How to decide the end is nigh?

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bexVN

14,682 posts

211 months

Sunday 27th July 2014
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The_Burg said:
Seems happy enough today, let me hose her down in the garden. Seems very chilled again, last night was not nice she was really seeming to suffer. If only they could talk....
Was hoping this would be the case due to being sl cooler today. Whilst they can't talk we can read their body language more than you realise. I don't think you are pro longing things at the mo she is having good days still but I hope talking on here will help you not do that either. Just take it a day or two at a time for now and think about yourselves (this is not selfish) as it is incredibly stressful for us at this time.

The_Burg

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4,846 posts

214 months

Sunday 27th July 2014
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bexVN said:
Was hoping this would be the case due to being sl cooler today. Whilst they can't talk we can read their body language more than you realise. I don't think you are pro longing things at the mo she is having good days still but I hope talking on here will help you not do that either. Just take it a day or two at a time for now and think about yourselves (this is not selfish) as it is incredibly stressful for us at this time.
Indeed, it's so hard. Every time we say ok game over she picks up.
Really seemed to enjoy being hosed down today, unlike the youngster who hated it. Still not much you can do to cool them otherwise.

bexVN

14,682 posts

211 months

Sunday 27th July 2014
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The_Burg said:
Seems happy enough today, let me hose her down in the garden. Seems very chilled again, last night was not nice she was really seeming to suffer. If only they could talk....
Was hoping this would be the case due to being sl cooler today. Whilst they can't talk we can read their body language more than you realise. I don't think you are pro longing things at the mo she is having good days still but I hope talking on here will help you not do that either. Just take it a day or two at a time for now and think about yourselves (this is not selfish) as it is incredibly stressful for us at this time.

johnxjsc1985

15,948 posts

164 months

Wednesday 30th July 2014
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glad things seem easier the cooler weather will help. I think the decision will come to you naturally when the time comes.
We believed that as long as our Dogs had an appetite and could go to the toilet (even if it meant using a towel under their back legs for support)we would stick by them as long as they did not have too much pain.
Just enjoy time together.

The_Burg

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214 months

Wednesday 30th July 2014
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She's doing fine again. Not keen on eating but as it's hot neither is the youngster.
Every time we get to the final decision she seems to get better.
The legs are very arthritic and she does struggle but seems so happy when i get home.

The_Burg

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214 months

Thursday 31st July 2014
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Not so good again tonight, kind of feel like i'm just waiting.
If only she could talk and tell us how she really feels. So sad.

bexVN

14,682 posts

211 months

Thursday 31st July 2014
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The_Burg said:
Not so good again tonight, kind of feel like i'm just waiting.
If only she could talk and tell us how she really feels. So sad.
What's happened tonight frown?

The_Burg

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Thursday 31st July 2014
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bexVN said:
What's happened tonight frown?
Just struggling with those nasty arthritic back legs. Plus the humidity.
Rained a bit so has increased the muggyness a lot, *(is that a word?).

Now comfortably collapsed on her bed snoring and farting contentedly.



bexVN

14,682 posts

211 months

Thursday 31st July 2014
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The_Burg said:
bexVN said:
What's happened tonight frown?
Just struggling with those nasty arthritic back legs. Plus the humidity.
Rained a bit so has increased the muggyness a lot, *(is that a word?).

Now comfortably collapsed on her bed snoring and farting contentedly.
This weather has been awful for our pets, we have several cats in on drips at the mo because of it frown. She may also be struggling a bit with reduced nerve signals to her hind legs (sadly common in elderly sight hounds) the good thing is this is not painful like arthritis but will increase difficulty with walking, co ordination and control. It's good that she can still rest easy, essential for a greyhound!!

The_Burg

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Thursday 31st July 2014
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bexVN said:
The_Burg said:
bexVN said:
What's happened tonight frown?
Just struggling with those nasty arthritic back legs. Plus the humidity.
Rained a bit so has increased the muggyness a lot, *(is that a word?).

Now comfortably collapsed on her bed snoring and farting contentedly.
This weather has been awful for our pets, we have several cats in on drips at the mo because of it frown. She may also be struggling a bit with reduced nerve signals to her hind legs (sadly common in elderly sight hounds) the good thing is this is not painful like arthritis but will increase difficulty with walking, co ordination and control. It's good that she can still rest easy, essential for a greyhound!!
She was diagnosed with arthritis several years ago when we first rehomed her. We gave her daily aspirin but seemed to make no difference at al.


bexVN

14,682 posts

211 months

Thursday 31st July 2014
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Aspirin is a strange drug to prescribe for Arthritis. Is she on anything else for it now?

