Match.com (Volume 6)
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cathalferris said:
Looks like likely that she's removed her profile - I'm getting redirected to the frontpage. I had been able to see her pics there last night, maybe she got scared with the sudden interest in her profile! 
You went back for a second look 
She didn't look the type to be scared of anything, maybe someone tipped her off
Jagmanv12 said:
A question for those who have used Match.com. When they send the "someone has winked at you" or "someone has added you as a favourite". Are they genuine messages or just a sales ploy to get you to pay a subscription?
Largely the latter.. I signed up and a proportion were genuine, some were in Spain and clearly whatever the equivalent of spam is. Having used it for 3 months and not renewed, I suddenly get 3 of 4 times as many hits as I did when my subscription was active. Frankly I think its a fraud, that's not to say I didn't meet any nice people on there, I just don't think its wholly trustworthy. No big deal, its a game, so long as you know how others are playing it!Impasse said:
NRS said:
Just the news you want to hear from a person while chatting - my face is the same, but I'm a bit larger, I like sweets too much. Should sue for false advertising! Still, can see how things go since I'm passing anyway,
Well, 1950km later, one car and arriving back with the snow I can report on the girl. Actually very nice looking and not particularly big... at least not in a bad way,
However I really don't get what she was going for. Talking to her and she's got a really messed up background and seems to have trust issues which she knows. So she just wanted to talk. Which is fine, but not sure how you can build up trust like that when you'd see each other pretty rarely. So seems to have been a bit pointless. Still, I was passing by anyway so not a huge issue. See what is next, not to mention the fun of the great driving roads everywhere.Right, this isn't internet dating related but i though i'd ask anyway.
There is a girl at my work i really fancy, she's stunning, i'm besotted with her actually
The work place is a huge plant, she works in one of the offices, said hello to her in passing but dont know her name.
Awkward to start a chat in passing as she is never alone, also i would have absolutely no excuse/reason to find myself in the office where she is based.
Did chat briefly to her on Friday when she had her car on site, got lost and asked me for directions
Thought about leaving a note on the windscreen of her car, (usually parked in the off site car park) something like,
Coffee ?, Lunch ?
My number
(An Admirer)
Would this be wise ? would it work or scare her off ? (a bit stalkerish ?), more seriously could it be against some work place rule i dont know about ?
There is a girl at my work i really fancy, she's stunning, i'm besotted with her actually
The work place is a huge plant, she works in one of the offices, said hello to her in passing but dont know her name.
Awkward to start a chat in passing as she is never alone, also i would have absolutely no excuse/reason to find myself in the office where she is based.
Did chat briefly to her on Friday when she had her car on site, got lost and asked me for directions
Thought about leaving a note on the windscreen of her car, (usually parked in the off site car park) something like,
Coffee ?, Lunch ?
My number
(An Admirer)
Would this be wise ? would it work or scare her off ? (a bit stalkerish ?), more seriously could it be against some work place rule i dont know about ?
Markgenesis said:
Right, this isn't internet dating related but i though i'd ask anyway.
There is a girl at my work i really fancy, she's stunning, i'm besotted with her actually
The work place is a huge plant, she works in one of the offices, said hello to her in passing but dont know her name.
Awkward to start a chat in passing as she is never alone, also i would have absolutely no excuse/reason to find myself in the office where she is based.
Did chat briefly to her on Friday when she had her car on site, got lost and asked me for directions
Thought about leaving a note on the windscreen of her car, (usually parked in the off site car park) something like,
Coffee ?, Lunch ?
My number
(An Admirer)
Would this be wise ? would it work or scare her off ? (a bit stalkerish ?), more seriously could it be against some work place rule i dont know about ?
If you do the note thing she needs to know who it's from, sign off with your full name and remind her of who you are (the guy she spoke to on Friday).There is a girl at my work i really fancy, she's stunning, i'm besotted with her actually
The work place is a huge plant, she works in one of the offices, said hello to her in passing but dont know her name.
