Match.com (Volume 6)
Discussion
anonymous said:
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No she is definitely fit, I have access to her facebook and Instragram and she sends me cheeky selfies as we text. I am definitely punching above my weight. AdamIndy said:
I am very inexperienced with the whole online dating thing but I have just been messaging a girl, 3 messages on match, swapped numbers, texted a bit for a week. She wanted to meet, I couldn't due to work. We went for dinner on Tuesday night was very pleasant. Went out again last night, dinner and cinema knew each other a little better after the first night and it was great! Had a really great night, lots of laughs, no shortage of conversation. She then came back to mine for coffee, chatted until the wee small hours then she went home. We're now arranging to go out again. We're both slow movers I think.
I too was unsure what she was like, as you say, it's tough when just messaging but she genuinely is a lovely person, just a bit shy at first. Texting is the done thing now so I wouldn't rule anyone out because of that. The only way to know is to meet them. You may be as surprised as I was. If it's a no goer, then on to the next.
If it's just a ride you are after then no response quickly then move on or pay someone, it will be cheaper, if you want something more meaningful then go with it, good things come to those who wait etc.
DISCLAIMER: this is just my experience. You may meet a maniac with a knife in her bag! I also may be talking absolute b
ks!
Hey, thanks for that.I too was unsure what she was like, as you say, it's tough when just messaging but she genuinely is a lovely person, just a bit shy at first. Texting is the done thing now so I wouldn't rule anyone out because of that. The only way to know is to meet them. You may be as surprised as I was. If it's a no goer, then on to the next.
If it's just a ride you are after then no response quickly then move on or pay someone, it will be cheaper, if you want something more meaningful then go with it, good things come to those who wait etc.
DISCLAIMER: this is just my experience. You may meet a maniac with a knife in her bag! I also may be talking absolute b
ks!Maybe I have wrongly been rushing previous girls who wanted to text more. I dont mind it as such but as I said earlier its hard to show emotion in text, I much prefer a phone call.
And if it all goes pear shaped... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-KGfp2aTnHs
SkinnyPete said:
anonymous said:
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No she is definitely fit, I have access to her facebook and Instragram and she sends me cheeky selfies as we text. I am definitely punching above my weight. AdamIndy said:
I am very inexperienced with the whole online dating thing but I have just been messaging a girl, 3 messages on match, swapped numbers, texted a bit for a week. She wanted to meet, I couldn't due to work. We went for dinner on Tuesday night was very pleasant. Went out again last night, dinner and cinema knew each other a little better after the first night and it was great! Had a really great night, lots of laughs, no shortage of conversation. She then came back to mine for coffee, chatted until the wee small hours then she went home. We're now arranging to go out again. We're both slow movers I think.
I too was unsure what she was like, as you say, it's tough when just messaging but she genuinely is a lovely person, just a bit shy at first. Texting is the done thing now so I wouldn't rule anyone out because of that. The only way to know is to meet them. You may be as surprised as I was. If it's a no goer, then on to the next.
If it's just a ride you are after then no response quickly then move on or pay someone, it will be cheaper, if you want something more meaningful then go with it, good things come to those who wait etc.
DISCLAIMER: this is just my experience. You may meet a maniac with a knife in her bag! I also may be talking absolute bks!
Hey, thanks for that.I too was unsure what she was like, as you say, it's tough when just messaging but she genuinely is a lovely person, just a bit shy at first. Texting is the done thing now so I wouldn't rule anyone out because of that. The only way to know is to meet them. You may be as surprised as I was. If it's a no goer, then on to the next.
If it's just a ride you are after then no response quickly then move on or pay someone, it will be cheaper, if you want something more meaningful then go with it, good things come to those who wait etc.
DISCLAIMER: this is just my experience. You may meet a maniac with a knife in her bag! I also may be talking absolute b
ks!Maybe I have wrongly been rushing previous girls who wanted to text more. I dont mind it as such but as I said earlier its hard to show emotion in text, I much prefer a phone call.
I would have rather chatted on the phone too, but I just think that texting is just the done thing. It's not so bad really as you just can't have awkward silences. No fun for both involved. It is difficult with emotion etc as I'm sure you know, it's much easier face to face to read someone.
I'd say get her out for a meal or film or whatever. Within an hour you will know whether she's worth your time or not. Worst comes to worst you have lost an hour or 2 of your time and a few quid. On the flip side you could meet the woman of your dreams. That's how I went into it anyway!
The girl I met seemed very cold through texting, didn't seem to have much sense of humour and never gave much away. We set up a date and I couldn't have been more wrong. She was very funny, very honest and very intelligent(scarily so). We chatted to the point that we were the last people in the restaurant(neither of us realised this) and were told if we don't leave in the next 10 mins, we were doing the washing up!
anonymous said:
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You are?! :ashamed: sorry! Last night a guy wouldn't believe I was any older than 27, which was nice. And then I was told I didn't look my age (33) I looked a lot younger, by another chap. When I told him my actually age his face was a picture.
It had to be a mind set. Not that I can't be mature and wise. On occasion.
I've often wondered what attracts you to this thread Tonker? As am of the opinion you're a happily married family man.
I don't warvh TV, but imagine this to be your Jeremy Kyle/Eastenders equivalent. A car crash of a real life soap opera.
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Gretchen said:
8. The one previously a solid 11. The one since 6. Three in 24 hours isn't brilliant. You can tell winter is coming in.
Are these marks for the pictures of cocks?Have these men actually finally found the one woman across all these sites who actually wants a picture of a cock?
blindswelledrat said:
Gretchen said:
8. The one previously a solid 11. The one since 6. Three in 24 hours isn't brilliant. You can tell winter is coming in.
Are these marks for the pictures of cocks?Have these men actually finally found the one woman across all these sites who actually wants a picture of a cock?
i've taken the same stance. 
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