Refusing a Barber

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RDJ

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7,251 posts

233 months

Monday 1st September 2014
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Two out of three of my last haircuts have been st!

My local barbers employs approx. 4 barbers.

One of them appears to be st.

On the first occasion he cut my hair it looked as if someone had glued chocolate shreddies to my head.

Being British I didn't like to complain but vowed (to myself)never to go back there.

However, when the time came for my next cut I wandered past and noticed he wasn't there so went in. I had a great cut by one of the other staff. The difference was like chalk and cheese.

Couple of months passed and a cut was due again. I checked through the window and again he wasn't there. I assumed they'd got rid of him. But as I walked in through the door my heart sank when he appeared from behind a curtain and swiftly guided me to a seat. I was too embarrassed to refuse him.

I explained to him that I am trying to grow my hair out so just wanted it tidied up.

It was utter carnage.

It was as if he did the mirror opposite of what I asked him to do. I told him to leave the sideburns; he took them off. I told him to taper the back; he cut it square. I came out of there almost in tears and looking like Barney Rubble.

So there lies my predicament. It's time for another trim (to get rid of his handy work). They are my nearest Barber and they open late which fits in with my work.

Would it be reasonable to refuse him and insist on the other guy who knows how to cut hair? and how should I word it?




Jonjo91

1,834 posts

158 months

Monday 1st September 2014
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If possible, phone ahead and book an appointment with the chap that can cut hair?

MrBarry123

6,027 posts

121 months

Monday 1st September 2014
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Got any pictures so we can survey the damage? laugh

BrabusMog

20,139 posts

186 months

Monday 1st September 2014
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Is this a serious question?! Just point at the one you like and say you want that person to cut your hair. Jesus.

Magog

2,652 posts

189 months

Monday 1st September 2014
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You need to find out the name of the guy who did a good job, and then you can ring beforehand and book an appointment with him.

Maybe ring up, and ask for 'the same guy who did my hair before, I dont know his name, but he looked like... then describe him' then book the appointment...

Or get your hair cut somewhere else...

No need to thank me.

CedGTV

2,538 posts

254 months

Monday 1st September 2014
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I know exactly what you mean.

Had the same trouble in a favorite place I used to go to.

Voted with my feet, found a new place and quiet like the 'new guy' service I get there.


Studio117

4,250 posts

191 months

Monday 1st September 2014
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Perhaps ask your mother to tell the barber what she wants?

steveatesh

4,896 posts

164 months

Monday 1st September 2014
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BrabusMog said:
Is this a serious question?! Just point at the one you like and say you want that person to cut your hair. Jesus.
This.

While there don't forget to ask for permission to go to the toilet if you need to.

anonymous-user

54 months

Monday 1st September 2014
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BrabusMog said:
Is this a serious question?! Just point at the one you like and say you want that person to cut your hair. Jesus.
This with fking big bells on.

OP - grow a pair and just ask for the guy who's not a useless twonk. No one will care.

RDJ

Original Poster:

7,251 posts

233 months

Monday 1st September 2014
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steveatesh said:
BrabusMog said:
Is this a serious question?! Just point at the one you like and say you want that person to cut your hair. Jesus.
This.

While there don't forget to ask for permission to go to the toilet if you need to.
You see this where I struggle frown I hate offending anyone

Ray Luxury-Yacht

8,910 posts

216 months

Monday 1st September 2014
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Back in 2007, I set up a brand-new Hairdressing, Beauty, Tanning and Nail Salon, in a fairly wealthy City.

It actually went ok in the end, and I sold the business 4 years later for a decent profit.

However. One thing that did become frightfully clear, very quickly, was the amount of competition in hairdressing - both male and female.

Salons seem to spring up like weeds on a lawn. There was one point where I would reckon that an average punter was no more than 2 minutes' walk away from a salon, wherever they were in town.

Anyway, the point of my post is that after reading your OP, my immediate thought was that you probably have no reason to suffer a poor hairdresser / barber, and that if you spend 5 minutes on Google, you'll probably find a million other places in the vicinity that would suit your needs better.

Don't put up with it! Don't go back! biggrin


.:ian:.

1,930 posts

203 months

Monday 1st September 2014
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Studio117 said:
Perhaps ask your mother to cut your hair for you?

BrabusMog

20,139 posts

186 months

Monday 1st September 2014
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They really won't care or be offended. And if they are, fk them, they've caused you an issue by giving you two ste haircuts.

technodup

7,579 posts

130 months

Monday 1st September 2014
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Get a proper man's haircut. It's impossible to fk up a number zero, just keep going til it's all gone.


RDJ

Original Poster:

7,251 posts

233 months

Monday 1st September 2014
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garyhun said:
BrabusMog said:
Is this a serious question?! Just point at the one you like and say you want that person to cut your hair. Jesus.
This with fking big bells on.

OP - grow a pair and just ask for the guy who's not a useless twonk. No one will care.
Well I would say he would care when I refuse his invitation to a seat. He's very friendly and greets you with a handshake and everything.

Studio117

4,250 posts

191 months

Monday 1st September 2014
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hehe

BrabusMog

20,139 posts

186 months

Monday 1st September 2014
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Ok I'm calling wind up now, this can't be serious hehe

PHmember

2,487 posts

171 months

Monday 1st September 2014
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BrabusMog said:
Is this a serious question?! Just point at the one you like and say you want that person to cut your hair. Jesus.
^This^

You might want to ask if they can wax your vagina as well.

RDJ

Original Poster:

7,251 posts

233 months

Monday 1st September 2014
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PHmember said:
BrabusMog said:
Is this a serious question?! Just point at the one you like and say you want that person to cut your hair. Jesus.
^This^

You might want to ask if they can wax your vagina as well.
I shouldn't but rofl

PHmember

2,487 posts

171 months

Monday 1st September 2014
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smile