Where do you buy your clothes?

Where do you buy your clothes?

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bitchstewie

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Friday 10th November 2023
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Spent a couple of hours shopping for a coat this week and found myself looking in Zara, AllSaints, Mango, Reiss, Next etc.

I'm at a stage where other than obvious casual wear like shorts and hoodies my work and casual wardrobe is almost interchangeable.

One thing that occurred to me was that it's pretty difficult to tell the difference in quality between the clothes.

i.e. I liked the £330 coat I saw in Reiss but the one I got from Mango for £150 seems just as nice and is made in the same part of the world I just slightly preferred the colour of the one in Reiss.

Go into Selfridges and it really becomes apparent that when everything is in the same "atmosphere" it's even harder to distinguish quality from marketing and the "vibe" of the individual stores.

I now need some tee shirts and sweaters and looking around there's what appear to be the same kind of sweater for £35 at Zara that costs £50 at Mango or £88 at Reiss or £95 at AllSaints with no immediately obvious difference in quality between them.

Where do you shop for smart casual stuff?

bitchstewie

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Friday 10th November 2023
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And this is the difficulty.

The coat I got is nice but I'm not under any illusion I've bought anything other than something that should hopefully last "a few years" but not a generation etc.

Uniqlo tee shirts are £10 M&S are £8 Zara are £13 AllSaints are £35 are they 4x the quality or just the logo?

Likewise jumpers are anything from £20 to £100 and I'm not at all sure there's a significant leap in quality from M&S/Uniqlo to say Reiss or AllSaints.

Next feels like a jumble sale but I have a horrible feeling pop their stuff in a Reiss or AllSaints store and it would seem different.

How the hell do you distinguish quality from marketing fluff?

And I'm not going to buy a £200 Sunspel even if the quality is there as I can't justify that smile

bitchstewie

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Saturday 11th November 2023
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wyson said:
Have you looked at bulk retailers who don’t officially sell to the public? I buy a lot of day to day t shirts from Stanley Stella. High street quality but stripped of branded markup. £4 a t shirt? Heavyweight cotton t shirts £10 sort of thing? (Need heavyweight, 240gsm for white t-shirts so nipples don’t show through!) You can find the odd online retailer who will sell individual t shirts from them.

Haven’t used the below shop before but gives you an idea:
https://www.shirtworks.co.uk/products/stanley-stel...

In terms of your original point, a £4-6 Stanley Stella T shirt is the same quality as an AllSaints £35 t shirt. I own both. But one you pay a branded mark up and the other shows the actual ‘cost’ of producing a commodity item and making a small profit. Of course Stanley Stella don’t have glitzy shops in high profile locations, glitzy advertising campaigns etc, so if you want maximum VFM, I’d steer clear of the high street all together!

Edited by wyson on Saturday 11th November 08:01
Yeah I tried that in the past with Gildan but, and this will sound strange and a bit gross, their cheap tee shirts absolutely make me stink when no other tee shirt I own does so it's left me a little cautious of cheap bulk buys even though I know that like you say the Reiss/AllSaints stores aren't likely to be manufacturing their own stuff.

Stanley Stella look like the stuff in the likes of AllSaints though so if the quality is there I may give them a go as they're a third to a quarter of the price - thank you smile

bitchstewie

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Saturday 11th November 2023
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nikaiyo2 said:
Haha I work in manufacturing/ construction so most days end up in the factory for one reason or another or certainly pre pandemic every job had meetings on site so plenty of opportunities to rip/tear get crap on.

The straw the broke the camels back, I bought a new Ralph Lauren shirt for £100 ish had to deliver a bit of glass to a customer, caught shirt on it, ripped, I would say after 4 hours of use :0
Different industry but similar.

I can go into work with one plan and end up with my arms somewhere messy (I'm not a vet).

bitchstewie

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Saturday 11th November 2023
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nikaiyo2 said:
What do you mean by quality?

Fabric?
Manufacturing?
Longevity?

Honestly, imho, there is no difference in tangible things between m&s and the brands you list, I would say m&s might prioritise quality over many fashion brands. Same goes for the big brand names, Ralph Lauren, Tommy Hilfiger, Boss etc. In particular these brands there is a massive difference in quality between their full price stuff and their discounted lines.

Buy a pack of 3 boxers from Ralph Lauren outlet store for less than the price of one pair at full price you will tell instantly what cost 3x the price.
Edwin jeans, the difference between the Made in Japan lines to the cheaper lines is huge.

Literally all high street fashion is of similar quality, it’s not designed to last forever but would you want it to?

Have a look at https://www.endclothing.com/gb and read some of the brand stories, the smaller brands have much greater ability and willingness to manage quality. They do genuine sales making some of the pricing more reasonable.

Shirts for work? I buy them from Tesco/ Sainsbury’s, they cost nothing, are semi disposable, I have 2-3 nice shirts for meetings etc. I always used to have nice shirts but the amount I ruined after 2 or 3 wears got tiresome tongue out
Good question around the word "quality" and perhaps value for money is what I really mean.

I have a dislike of paying £30 for something that's the same quality as a £10 something except for the label that's sewn into the collar.

bitchstewie

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Saturday 11th November 2023
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And just when I think I have a plan I realise it's Black Friday in a week or two biggrin

bitchstewie

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Sunday 12th November 2023
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So Black Friday.

Never really paid attention to it with regard to clothing.

Worth waiting for for the sort of stuff I've mentioned?

bitchstewie

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Sunday 12th November 2023
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Prohibiting said:
Now in my early 30’s, everything I wear has no logo but I focus on quality, fabric, and a timeless style- sticking to black, navy, ecru, and white.

