How to play things tomorrow
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To cut a long story short, I got with (female) manager at work after friday night drinks. She's a couple of years younger than me and manages a team closely related to ours. We were both pretty drunk and as a result I'm not entirely sure how far it went and if anyone else knows.
Not really sure what to do tomorrow when I come into work. She's alright looking but I'm not particularly interested in anything else happening. Should I try and talk to her or act as if nothing has happened?
No I don't have any pictures before anyone asks!
Not really sure what to do tomorrow when I come into work. She's alright looking but I'm not particularly interested in anything else happening. Should I try and talk to her or act as if nothing has happened?
No I don't have any pictures before anyone asks!
First things first, ask for a picture, preferably one of those "selfies" where she does a duck pout and holds the camera above her head to make her boobs look bigger. 
Seriously though, best thing to do is probably to play it like it's no big thing, otherwise it'll get to be a big thing. And for god's sake don't tell anyone else in the office.
Seriously though, best thing to do is probably to play it like it's no big thing, otherwise it'll get to be a big thing. And for god's sake don't tell anyone else in the office.
Although it's often best to lay low and hope it all goes away, this one won't.
When she finds out youused her aren't interested she'll be telling everyone you have a small cock/one ball/weird shaped helmet. Best get in first thing and tell everyone she's a bad kisser and has disgusting love handles and a smelly fanny.
Perhaps even report her for sexual harassment?
When she finds out you
Perhaps even report her for sexual harassment?
When you say a couple of years younger than you. do me two years or twenty ?
I'd go with, both grown ups (well you more than her) these things happen, no reason to fall out with each other, obvious it was good fun, but I don't really want a relationship, and I am sorry if you misunderstood.
I'd go with, both grown ups (well you more than her) these things happen, no reason to fall out with each other, obvious it was good fun, but I don't really want a relationship, and I am sorry if you misunderstood.
Monkeylegend said:
Quhet said:
Right, that's mistake 1 
. He's not in tomorrow so that's a problem which can wait for now...
This is getting confusing, who is "he" ?. He's not in tomorrow so that's a problem which can wait for now...As above are you female?
I think I'm just going to go in tomorrow and keep my head down. If doesn't work, I might try and speak with her at lunch and make things a little less awkward
Gargamel said:
When you say a couple of years younger than you. do me two years or twenty ?
I'd go with, both grown ups (well you more than her) these things happen, no reason to fall out with each other, obvious it was good fun, but I don't really want a relationship, and I am sorry if you misunderstood.
I'm only 25 I'd go with, both grown ups (well you more than her) these things happen, no reason to fall out with each other, obvious it was good fun, but I don't really want a relationship, and I am sorry if you misunderstood.
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