different rules for the girlfriend

[jamest1988]

A little help from those gentlemen with more life experience would be greatly appreciated...

Girlfriend is on a work do with a friend, said friend uploads a picture of the back of a "naked waiter" which is a feature of the works do. Girlfriend failed to mention this, I don't have a particular problem with this besides the fact that:

A. I've seen enough videos on z hamster to know what goes on at "stripper parties"

B. The one time I visited a strip club (with friends on a stag do) she went mental

I don't think (hope) she's giving the entertainment any help with excess squirty cream but I cant see a difference between a naked waiter and a stripper.

What should my next course of action be, I don't really care that she's there, just the fact that there seems to be one rule for her and another for me. Should I act hurt to make her feel guilty and possible do things she normally doesn't do, trade her in for a younger model, or act like a grown up and talk about my feelings?

any input greatly appreciated.

James

[jamest1988]

I trust her completely I just don't like that its OK for her and not for me, maybe I'm not as trustworthy as I thought!

[jamest1988]

P I Staker said:

Say nothing. Keep it in memory and use it in your defense in future.

I like this idea a lot!! that's my kind of thinking!

[jamest1988]

goldblum said:

Don't mention it to her. Why the hell did you tell her you went to a stripper,stag do or not? You deserve all you get just for that mistake. She'll never trust you again now and she'll certainly never tire of bringing it up at inopportune moments.

Fair point, I was working on the "honesty is the best policy" thing, no falling for that one again! That's what irks me the most, no one goes to a party and is surprised to see a naked waiter, I'm sure it was one of the selling points and she "forgot" to mention it.

[jamest1988]

ArsE92 said:

A naked waiter is very different to a stripper.

A stripper will get completely naked for you and show you her sphincter if you like. If you give her enough cash.

These naked waiter chaps just walk around the venue serving drinks all night with fat old birds propositioning them every ten minutes.

so the only difference is the extent to which the cheeks are parted? is there a spread to overall width ratio at which is becomes unacceptable?

[jamest1988]

Sorry for the delay folks! Thought I’d provide a quick update.
First off, I wasn't worried anything might happen at the party, I was just couldn't understand that there seems to be one rule for one and another rule for her.
When she came home I was impressed she mentioned this waiter before I even asked about it, obviously she didn't think it was worth hiding anything. Second, the point she made (and I can sort of see where she’s coming from) is that having a naked man, pretty much covered up and wondering around serving drinks to a room full of women is different from paying a stripper to take you to a room on your own and grind around like she’s milling oats with her cheeks.
I can kind of see her point and understand why stripper might upset her so the next stag do I go on, when we do inevitably visit a strip club, I’ll make sure I lie convincingly about the whole thing, problem solved!