Awkward to start a chat in passing as she is never alone, also i would have absolutely no excuse/reason to find myself in the office where she is based.
Did chat briefly to her on Friday when she had her car on site, got lost and asked me for directions
Thought about leaving a note on the windscreen of her car, (usually parked in the off site car park) something like,
Coffee ?, Lunch ?
My number
(An Admirer)
Would this be wise ? would it work or scare her off ? (a bit stalkerish ?), more seriously could it be against some work place rule i dont know about ?
And just hope no-one else picks up the note!
Markgenesis said:
Right, this isn't internet dating related but i though i'd ask anyway.
There is a girl at my work i really fancy, she's stunning, i'm besotted with her actually
The work place is a huge plant, she works in one of the offices, said hello to her in passing but dont know her name.
Awkward to start a chat in passing as she is never alone, also i would have absolutely no excuse/reason to find myself in the office where she is based.
Did chat briefly to her on Friday when she had her car on site, got lost and asked me for directions
Thought about leaving a note on the windscreen of her car, (usually parked in the off site car park) something like,
Coffee ?, Lunch ?
My number
(An Admirer)
Would this be wise ? would it work or scare her off ? (a bit stalkerish ?), more seriously could it be against some work place rule i dont know about ?
Definitely not an anonymous note, but even if you put your name will she know who you are? Even then, she might be a bit weirded out.There is a girl at my work i really fancy, she's stunning, i'm besotted with her actually
The work place is a huge plant, she works in one of the offices, said hello to her in passing but dont know her name.
Awkward to start a chat in passing as she is never alone, also i would have absolutely no excuse/reason to find myself in the office where she is based.
Did chat briefly to her on Friday when she had her car on site, got lost and asked me for directions
Thought about leaving a note on the windscreen of her car, (usually parked in the off site car park) something like,
Coffee ?, Lunch ?
My number
(An Admirer)
Would this be wise ? would it work or scare her off ? (a bit stalkerish ?), more seriously could it be against some work place rule i dont know about ?
Next time you see her, maybe just say (half jokingly) "You owe me a coffee for those directions the other day!" Her reaction should give you a clue if she is interested.
mjb1 said:
Definitely not an anonymous note, but even if you put your name will she know who you are? Even then, she might be a bit weirded out.
Next time you see her, maybe just say (half jokingly) "You owe me a coffee for those directions the other day!" Her reaction should give you a clue if she is interested.
She doesn't know my name and i dont know her's, was going to introduce myself if she phoned/TXT'd, thinking about it the note on her windscreen would be a bit weird.Next time you see her, maybe just say (half jokingly) "You owe me a coffee for those directions the other day!" Her reaction should give you a clue if she is interested.
Trouble with getting chatting to her is she's almost always in company, chatting to them usually so can't just but in.
No idea of her personal situation either, could be married, spoken for, she's not been in the place long though and i have a feeling she's temporary.
ShyTallKnight said:
Does she have your mobile number and vice versa..??
No, when i said that i was replying to mjb1's post when he mentioned leaving my name on the note, i figured it would be no use as she doesn't know my name anyway, was going to say who i was when (if) she got in touch after finding my note.Actually i may forget the note, just carry on grinning like an idiot when i see her
Good man.IanMorewood said:
Man the F up and go see her, about lunch time pop up to the offices and ask if she would like to go get a sarnie/coffee/beer/bag of chips with you.
Love to be able to do that but like i said there is absolutely no reason/excuse for me to be in her office building (i'd have been in there already), everyone knows the job i do so i'd spark suspicion/a security alert right away.Don1's plan of following her home is sounding less bonkers the more i think about it
Or i could nip out at lunch time, stab one of her tyres, then at finishing time leap out like a knight in shining armour and offer to change it.
Better still stab two tyres and offer her a lift home
k up and talk to her. And try not say silly things like 'besotted with her' until you actually know her...Gassing Station | The Lounge | Top of Page | What's New | My Stuff