Seperation Advice Needed
Discussion
Before I go down this route of a amicable split. I need to speak to someone regarding safe guarding properties I had in my name before marriage or given to me in my name whilst married.
I know that things can get not so amicable when third parties get involved. Is there a form
To get signed or a ten plate letter that is worth getting signed to renounce any future intention to chase any financial gain from this properties.
I'm based in Windsor, Any input for a name / company would be greatly appriecated
BH
I know that things can get not so amicable when third parties get involved. Is there a form
To get signed or a ten plate letter that is worth getting signed to renounce any future intention to chase any financial gain from this properties.
I'm based in Windsor, Any input for a name / company would be greatly appriecated
BH
Ouch,
Just weighting up the pros and cons, two children 4 - 8 both work just 'not in Love' and tend to be grieving for a life that used to have eg a relationship / flirting etc
Just coexisting with no talking / intimacy (not that I want) it seems that risk of loosing a wife I am loosing a friend. I hear that they don't like to go to a downgrade and just want a friendship.
No betrayal, No third party just no longer in love with person (for a few years now) and at 44 don't know to do suck it up and make sure the kids are balanced / happy and just think thats my lot.
Don't enjoy birthdays / holidays / Xmas as supposed to be 'feeling' something but not and all that event does is highlight it.
Often thought worse to be lonely in a relationship than lonely and single. But such a financial penalty for someone turning into someone you don't fancy
Just weighting up the pros and cons, two children 4 - 8 both work just 'not in Love' and tend to be grieving for a life that used to have eg a relationship / flirting etc
Just coexisting with no talking / intimacy (not that I want) it seems that risk of loosing a wife I am loosing a friend. I hear that they don't like to go to a downgrade and just want a friendship.
No betrayal, No third party just no longer in love with person (for a few years now) and at 44 don't know to do suck it up and make sure the kids are balanced / happy and just think thats my lot.
Don't enjoy birthdays / holidays / Xmas as supposed to be 'feeling' something but not and all that event does is highlight it.
Often thought worse to be lonely in a relationship than lonely and single. But such a financial penalty for someone turning into someone you don't fancy
Thank you,
Good points raised, My youngest is a boy - I have a dad but no relationship at all he was just a pub stalker / alcoholic who valued pub 'new' friends rather than family / family time.
I don't want that negative influence on me to affect my children etc, Hence the key is keeping the communication / friendship with the mum. admittedly easier said than done if 3rd parties get involved further down the line.
You met each other as friend then lovers then man / wife, Hard to go to friends i guess. Reminds me of that line or lyric - its amazing that someone who has just ripped your heart out want to still be a 'friend' I'm sure we all have experience of that nugget.
Good points raised, My youngest is a boy - I have a dad but no relationship at all he was just a pub stalker / alcoholic who valued pub 'new' friends rather than family / family time.
I don't want that negative influence on me to affect my children etc, Hence the key is keeping the communication / friendship with the mum. admittedly easier said than done if 3rd parties get involved further down the line.
You met each other as friend then lovers then man / wife, Hard to go to friends i guess. Reminds me of that line or lyric - its amazing that someone who has just ripped your heart out want to still be a 'friend' I'm sure we all have experience of that nugget.
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