Three in a bed - should I go there?

Three in a bed - should I go there?

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goggs

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22 posts

211 months

Wednesday 6th September 2006
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This is posted under a pseudonym for obvious reasons. My dilemma; my other half has bi-sexual leanings about which she fantasizes a lot. Unfortunately she now wants to put these fantasies into reality - she wants to meet another woman, have sex with her and watch me having sex with her. To this end she has signed up with adultfriendfinder and has been e-mailing women with a view to meeting up. She has had one or two hopeful replies. While I am not particularly averse to having sex with another person, I am not sure our relationship would stand the strain and beloved spending her whole time obsessing about whether I would shag anything, whether I have just settled for second best by being with her etc. On the other hand, she is a driven woman & has said that if I do't go along with it, she may just go off & do it without me, which I would consider a breach of trust and adultery. Now it needs to be said that I think our sex life is bloody good, and I have never wandered or felt the need to explore outside our relationship.(On top of this, I am not entirely happy about pictures of her and us going on the internet!)
What should I do? Go along with it or put my foot down & stop it? I am hoping that we'll get to the meeting stage, find out that women met through the internet are real munters and then the whole idea will wither on the vine.
Should I have written this to The Sun instead?

lazyitus

19,926 posts

266 months

Wednesday 6th September 2006
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Read the first two lines only.

Crack on. thumbup

dougc

8,240 posts

265 months

Wednesday 6th September 2006
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Is that you Harry?
Sorry, not helpful

wolves_wanderer

12,387 posts

237 months

Wednesday 6th September 2006
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lazyitus said:
Read the first two lines only.

Crack on. thumbup
Until his bird gets bored with chicks and fancies a spit roast hehe

BliarsGoing

72,857 posts

239 months

Wednesday 6th September 2006
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If you feel that strongly about it I'm willing to stand in as a surrogate cock and play with your other half and her friend.

HTH.

Racingdude009

5,303 posts

247 months

Wednesday 6th September 2006
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Go for it

lazyitus

19,926 posts

266 months

Wednesday 6th September 2006
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PLUS -

If you deny her this episode of her life, the chances are she's gonna do it without your consent anyway.

Yes, crack on indeed.

alexkp

16,484 posts

244 months

Wednesday 6th September 2006
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Googs - you are a bloke right?

How many men would give their eyes teeth to be in your position I wouldn't like to hazard a guess.

Pull yourself together man, and rejoice!

Podie

46,630 posts

275 months

Wednesday 6th September 2006
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lazyitus said:
If you deny her this episode of her life, the chances are she's gonna do it without your consent anyway.

Yes, crack on indeed.


yes

lazyitus

19,926 posts

266 months

Wednesday 6th September 2006
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anonymous said:
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I'd leave them out of this personally.

There's kinky and theres sick.

magic torch

5,781 posts

222 months

Wednesday 6th September 2006
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What's with the question, do it!

dick dastardly

8,313 posts

263 months

Wednesday 6th September 2006
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Can a Moderator IP check him please.

alexkp

16,484 posts

244 months

Wednesday 6th September 2006
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lazyitus said:
anonymous said:
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I'd leave them out of this personally.

There's kinky and theres sick.


rofl

Podie

46,630 posts

275 months

Wednesday 6th September 2006
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dick dastardly said:
Can a Moderator IP check him please.


:whistles casually:

Vesuvius 996

35,829 posts

271 months

Wednesday 6th September 2006
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dick dastardly said:
Can a Moderator IP check him please.


Unmask him.

_deano

7,406 posts

253 months

Wednesday 6th September 2006
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anonymous said:
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yes Game on! hehe

r988

7,495 posts

229 months

Wednesday 6th September 2006
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Lookout Captain, padlock off the port bow and closing fast! hehe

_deano

7,406 posts

253 months

Wednesday 6th September 2006
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lazyitus said:
anonymous said:
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I'd leave them out of this personally.

There's kinky and theres sick.


laugh

unrepentant

21,258 posts

256 months

Wednesday 6th September 2006
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lazyitus said:
anonymous said:
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I'd leave them out of this personally.

There's kinky and theres sick.



rofl

Too much.

vanya

2,058 posts

244 months

Wednesday 6th September 2006
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You have to ask!!!??? yikes

OTOH, being serious for just a minute, I can't help feeling that while it sounds too good to be true, you're actually at the top of a slippery slope to more trouble then you can imagine.

What a way to go though!!!
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