Meals on wheels

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guillemot

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Friday 21st November 2014
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Not sure if this is in the right place, so mods please move if necessary.

I have very elderly grandparents who aren't really coping. For some time we've been dropping in and leaving food, doing odd bits, but like most they are very proud, and won't admit/accept help - which I do understand. As much as I'd like them to be somewhere warmer (they don't like putting the heating on!) with people on hand and food provided, I wholly understand they want to stay in their own house.

Last weekend, they had their AGA serviced, and the chap did something wrong which meant the oven wasn't working (nor the heating, but that's another thing), meaning their only option was cold food, or using the elctric cooker. They've not used the electric cooker recently enough to remember how to use it, and it gave them a massive confidence shock, depressing to see.

That said, I'm hoping they're now in a place where they might take some food in if we were to send rather than take our own 'leftovers', but I suspect I'll only have one chance to get it right! So, my question is does anyone have experience of using a similar service, and how nice are they? Which firms do decent food, and are the adverts on TV to be believed in that they're tasty. Grandad would want calorific stuff, 'English' stuff, etc.

Thanks in advance for any experiences, good or bad!

guillemot

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325 posts

166 months

Friday 21st November 2014
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I know, but they are a couple of hours away (and won't budge) and I think it really has to be completely ready 'meals' rather reheating various bits and actually having some input into it if that makes sense? They also would like control over it long term themselves I think - talking about payments etc here, and tesco and Morrisons delieveries have worked well for us in the past but they don't see it as sustainable as we have to order/pay which I think they don't like!
We've been taking bits like that in, but unless it all goes in one place for a certain amount of time it just seems to be too much.
Really they need to be somewhere with help, but I want to try and sort some food first as they're quite lucid and won't entertain moving...

guillemot

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325 posts

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Friday 21st November 2014
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I'm talking Essex - would a picky, belligerant, contrary 94-year old eat them? wink

guillemot

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Friday 21st November 2014
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That's what I'm looking for, thanks - I wondered whether Wiltshire farm foods are as good as they claim! I guess perhaps the answer is to try them myself.

guillemot

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325 posts

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Friday 21st November 2014
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Good to know - thanks, might give it a go then. smile

guillemot

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325 posts

166 months

Saturday 22nd November 2014
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They're not keen on microwaves, never had one and don't really understand how they work and wouldn't entertain one! Like I said, picky! wink they really need to be somewhere that they can access hot meals as and when needed but they won't have that currently - that's the next conversation!