Oa. Get your licence back Ross, get on the road and drop in on as many people from this thread as you can, I'd be more than happy to make a donation to see you turn up! Would make a great story for the charity too!
As you are back on the road again, and we've agreed a barge meet I've done the deed in anticipation.

Fantastic news.

https://www.justgiving.com/Ross-Fripp

E65Ross

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35,078 posts

212 months

Wednesday 2nd December 2015
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You're absolutely amazing 0a!!

Really looking forward to meeting you.

br d

8,400 posts

226 months

Wednesday 2nd December 2015
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Certainly brings a lump to the throat looking at your JG page Ross, so many wonderful, generous people.

If you have time I would love another meet up next year mate, would be a joy to go out for a hoon together (and I wouldn't mind stopping for dinner at that pub again, very nice!).