The_Burg

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Thursday 31st July 2014
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bexVN said:
Aspirin is a strange drug to prescribe for Arthritis. Is she on anything else for it now?
No nothing, vet said nothing can be done. Aspirin was an internet recommendation.
Poor old used and dumped race dog. Ireland to found roaming the street of Coventry.

Younger one is a Tirkane, sires sperm is worth a mint.

Sad sport, used and abused. Guess my two are lucky, most don't get to live. Disgusting 'sport'. Almost as bad as dog fighting.

bexVN

14,682 posts

211 months

Thursday 31st July 2014
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I am really confused, unless she has liver/ kidney problems there is a lot that can be done to help arthritis. It may be a little too late but if you can relieve the pain from the arthritis she may perk up again. Metacam, Onsior, Previcox, Tramadol, even paracetomol are all drugs that can be used to relieve discomfort (not all at the same time!) Some dogs on our books are on a combination of Metacam, Tramadol and Paracetomol (paracetomol has to be carefully dosed)

Arthritis for a dog can be debilitating and extremely painful (as for people). Drugs may just help her, if it really is just arthritis the vet diagnosed and they didn't think it was anything else (as I said nerve issues can cause some of the issues so meds would have less impact).

It's got to be worth a try. I'm sorry I didn't mention it sooner as I assumed she was already on meds.

Edited by bexVN on Thursday 31st July 23:42

The_Burg

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Friday 24th October 2014
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Well today was the day. RIP Gilgarry Joli. Still made it well past 13 years.
Took a turn for the worse and we made the decision. All for the best but not a nice experience.


johnxjsc1985

15,948 posts

164 months

Friday 24th October 2014
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The_Burg said:
Well today was the day. RIP Gilgarry Joli. Still made it well past 13 years.
Took a turn for the worse and we made the decision. All for the best but not a nice experience.
Sorry to hear that mate. you might get some future comfort by reflecting on all of your wonderful memories

riosyd

611 posts

201 months

Friday 24th October 2014
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So sad to hear this, it's just such a hard decision to make frown

TheLordJohn

5,746 posts

146 months

Friday 24th October 2014
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The_Burg said:
Well today was the day. RIP Gilgarry Joli. Still made it well past 13 years.
Took a turn for the worse and we made the decision. All for the best but not a nice experience.
You must be heart broken.
Commiserations. I am not looking forward to my dog leaving us frown
At least you gave her a good life after her working life.
I'll be getting a Grey once our house rabbits have died. My sister has a fabulous one called Mysti who only has one eye...!

The_Burg

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214 months

Friday 24th October 2014
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Gutted, our younger Grey keeps looking round,checking the garden. Every time we go upstairs waits at the bottom. (Neither did stairs). It's horrible, died in our arms, such a sad task. We did right though. She was struggling. Would post pics but on my iPad. She was in a terrible state when we got her, vets bills were near £1k, nursed back and we had her near 3 years.

TheLordJohn

5,746 posts

146 months

Friday 24th October 2014
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The_Burg said:
Gutted, our younger Grey keeps looking round,checking the garden. Every time we go upstairs waits at the bottom. (Neither did stairs). It's horrible, died in our arms, such a sad task. We did right though. She was struggling. Would post pics but on my iPad. She was in a terrible state when we got her, vets bills were near £1k, nursed back and we had her near 3 years.
It's not quite on the same scale as rescuing an ex-racer, but one of our house rabbits was in a very, very sorry state (pretty shameful, actually. We should have reported the previous owner). She was on her arse with regards to her health and 6 months later she was fighting fit. She'd lived in a small hutch outdoors, on her own and with very little interaction. The emotional reward to seeing her being a nosey rabbit now is huge. She wouldn't leave her house for a long, long time but now she potters around the house quite happily smile She may have cost us a couple of hundred in vets bills but if it wasn't for us she wouldn't be alive right now.
The saddest thing is there was a male kept in a seperate hutch there also, and if he was neglected as Jess was I doubt he's still alive now frown
Can't rescue the world though!!

The_Burg

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Friday 24th October 2014
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Indeed John. The youngster, well 10 is so unsettled. Looking for his friend.

All folk who rehome are good people.

So sad when they go.