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10 Pence Short

32,740 posts

102 months

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308mate said:
Step 1: Stop blaming facebook. All it did was facilitate an introduction. Could have happened at a bus stop.

Sorry.
Maybe the OP should be using the well known social networking site BusFace instead of the little known whoring site known as 'Facebook'?

T_Pot

2,542 posts

82 months

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if you had swallowed and done anal, he would not have added her.. FACT

let this be a lesson to all you women out there that say no to the above

Maxymillion

459 posts

109 months

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bexd said:
No we didnt split because he added a girl on facebook - im not not that petty

Yes i dumped him because of not being able to trust him and it turns out i was right as he is now in a relationship with this girl less than 2 weeks after we split!

Its all pretty raw to be honest.

Anyway I was wondering how many realtionships have been ruined because a person that without facebook would have been met once and forgotten then manages to find the person on facebook and things get out of control
Thats a double negative poppet, which means you are petty...

tonker

46,853 posts

133 months

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do you have any evidence to justify not trusting him BEFORE YOU SPLIT UP WITH HIM. Or just insecurity ? I am guessing you are both basically children - so if I had split with one girl, 24 hours was plenty to wait before getting it on with a new girl. That's what adolescents do, love.

Or did you just rant at him about this girl, so he said "you know, I may as well be hung for a sheep as a lamb...."

Magog

2,060 posts

74 months

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bexd said:
No we didnt split because he added a girl on facebook - im not not that petty

Yes i dumped him because of not being able to trust him and it turns out i was right as he is now in a relationship with this girl less than 2 weeks after we split!

Its all pretty raw to be honest.

Anyway I was wondering how many realtionships have been ruined because a person that without facebook would have been met once and forgotten then manages to find the person on facebook and things get out of control
If your going to take this attitude with men throughout your life it's going to be a long and lonely one. Men tend to be a bit untrustworthy when it comes to members of the opposite sex, nearly as untrustworthy as women.
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Soovy

33,038 posts

156 months

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bexd

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120 posts

88 months

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tonker said:
do you have any evidence to justify not trusting him BEFORE YOU SPLIT UP WITH HIM. Or just insecurity ? I am guessing you are both basically children - so if I had split with one girl, 24 hours was plenty to wait before getting it on with a new girl. That's what adolescents do, love.

Or did you just rant at him about this girl, so he said "you know, I may as well be hung for a sheep as a lamb...."
Of course I had evidence thats the reason i broke up with him not just because of facebook

All im trying to say is in the past relationships may have worked better because the temptation was restricted by not being able to track someone down after meeting them once until technology was introduced to find old friends and flames.

Yes my relationship was doomed anyway, i'm not expecting sympathy and I was expecting the usual PH banter. smile

I expect alot of relationships have ended because of one partner contacting or being contacted by an ex and restarting something that was meant to have been left in the past.


tonker

46,853 posts

133 months

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love, how old (or young) are you [no paedo]? Your idea of a relationship sounds like a teenager's fling to me......

Facebook is irrelevant..... did he actually DO anything or did you just twist things in your head ?

Dupont666

16,205 posts

77 months

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bexd said:
tonker said:
do you have any evidence to justify not trusting him BEFORE YOU SPLIT UP WITH HIM. Or just insecurity ? I am guessing you are both basically children - so if I had split with one girl, 24 hours was plenty to wait before getting it on with a new girl. That's what adolescents do, love.

Or did you just rant at him about this girl, so he said "you know, I may as well be hung for a sheep as a lamb...."
Of course I had evidence thats the reason i broke up with him not just because of facebook

All im trying to say is in the past relationships may have worked better because the temptation was restricted by not being able to track someone down after meeting them once until technology was introduced to find old friends and flames.

Yes my relationship was doomed anyway, i'm not expecting sympathy and I was expecting the usual PH banter. smile

I expect alot of relationships have ended because of one partner contacting or being contacted by an ex and restarting something that was meant to have been left in the past.
AT which point were you going to mention that he contacted his Ex on facebook and not just a random girl?

Or you just saying that?

Im friends with several of my Ex's on facebook and current OH dont care on bit...

Lost soul

7,123 posts

67 months

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bexd said:
All im trying to say is in the past relationships may have worked better because the temptation was restricted by not being able to track someone down after meeting them
Sounds kind of stalkerish to me

bexd

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120 posts

88 months

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tonker said:
love, how old (or young) are you [no paedo]? Your idea of a relationship sounds like a teenager's fling to me......

Facebook is irrelevant..... did he actually DO anything or did you just twist things in your head ?
I old enough not to be having teenage flings anymore!!

Yes he was a cheating lying bd and I found out, yes the relationship was coming to an end and I fully admit that no problem but it is blown out of proportion with everybody knowing everybody elsed lives due to technology and the ease which people can contact new and old flames.

champ54321

1,533 posts

56 months

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To be perfectly honest that sounds like a ridiculous reason to leave some one. He is probably only with her because you left him. I've got with an obscene amount of the girls i'm friends with on fb, it doesn't mean it distrustful for me to have them added.

But to answer the original question, it has come close, someone took photos and posted them of me dancing fairly close with another girl while at a ball. And I have had a few other incidences with friends putting up jokey status' about my behaviour etc as well.

tonker

46,853 posts

133 months

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it's only on Fckubook BECAUSE PEOPLE PUT IT THERE. You could easily track down old flames anyway. It's not difficult.

Are you and your ex some of these loons with a competition in how many friends you can get on it ?

Your details are there because you want them to be - same for him. If I wanted to go find an ex, I'd just ring them, it's not bloody difficult to find people you know.

I suspect you've had this before, lying cheating bd men. Now work out whose fault it is if it keeps happening to you ?

SteveNorthEast

297 posts

76 months

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Bexd, have you put on some weight recently or a little bit st in the bedroom?

Rollcage

11,300 posts

77 months

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In answer to the question, I doubt it is wholly responsible for the demise of many, though it will have helped a good few on the way, as in your case.

I would have thought this could be taken as a good thing, rather than a bad thing, ie speeds up the inevitable, enabling both parties to get on with their lives that much more quickly?

Morningside

18,817 posts

114 months

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In my day it was CB Radio and that got blamed for all sorts of breakups.
Two years or so back it was Friends Reuninted getting the blame and now Facebook

Next it will be Twitter or something else.

Cannot see any difference, I just dont know why people (and the media) has to blame the technology rather than insecure relationships.

Rollcage

11,300 posts

77 months

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tonker said:
it's only on Fckubook BECAUSE PEOPLE PUT IT THERE. You could easily track down old flames anyway. It's not difficult.

Are you and your ex some of these loons with a competition in how many friends you can get on it ?

Your details are there because you want them to be - same for him. If I wanted to go find an ex, I'd just ring them, it's not bloody difficult to find people you know.

I suspect you've had this before, lying cheating bd men. Now work out whose fault it is if it keeps happening to you ?
Or, perhaps all men are just lying cheating bds? hehe

elster

17,242 posts

95 months

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So going on the basis of this thread.

0% of relationships have been ruined by Facebook.

poo at Paul's

3,203 posts

60 months

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You were on Facebook and think it is important, (so much so you blame your break up on it). This means you are a shallow insecure person who cannot interact socially in a conventional manner. Do yourself a favour, ditch facebook, anyone you meet who is on it, have little to do with them, and get out and try speaking to people face to face.

Facebook is a load of old wk. Remember that, and your life will improve.

Brother D

1,249 posts

61 months

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Soovy said:
Thanks brother. It now obvious to my boss that I'm not currently slaving away on the report. There is definately nothing to laugh out loud about.


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