Having a Baby.... What do we NEED?

Having a Baby.... What do we NEED?

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Dan_1981

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17,395 posts

199 months

Tuesday 23rd August 2016
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Right then...... I could use mumsnet but i'm here instead....

We're expecting our first - due in November so getting to the point where we are buying things..... and being terrified.

Obviously as first time parents we will go massively over the top and buy loads of thing we probably don't really need.... however i'm sure there are some things we are missing.


Existing PH parents what were your 'must have' items

So far we've got a list that contains the following.....

pram / pushchair type thing
Isofix base & car seat (if we choose to go for isofix)
Nursery furniture - cot etc including bedding & mattress
Baby monitor - undecided on video, sound, motion sensing etc etc
A bouncy chair swing type thing

a steriliser for the bottles - again i have no idea about these - microwave, plug in, water, steam who knows???

clothes
nappies / wipes that end of things


What am I missing?!













Dan_1981

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17,395 posts

199 months

Tuesday 23rd August 2016
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Thanks guys.

Aldi nappies we'd got on the list after hearing good things about them.

The 'travel system' we've bought - well the pram section bit - we need a compatible car seat so are looking at the maxicosi as the base will take the next car size up too.

Decent camera - sorted in that respect.

Sleep - i'm working on that.

Car - i've got a saab estate and the missus is awaiting delivery of her new 5 door fiesta.

moses basket - her sister has given us one so we're ok on that front too.

Dan_1981

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199 months

Wednesday 24th August 2016
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jamiem555 said:
Car seats. We went maxi cosi pebble and then pearl as it uses the same familyfix base. That should do them until they're 5. Not the cheapest but I sold the pebble seats for half what I paid in a matter of days on Gumtree.
Just got the familyfix base with these two seats in mind!

Dan_1981

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199 months

Thursday 15th September 2016
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Well things are progressing!

30 weeks.

Nursery furniture arrived today.

How the heck do you choose a mattress?!

Dan_1981

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199 months

Thursday 20th October 2016
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Mattt said:
Can you ladies stop fking up this thread with usual Pustonheads bhy ste.

It was quite a useful thread up till today.
Agreed.

Dan_1981

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199 months

Friday 21st October 2016
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Tell her to ignore the last couple of pages though eh? hehe

Dan_1981

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199 months

Saturday 10th December 2016
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It arrived!!!!

Baby boy now 8 days old.

Going well so far a few hitches with breast feeding and without wanting to reignite the above 'debate' I have a few questions!

Basically wife is having no issues actually feeding him, but isn't producing enough milk. We struggled through the first 5 days purely on breast but he was losing weight, so we've been supplementing with ready made formula.

So if making your own from powder how do you do it?

Can you make a batch n keep in the fridge for 24 hours or do you have to do bottles only when needed?

Also the sterilizer - microwave one says if you keep it sealed it's good for 24 hours for keeping anything in it sterile, however if you open it things are no longer sterile - so what's the point of doing more than one bottle in the sterilizer?




Dan_1981

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199 months

Sunday 11th December 2016
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Thanks all.

Just done the 03:30!

Perfect prep sounds good for in and around the house & removes the need to store pre-prepared bottles.

What about when heading out? Do a couple in the perfect prep / by hand and take with you or take powder with you and find someway to make up on the road?!