different rules for the girlfriend

different rules for the girlfriend

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The Moose

22,820 posts

208 months

Saturday 20th December 2014
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So, what happened?!

gangzoom

6,251 posts

214 months

Saturday 20th December 2014
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Others say trust is the biggest thing.

My wife told me she found it halrious when some random came up to her on her hen party and claimed to be stripper. By the sounds of it the guy had a massive dent to his ego when her and friends just told him to stop harassing them. But trust isn't build up in a day, it was only after we got married she told me how her ex had been trying to get in contact etc...

Obviously though the trust thing has limits....mainly in regards to amount spent on modifications for the cars smile

hajaba123

1,302 posts

174 months

Saturday 20th December 2014
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The Moose said:
So, what happened?!
OP drowned

kiseca

9,339 posts

218 months

Saturday 20th December 2014
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OP, just get on and do what you want. If you fancy going to strip clubs at stag dos then just do it and don't bother mentioning it. Be yourself and she either puts up or moves on. Life's too short to compromise too much especially for someone who themselves will not.

Oh and watch out for overly jealous and possessive types. They are often the ones most likely to cheat and that's why it's always the first thought that comes into their head when you do something out of the ordinary like come home half an hour late or something. They think you must be cheating because it's what they'd be doing.

So be nice and loving and all that but don't give up any ground. You won't get it back in five years or whatever because she then 'trusts' you, by then she'd have only have found five more years worth of reasons not to. Just don't cheat, and be honest with yourself.

pork911

7,086 posts

182 months

Saturday 20th December 2014
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trust isn't the absence of opportunity but it can indicate the presence of ugliness wink

Justices

3,681 posts

163 months

Saturday 20th December 2014
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Urban Sports said:
Was he serving hotdogs?
Also check if his name is Nick. If so, do not attempt to take the hotdog from the serving tray or get into a tug-of-war with it.

Urban Sports

11,321 posts

202 months

Saturday 20th December 2014
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Justices said:
Urban Sports said:
Was he serving hotdogs?
Also check if his name is Nick. If so, do not attempt to take the hotdog from the serving tray or get into a tug-of-war with it.
hehe


http://youtu.be/AxOXMR2OXEM

4941cc

25,867 posts

205 months

Saturday 20th December 2014
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jamest1988 said:
A. I've seen enough videos on z hamster to know what goes on at "stripper parties"
That's not a documentary channel, so far as I'm aware.

jamest1988 said:
one rule for her and another for me.
Correct. Different rules in similar situations, because men and women quite often behave differently. Accept it, or date men*.

jamest1988 said:
What should my next course of action be?
Nothing.

*Or don't. Apparently they're even worse at double standards.

Rick101

6,959 posts

149 months

Saturday 20th December 2014
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hora said:
OP she probably feels very embarrassed but as its a works do (politics etc) she may feel pressured to tow the line.
That's exactly how I felt when I had to eat a banana out of a strippers unmentionables.

Mobile Chicane

20,735 posts

211 months

Saturday 20th December 2014
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I've been dragged along to such an event on a works do/hen night.

The 'highlight' of the evening was when the ropiest, ugliest stripper got his cock out and dipped it in my colleague's drink.

hurl

Kaj91

4,705 posts

120 months

Saturday 20th December 2014
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The Moose said:
So, what happened?!
He'll tell us as soon as she comes home.

n_const

1,707 posts

200 months

Saturday 20th December 2014
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jamest1988 said:
A. I've seen enough videos on z hamster to know what goes on at "stripper parties"
Isnt it X hamster ............. ?

jonah35

3,940 posts

156 months

Saturday 20th December 2014
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Wow, you sound jealous.

You do what you want, let her do what she wants.

If you can't cope then you aren't for each other

DanielSan

18,745 posts

166 months

Saturday 20th December 2014
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hora said:
OP she probably feels very embarrassed but as its a works do (politics etc) she may feel pressured to tow the line. If she uploaded the pic OR made a comment/post then its different.

Don't hold it against her. Why would a decent girl shag a stripper? Blokes however are Tom cats.
I'd say women can be as bad if not worse than blokes to be honest, I certainly know more girls that have cheated on their partners than blokes that have.

singlecoil

33,309 posts

245 months

Saturday 20th December 2014
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On more than one occasion I have observed that individual women in a group, especially a drunken group, will do things they would never do on their own.

blueg33

35,574 posts

223 months

Saturday 20th December 2014
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Its all down to trust

Mr Mrs and ger mates arranged a ladies evening in the loacl village hall. They had male strippers and it would be fair to say from the videos that the strippers were excited.......... (or at least aided by rubber bands)

In one vid, my wife rubs a strippers chest and he puts his Welsh flag over her head whilt pulling her towrads his groin. I can tell by her screams on the vid that she didnt do what he had in mind (he was lucky not to get bitten)

I am cool with all of that, she told me she was going, she showed me the vids and pics

As part of entertainment in the development industry a few years ago, lap dancing nights were fairly common, I always told her I was going and she had no objection (note, I am not a fan of stripper sphincters)

As for one rule for them and one for you..............well yeah, Duh. Youa re not going to hange that, they are all mental

hairyben

8,516 posts

182 months

Sunday 21st December 2014
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hora said:
OP she probably feels very embarrassed but as its a works do (politics etc) she may feel pressured to tow the line. If she uploaded the pic OR made a comment/post then its different.

Don't hold it against her. Why would a decent girl shag a stripper? Blokes however are Tom cats.
Maybe OP felt pressured to go with the flow and visit the strip club on his mates stag rather than be seen as the killjoy.

She's allowed not to like it, but seems a bit insecure to berate him for it in that particular circumstance.

cayman-black

12,624 posts

215 months

Sunday 21st December 2014
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This reminds me of a story in spain where the wife on her hen night shagged a midget and had his kid.
9 months later the husband found out what happened. st.

Vixpy1

42,620 posts

263 months

Sunday 21st December 2014
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cayman-black said:
This reminds me of a story in spain where the wife on her hen night shagged a midget and had his kid.
9 months later the husband found out what happened. st.
Not Big, Not Clever

themanwithnoname

1,634 posts

212 months

Sunday 21st December 2014
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Vixpy1 said:
Not Big, Not Clever
I'll be needing a ticket to hell.. laughlaugh