Your first performance

Your first performance

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ehonda

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1,483 posts

205 months

Thursday 7th August 2014
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Tonight I am playing an open mic night, this will be the first time I have ever played in front of strangers. I'm both excited and terrified.
So tell me about the first time you played in public to set my mind at rest or make me think 'well at least it can't be that bad'.
In fact tell me anything, to take my mind off of things!

Z06George

2,519 posts

189 months

Thursday 7th August 2014
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Enjoy it! I was 7 or 8 in front of a 200-300 people and I spent so much energy on making sure I nailed the music that I forgot about the audience. Whilst that sounds like a good thing it meant that I didn't really enjoy it to be honest so just relax and have fun!

ehonda

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1,483 posts

205 months

Thursday 7th August 2014
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Z06George said:
Enjoy it! I was 7 or 8 in front of a 200-300 people and I spent so much energy on making sure I nailed the music that I forgot about the audience. Whilst that sounds like a good thing it meant that I didn't really enjoy it to be honest so just relax and have fun!
Thanks, I'll try and remember that. I've got 35 or so years experience of making a fool of myself in excess of your 7 ot 8, so hopefully I can make good use of that.

Z06George

2,519 posts

189 months

Thursday 7th August 2014
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Haha, I'm sure it'll be fine. Chances are it'll be over before you even realize it!

ehonda

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205 months

Thursday 7th August 2014
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Oh, I know that feeling well enough wink

Justin Cyder

12,624 posts

149 months

Thursday 7th August 2014
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One phenomenon I've found to be true about playing live is you find an extra little 5% in your playing in terms of accuracy & feel which I imagine is tied into the psychology of not wanting to fk it up in public. You'll also probably go off at breakneck speed & if you can watch out for that, you'll be doing yourself a favour. Also, nerves are normal - the cure is being sufficiently well rehearsed.

Hoofy

76,330 posts

282 months

Thursday 7th August 2014
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Yeah, 7 or 8 here, too. I have no useful advice to give. hehe

ehonda

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205 months

Thursday 7th August 2014
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Cheers Hoofy biggrin

Re rehearsal, it's not perfect, but I am at the point where improvements are small enough to no longer keep making excuses.

Hoofy

76,330 posts

282 months

Thursday 7th August 2014
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Just make sure you've practised enough to not have to think about it. Well, it works for me. It's always funny when I think about demonstrating a particular martial arts move and my mind goes blank.

speedysoprano

224 posts

119 months

Thursday 7th August 2014
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I've been performing since I was about 6 years old and I still get butterflies, even though it's my job nowadays. I think the trick is to use them as part of it and remember simple, silly things like the world isn't going to end if you make a mistake!

A friend of mine often says he looks forward to making his first mistake whenever he performs, because that gets it out of the way and the pressure not to make a mistake isn't there anymore. I think he's got something, there.

stephenward

1 posts

116 months

Thursday 7th August 2014
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I perform in my bathroom first time lol

andySC

1,190 posts

158 months

Thursday 7th August 2014
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I was 17 & it was August 1990. I wasn't old enough to be in the pub but what the hell I had a Strat, a flowery shirt on & an amp that was covered in carpet (some 50w Fender tranny thing), more importantly I had good hair. What I did lack was any skill at this point (open chords all the way, I hadn't mastered bar chords). We had a drummer who had started playing six weeks previous & a singer who'd never sang. What is was, was ....reasonably ok. I had a REM/Blue Aeroplanes thing going on & jingle jangled/arpeggio'd a fairly tuneful racket, drummer stuck to the basics & singer (played bass too)got away with it.
I can remember it all very vividly & quite fondly tbh. We even stuck together through most of the 90's & had a bit of success. I'd quite happily rewind to August 1990 on stage at The Toby Jug in Doncaster & do it all again. Relax, have a drink, enjoy it. It'll pass in a blur then you'll want to do it again....good luck with it !

ehonda

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1,483 posts

205 months

Friday 8th August 2014
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OK, so I can now add my own account of my first performance.

I was feeling pretty nervous, the act before us (me and my guitar instructor who played rythm) came on and introduced himself as someone who won the voice in Germany. This did not help my nerves, he was really good but unsurprisingly poppy. Watching him I couldn't even remember how to hold a guitar.
When he finished I tuned my guitar and the nerves went away, the guitar felt right in my hands and I remembered what I was supposed to be doing.
We played 3 songs, Knocking on heavens door was a bit ropey, wipeout went fab and the crowd really liked that, finished with breaking the law and that was the best I've ever played it I think.
People were really positive and encouraging and it felt awesome.
I'm still buzzing. Time to master some more songs now!

Jazzy Jefferson

728 posts

141 months

Friday 8th August 2014
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ehonda said:
Tonight I am playing an open mic night, this will be the first time I have ever played in front of strangers. I'm both excited and terrified.
So tell me about the first time you played in public to set my mind at rest or make me think 'well at least it can't be that bad'.
In fact tell me anything, to take my mind off of things!
Awesome mate. Good work.

I played a lot in my younger days on piano and Clarinet, you know, school performances and what not, but the more interesting "first time" was the first gig I did on drums:

I was at a party for over 40s. I was 15 and helping my dad out at the time who was in the band who were playing.
They called me up mid song to drum with them. I was rather drunk, had no idea what I was doing, had never heard the track before, and still.... it worked itself out and much fun was had.

You'll be fine man.

Edited by Jazzy Jefferson on Friday 8th August 11:20

speedysoprano

224 posts

119 months

Friday 8th August 2014
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Fantastic, glad to hear it!

singlecoil

33,524 posts

246 months

Friday 8th August 2014
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Well done OP. No doubt you will soon want to do it again, and will be just as nervous/keyed-up next time......and the time after that...........and the time after that..........etc

JaymzDead

1,216 posts

200 months

Friday 8th August 2014
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It was in July 2000, I was 24 and it was my first semi serious band, we were called Blight and most people told us we sounded like a mixture of Megadeth and The Almighty. Up until 2 months before the gig, I was the lead vocalist in the band, then our rhythm guitarist quit and because I owned a guitar (but at the time was pretty much a bedroom guitarist at best if truth be known), I was thrust into that role as well as doing vocals....that was the part that made me nervous, fortunately as someone else has said you seem to somehow gain accuracy when you play live. The gig was to about 30 people in the back room of a pub, fortunately the bill was a good one so most of the crowd were well up for it, and we even had a small mosh pit going at one stage, I thoroughly enjoyed it!

ehonda

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1,483 posts

205 months

Friday 8th August 2014
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Mosh pit on your first gig! I like that.

JaymzDead

1,216 posts

200 months

Friday 8th August 2014
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Haha it was quite epic, well done on your first gig, sounds like it went well!

ehonda

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205 months

Friday 8th August 2014
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Thanks.
I'm still smiling about it, good job I'm at home today.

SingleCoil - you're right about wanting to do it again, currently planning for another open mic night in a fortnight.