I stick to Uniqlo (good value), Reiss which is higher-end, and Sunspel which is luxury. I always make sure I’m buying 100% wool or cashmere for my knitwear and 100% cotton for anything else. Got a lovely mix of cable knits, roll necks, and simple crew knits.
Pretty much nails where I am except the age.

Not bothered about logos and as I said quality balanced with can't go mad for work as it's only an unexpected day away from getting covered in dirt or snagged on something.

Right now I'm liking Uniqlo a lot for what seems to be a balance between value and good functional stuff rather than "just paying for the label".

Bloody annoying there isn't a store near me and that stock seems really hit and miss for a big chain.

bitchstewie

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Monday 13th November 2023
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Did read something on Reddit along the lines of head into Uniqlo/Reiss/Mango/wherever and find a mannequin you like and just ask for two of everything it's wearing biggrin

Sounds bonkers but I can see some sense in it.

bitchstewie

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Monday 13th November 2023
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BunkMoreland said:
Well the people that dress the mannequins have access to everything the store sells and in 95% of cases have an eye for what makes an outfit work.

Of course, you could alternatively find one of the many ladies who offer fashion consultations and go shopping with the client to get a complete new outfit and wardrobe. A friends EX did that and although most of her clients were Bankers and Insurance guys earning 6 figures a year and would spend £4-5K during the week or so. She would do regular guys who would start with a few items then over time build up the rest according to her directions.

I knew of a guy who did the same sort of thing, but seemed his clients ended up wearing the same outfit of converse, black jeans and a v next t shirt with a gaudy chain/necklace and wrist adornments.


There's also YouTube if you are interested.

Fit
Fabric
Function
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Oh how the other half live laugh

To be fair I don't tend to dress like a sack of st I'd say I have reasonably good taste.

This isn't about walking into Reiss or Mango and coming out looking a tramp it's trying to understand if I'm no better off than I would be at Uniqlo.

Seriously I've almost got a full work wardrobe in my basket for £250-300 from that place just need to work out if it's going to be half price come Black Friday.

bitchstewie

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Thursday 23rd November 2023
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Would anyone know if the Uniqlo Black Friday offers on the website now are it or if they change throughout the week?

Because they seem pretty crap biggrin

bitchstewie

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Thursday 23rd November 2023
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Well that's the first couple of bits sorted treated myself to a couple of Sunspel Riviera Polos as it's Black Friday.

I don't know if they're worth it as you read mixed things online but I figured you only live once (or twice if you're into the whole Bond connection biggrin) and if they last a few years I'd sooner have a couple of nice good quality pieces than 5x £15 throwaway ones.

Any suggestions on sweaters?

Can't quite bring myself to pay £145 for their merino ones and I'm probably overthinking whether there's too much difference between a £45 and £80 "made in Bangladesh" one other than the store you buy it from.

bitchstewie

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Thursday 23rd November 2023
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I think there's just something in my psychology that would really struggle to justify something like that.

And I'd be slightly terrified of snagging it or spilling my tea down it biggrin

bitchstewie

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Thursday 23rd November 2023
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I wouldn't have as that's their problem fk 'em biggrin

I see a lot of stuff I like it's just I can't personally justify spending the money and it's something I struggle with with lots of stuff not just clothing.

Anyone know if Arket and Asket are decent quality?

I am really struggling with understanding if a £100 merino sweater is actually any better quality than a £35 Uniqlo one.

bitchstewie

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Thursday 23rd November 2023
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Hoping I'm not being suckered by a good marketing team but I have to say Asket do look interesting.

Pricing not too stupid and seems a world away (literally) from the "made in Bangladesh" stuff everywhere else with a lot of it made in Portugal.

Twice the price of M&S merino and just about the only place I've seen so far where it seems the quality could be better and the prices also seem sensible.

bitchstewie

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Friday 24th November 2023
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okgo said:
No clothes from Asket today or tomorrow.. bold stance on Black Friday
Yeah I just got their back Friday deals email laugh

bitchstewie

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Saturday 25th November 2023
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bitchstewie

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Sunday 26th November 2023
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And the sods at Sunspel have an extra 10% off today biggrin

Genuine question here.

I'm fortunate I can afford to buy nice stuff but I struggle justifying it.

I'm honestly a bit surprised at the number of people saying they get all their stuff at charity shops and car boot sales.

Appreciate people may not want to get into their personal situations too much but is that a finances thing or a principles thing or a genuine don't care what I wear thing?

bitchstewie

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Sunday 26th November 2023
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Actually that's fair and apologies if I came across as a bit dismissive of charity shops as it wasn't the intention.

I think where I am they're more pile it high and overwhelmingly elderly dominated rather than almost a high street version of Vinted.

I took a black bag full of old Superdry polos and a bunch of other stuff including a (cheap) jacket that was literally brand new with tags to the Salvation Army shop the other day so someone will do OK but I'd far sooner someone who genuinely needed it benefit from it than someone bagging a bargain I guess.

It's been a bit of an eye opener looking at what's out there since I started this thread.

I'd not really stopped to think whether whether it's actually feasible to buy a decent quality sweater for £35 if I'm honest and a steady stream of "made in Bangladesh" seems to explain why it's possible.

Interesting how the race to the bottom and throw away culture messes with you psychologically so that the £90 one looks expensive rather than the £35 one looks suspiciously cheap.

Maybe it's an age thing but what I wear for work and casual seems to overlap a lot now (I have a rail of smart shirts and trousers that hardly ever get worn) so I think I might try a fewer and better quality way of doing things for a while.

bitchstewie

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Monday 27th November 2023
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Well I'm a bit more in the hole to Sunspel now.

Still thinking Asket looks a decent compromise for what appears sensible quality without paying just for a tag or label.