different rules for the girlfriend
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Others say trust is the biggest thing.
My wife told me she found it halrious when some random came up to her on her hen party and claimed to be stripper. By the sounds of it the guy had a massive dent to his ego when her and friends just told him to stop harassing them. But trust isn't build up in a day, it was only after we got married she told me how her ex had been trying to get in contact etc...
Obviously though the trust thing has limits....mainly in regards to amount spent on modifications for the cars
My wife told me she found it halrious when some random came up to her on her hen party and claimed to be stripper. By the sounds of it the guy had a massive dent to his ego when her and friends just told him to stop harassing them. But trust isn't build up in a day, it was only after we got married she told me how her ex had been trying to get in contact etc...
Obviously though the trust thing has limits....mainly in regards to amount spent on modifications for the cars
OP, just get on and do what you want. If you fancy going to strip clubs at stag dos then just do it and don't bother mentioning it. Be yourself and she either puts up or moves on. Life's too short to compromise too much especially for someone who themselves will not.
Oh and watch out for overly jealous and possessive types. They are often the ones most likely to cheat and that's why it's always the first thought that comes into their head when you do something out of the ordinary like come home half an hour late or something. They think you must be cheating because it's what they'd be doing.
So be nice and loving and all that but don't give up any ground. You won't get it back in five years or whatever because she then 'trusts' you, by then she'd have only have found five more years worth of reasons not to. Just don't cheat, and be honest with yourself.
Oh and watch out for overly jealous and possessive types. They are often the ones most likely to cheat and that's why it's always the first thought that comes into their head when you do something out of the ordinary like come home half an hour late or something. They think you must be cheating because it's what they'd be doing.
So be nice and loving and all that but don't give up any ground. You won't get it back in five years or whatever because she then 'trusts' you, by then she'd have only have found five more years worth of reasons not to. Just don't cheat, and be honest with yourself.
Justices said:
Urban Sports said:
Was he serving hotdogs?
Also check if his name is Nick. If so, do not attempt to take the hotdog from the serving tray or get into a tug-of-war with it.http://youtu.be/AxOXMR2OXEM
jamest1988 said:
A. I've seen enough videos on z hamster to know what goes on at "stripper parties"
That's not a documentary channel, so far as I'm aware. jamest1988 said:
one rule for her and another for me.
Correct. Different rules in similar situations, because men and women quite often behave differently. Accept it, or date men*. jamest1988 said:
What should my next course of action be?
Nothing.*Or don't. Apparently they're even worse at double standards.
hora said:
OP she probably feels very embarrassed but as its a works do (politics etc) she may feel pressured to tow the line. If she uploaded the pic OR made a comment/post then its different.
Don't hold it against her. Why would a decent girl shag a stripper? Blokes however are Tom cats.
I'd say women can be as bad if not worse than blokes to be honest, I certainly know more girls that have cheated on their partners than blokes that have. Don't hold it against her. Why would a decent girl shag a stripper? Blokes however are Tom cats.
Its all down to trust
Mr Mrs and ger mates arranged a ladies evening in the loacl village hall. They had male strippers and it would be fair to say from the videos that the strippers were excited.......... (or at least aided by rubber bands)
In one vid, my wife rubs a strippers chest and he puts his Welsh flag over her head whilt pulling her towrads his groin. I can tell by her screams on the vid that she didnt do what he had in mind (he was lucky not to get bitten)
I am cool with all of that, she told me she was going, she showed me the vids and pics
As part of entertainment in the development industry a few years ago, lap dancing nights were fairly common, I always told her I was going and she had no objection (note, I am not a fan of stripper sphincters)
As for one rule for them and one for you..............well yeah, Duh. Youa re not going to hange that, they are all mental
Mr Mrs and ger mates arranged a ladies evening in the loacl village hall. They had male strippers and it would be fair to say from the videos that the strippers were excited.......... (or at least aided by rubber bands)
In one vid, my wife rubs a strippers chest and he puts his Welsh flag over her head whilt pulling her towrads his groin. I can tell by her screams on the vid that she didnt do what he had in mind (he was lucky not to get bitten)
I am cool with all of that, she told me she was going, she showed me the vids and pics
As part of entertainment in the development industry a few years ago, lap dancing nights were fairly common, I always told her I was going and she had no objection (note, I am not a fan of stripper sphincters)
As for one rule for them and one for you..............well yeah, Duh. Youa re not going to hange that, they are all mental
hora said:
OP she probably feels very embarrassed but as its a works do (politics etc) she may feel pressured to tow the line. If she uploaded the pic OR made a comment/post then its different.
Don't hold it against her. Why would a decent girl shag a stripper? Blokes however are Tom cats.
Maybe OP felt pressured to go with the flow and visit the strip club on his mates stag rather than be seen as the killjoy.Don't hold it against her. Why would a decent girl shag a stripper? Blokes however are Tom cats.
She's allowed not to like it, but seems a bit insecure to berate him for it in that particular circumstance.
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