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dieseluser07

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2,452 posts

116 months

Sunday 22nd March 2015
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Hi all

Got an interview at my current place of work for a senior position, ive worked hard and told them i want the job.

Problem is after telling them and others i want this job ive just been contacted by another company wanting to discuss a job offer which will pay more.

Now is it immoral, that if i got offered the job at my place i initially accepted until i spoke to this other company as i cant make the decision in 2 days

rog007

5,759 posts

224 months

Sunday 22nd March 2015
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I'd continue on my chosen path and be happy to discuss any offers in the interim. Until one of those offers becomes real with a contract that needs signing, then they remain discussions. Good luck!

dieseluser07

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116 months

Sunday 22nd March 2015
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rog007 said:
I'd continue on my chosen path and be happy to discuss any offers in the interim. Until one of those offers becomes real with a contract that needs signing, then they remain discussions. Good luck!
So accept the offer if offered and then get in negotiations with the other company and then possibly tell my boss one month down the line ive changed my mind?

boxst

3,716 posts

145 months

Sunday 22nd March 2015
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dieseluser07 said:
So accept the offer if offered and then get in negotiations with the other company and then possibly tell my boss one month down the line ive changed my mind?
Yes. Although the few times it has happened where I worked it was understandably not looked on favourably.

Depends how small the industry is and whether you want to burn bridges with your current company.

Countdown

39,854 posts

196 months

Sunday 22nd March 2015
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dieseluser07 said:
Now is it immoral, that if i got offered the job at my place i initially accepted until i spoke to this other company as i cant make the decision in 2 days
It's not immoral. At the end of the day your primary responsibility is to your friends/family. What you have to weigh up is the "risk" of the new job not materialising (thereby putting you in an awkward position with your current boss/colleagues) against the reward of more pay/better prospects.

dieseluser07

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2,452 posts

116 months

Sunday 22nd March 2015
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The company i would be leaving supplies this area so ideally would not want to burn bridges

The job i would go to would have me deskilling and doing travelling couple of days a week but is about 7000 more a year so i was thinking of doing it while im young

DSLiverpool

14,741 posts

202 months

Sunday 22nd March 2015
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boxst said:
dieseluser07 said:
So accept the offer if offered and then get in negotiations with the other company and then possibly tell my boss one month down the line ive changed my mind?
Yes. Although the few times it has happened where I worked it was understandably not looked on favourably.

Depends how small the industry is and whether you want to burn bridges with your current company.
This plus look after number 1 always!

dieseluser07

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116 months

Sunday 22nd March 2015
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My main concern is burning bridges but im not going to be able to know the other jobs contract is ok and everything for at least a few weeks

DSLiverpool

14,741 posts

202 months

Sunday 22nd March 2015
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dieseluser07 said:
My main concern is burning bridges but im not going to be able to know the other jobs contract is ok and everything for at least a few weeks
Proceed with current company as if new opportunity doesn't exist until the day you need to leave

dieseluser07

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Sunday 22nd March 2015
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DSLiverpool said:
Proceed with current company as if new opportunity doesn't exist until the day you need to leave
Is that not burning bridges though at that will take about a month and they would have to readvertise

DSLiverpool

14,741 posts

202 months

Sunday 22nd March 2015
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dieseluser07 said:
DSLiverpool said:
Proceed with current company as if new opportunity doesn't exist until the day you need to leave
Is that not burning bridges though at that will take about a month and they would have to readvertise
If you need / want to go back then obviously don't do that but sentiment and business seldom go hand in hand. Tell your current employer nothing as it may backfire more than if you do tell them

dieseluser07

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2,452 posts

116 months

Sunday 22nd March 2015
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DSLiverpool said:
If you need / want to go back then obviously don't do that but sentiment and business seldom go hand in hand. Tell your current employer nothing as it may backfire more than if you do tell them
Well i dont know what my future plans are but obviously they supply this region

Some Gump

12,688 posts

186 months

Sunday 22nd March 2015
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OP,

Continue on current path with empolyer. Talk to alternative. IF they want you, and IF you want them, you then have options - the discussion starts with current employer stating soundly that the process began BEFORE current employer gave you a promotion.
If your manager is rational, they will understand that you would have not looked elsewhere if they'd got their finger out. You can then either squeeze them for more money "like it here and want to stay but the pay gap is huge and the missus / my dad / my dog is giving me hell about it", or you just up and leave.

Read any business magazine, Forbes and whatnot and you'll see that in 99% of cases, the way to bigger salaries is to move around. You won't be blacklisted anywhere, and once on a bigger ticket you tend to stay there...

jammy_basturd

29,778 posts

212 months

Sunday 22nd March 2015
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Taking money out of the equation which job would you prefer to have?

slow_poke

1,855 posts

234 months

Sunday 22nd March 2015
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How long and how hard would your current Co fight to retain you in their employment, if their business needs dictated they get rid of you?

Yeah.

Look after No 1, nobody else is going to.

sidicks

25,218 posts

221 months

Sunday 22nd March 2015
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jammy_basturd said:
Taking money out of the equation which job would you prefer to have?
Indeed.

Of course for most people money has to be a factor, but having a job that you enjoy working with good people is worth an awful lot!!

dieseluser07

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2,452 posts

116 months

Sunday 22nd March 2015
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sidicks said:
Indeed.

Of course for most people money has to be a factor, but having a job that you enjoy working with good people is worth an awful lot!!
Well i wont be speaking to this other employer until after my interview so i could say i got approached afterwards

Well the job will be more boring but itll be an easier/hell of a lot less stressfull job but travelling, 3 days away from home 4 days at home

jammy_basturd

29,778 posts

212 months

Sunday 22nd March 2015
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So which one would you want?!

My point being, could you speak to your current employer about matching (or nearly matching) the salary on offer from the other company and you'd be happy to stay?

dieseluser07

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2,452 posts

116 months

Sunday 22nd March 2015
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jammy_basturd said:
So which one would you want?!

My point being, could you speak to your current employer about matching (or nearly matching) the salary on offer from the other company and you'd be happy to stay?
I know what the pay is like at my company they pay low in comparison to the competing company so they would not match the other salary.

Job wise i dont know to be honest one is worse paid/more stressfull but close to home, the other is better paid easier but most likely more boring and i would travel 3 days and home for 4

STW2010

5,732 posts

162 months

Monday 23rd March 2015
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dieseluser07 said:
I know what the pay is like at my company they pay low in comparison to the competing company so they would not match the other salary.

Job wise i dont know to be honest one is worse paid/more stressfull but close to home, the other is better paid easier but most likely more boring and i would travel 3 days and home for 4
That would kill it off for me, as I get bored too easily as it is.

What is the difference in salary? Are we talking £1-2k, or is it more like 20% difference?