Divorce

[N10k]

What do i need to know about going through a divorce if the st hits the fan?

[SplatSpeed]

learn how to be poor!

learn to hide things!

[Steamer]

SplatSpeed said:

learn how to be poor!

learn to hide things!

Hang on! I thought that was the advice for 'Getting married, what do I need to know?'

[Du1point8]

get some lube.. it hurts less when her solicitor bum rapes you.

[N10k]

Du1point8 said:

get some lube.. it hurts less when her solicitor bum rapes you.

Do i need a solicitor?

[N10k]

Lets say its amicable at the moment.

Equity of the house will go to pay of the debt.

[Du1point8]

kids involved?

If there is no money then you have nothing to lose...

Unless she stiffs you for all her debt, can you prove that the equity will go to cancel out everything?

Unless you say yes to kids, then not much to worry about unless you have pensions and monies that she knows about and wants.

[Piersman2]

Another one bites the dust.

[littlegreenfairy]

All these threads are really making me wonder if I want to get married anymore.

Good luck OP. Hope it goes well.

[Ahhh Moneypenny]

N10k said:

Lets say its amicable at the moment.

Equity of the house will go to pay of the debt.

Mine was amicable, we didn't involve the solicitors, I bought him out the house and he signed something to say he had no further claim on it, we got the divorce papers from the Court house, they had a pile of do it yourself ones either with or with children in recpetion you could just collect for free, it cost around £300 for the whole process and took about 3 months.

It depends on the circumstances and whether things have the potential to turn sour, solicitors are an obvious option then but very expensive

[N10k]

Du1point8 said:

kids involved?

If there is no money then you have nothing to lose...

Unless she stiffs you for all her debt, can you prove that the equity will go to cancel out everything?

Unless you say yes to kids, then not much to worry about unless you have pensions and monies that she knows about and wants.

No kids.

Equity only clears half of the debt which we have said we will take half each.

No assets like ISA's
Car is a Fiesta = £2500
Sold the cars to buy the house 11 months ago.

i dont think this has even started and i feel screwed!.

Any advice?
never done anything like this

[N10k]

Its so daunting.

Coming out of a 7yr relationship and starting again scares the crap out of me....

[bigTee]

N10k said:

Lets say its amicable at the moment.

Equity of the house will go to pay of the debt.

[Ahhh Moneypenny]

N10k said:

Its so daunting.

Coming out of a 7yr relationship and starting again scares the crap out of me....

you can do it, mine was 10 and left with fk all but I worked hard and have re-built my life, you will be ok

[MadMullah]

• gives a hug to n10k

there there...

just hide what you can. it will come back to bite you otherwise.

[Kaelic]

As soon as she instructs solicitors say game over to your credit and amicable solution.

I should document my issues one day would make a great book!

[N10k]

I Love Lamp said:

Who's name is the debt in?

This is key.

Really....

Married isnt it 50/50??

[SplatSpeed]

amicable is the way to go

otherwise you need a lawyer

get an agreement of divion of wealth and debts quick!

[Piersman2]

N10k said:

Really....

Married isnt it 50/50??

Yes.

[N10k]

Piersman2 said:

Yes.

#


fewzerz