13 year old runs over wife's Porsche

13 year old runs over wife's Porsche

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chippy348

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630 posts

147 months

Monday 10th April 2017
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Keep it short

As per title, 13 year old lad runs over the wife's year old Porsche for a dare while his mates egg him on a and video it.

Witnessed buy the guy next door, after a short search i found said lad and detained him until the police come, he admitted it.

There is dents over the roof and possible the bonnet so this is criminal damage.

The police man asked how i would like to deal with this ? saying that if has has no form then perhaps we just give him a slap on the wrist OR do i want to go the whole hog and put him in court.

He as asked me to sleep on it.

Find this bizarre to be honest, putting the onus on us on what type of punishment should be dished out.


4040vision

255 posts

86 months

Monday 10th April 2017
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Ow kum a 13-year old lad iz marriet?

CTE

1,488 posts

240 months

Monday 10th April 2017
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Put him in court. It will be a lot of hassle for you and the police officer, but the little s**t needs to understand there are consequences....although it could backfire of course with the learned judge summing up that little Jonny is from a broken home, so bless him...?

jamiem555

751 posts

211 months

Monday 10th April 2017
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Yep, throw the book at him.

lucido grigio

44,044 posts

163 months

Monday 10th April 2017
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jamiem555 said:
Yep, throw the book at him.
Yep.

grumbledoak

31,532 posts

233 months

Monday 10th April 2017
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jamiem555 said:
Yep, throw the book at him.
^^^

randlemarcus

13,522 posts

231 months

Monday 10th April 2017
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Is there any chance of getting the 13 year old's parents to sort the damage without going through insurance? Given the world today, and the fact that records never die these days, I would be doing that for one of mine, albeit reluctantly.

Failing that, on with the black cap smile

InitialDave

11,900 posts

119 months

Monday 10th April 2017
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chippy348 said:
if has has no form then perhaps we just give him a slap on the wrist
Well, he will now, won't he?
chippy348 said:
Find this bizarre to be honest, putting the onus on us on what type of punishment should be dished out.
Better than just being told it's not going to go anywhere, I suppose.

quigonjay

640 posts

221 months

Monday 10th April 2017
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I don't believe giving a 13 year old kid a criminal record would be the right thing to do in this situation, especially if not been in trouble before. I think recovering the cost of repair from those responsible for him would be a far more valuable life lesson.

imdeman87

894 posts

107 months

Monday 10th April 2017
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What have the parents said?

anonymous-user

54 months

Monday 10th April 2017
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At 13 years old you know that 'running over a car' will likely cause some costly damage. Otherwise it wouldn't be a dare would it?

I certainly don't know the legalities of all of this, but the law exists to assign an appropriate punishment. Frankly I think you'd be absolutely mad to let him off with a 'slap on the wrist.'

Assuming you'd want to claim on your insurance for the vandalism, they'll likely require the police report for any payout. Will they pay out if they receive a police report stating that you've taken no action against the person who committed the crime?

Edited by anonymous-user on Monday 10th April 18:45

shirt

22,564 posts

201 months

Monday 10th April 2017
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imdeman87 said:
What have the parents said?
My opinion would be driven by this as well. If the parents pass the attitude test and can agree a solution then keep it out of court. But no way would I just suck it up.

TheBear

1,940 posts

246 months

Monday 10th April 2017
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chippy348 said:
Keep it short

As per title, 13 year old lad runs over the wife's year old Porsche for a dare while his mates egg him on a and video it.

Witnessed buy the guy next door, after a short search i found said lad and detained him until the police come, he admitted it.

There is dents over the roof and possible the bonnet so this is criminal damage.

The police man asked how i would like to deal with this ? saying that if has has no form then perhaps we just give him a slap on the wrist OR do i want to go the whole hog and put him in court.

He as asked me to sleep on it.

Find this bizarre to be honest, putting the onus on us on what type of punishment should be dished out.

It's not putting the onus on you to decide what punishment should be dished out. Victims have a say in what type of police action they would like. Where I work there are a multitude of options available for victims, some of which would see you stand a far greater chance of having the repair covered by the offenders family than insisting on court.

And in any case, unless the 13 year old has a whole history of previous incidents then it will not go anywhere near a court even if you insist on it so posters advocating this are miles off the mark. The justice system does not want to have juveniles with criminal records unless all other avenues have been exhausted first and them given every chance (and more) to learn from their behaviour. The local Youth Offending Panel would take this over as it would be referred to them after the investigation was concluded if you requested formal police action.

The "Lock them up and throw away the key" approach simply just breeds criminals from a very young age.

cmaguire

3,589 posts

109 months

Monday 10th April 2017
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If this car is only a year old then the parents may not be in a position to shell out for repairs.
Seeing what their take is before going any further is the obvious answer, as this kid isn't going to get an easy ride if they pick up the tab anyway.

NiceCupOfTea

25,289 posts

251 months

Monday 10th April 2017
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Had this on my Saab at a school where I teach a few years back. Noticed some dents on the tailgate after getting home. Got the school to check their CCTV and they found the girl who did it. I think she got a jolly good letting off but the school paid the bodyshop bill...

EricE

1,945 posts

129 months

Monday 10th April 2017
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court

bitcrusher

165 posts

184 months

Monday 10th April 2017
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shirt said:
My opinion would be driven by this as well. If the parents pass the attitude test and can agree a solution then keep it out of court. But no way would I just suck it up.
Plus one for this, if the parent(s) show up with little Johnny having been suitable chastized and at least make an effort to help with costs / excess etc then that would seem reasonable, particularly if they are not very wealthy and it might be a bill that would put them into serious money troubles. Obviously if they are well heeled then they should pony up for the lot.

However my cynical side is telling me that this is far from little Johnny's first infraction and the parents won't care less and will probably have their own dealings with the law to contend with. If you went in heavy handed with them threats and intimidation might well be the response.

Sorry to say, because you and your wife have had a wrong done to you, but I doubt you will receive the fair and equitable outcome that you deserve.

Jonno02

2,246 posts

109 months

Monday 10th April 2017
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Court for me. He's 13, not 8.

Tango13

8,433 posts

176 months

Monday 10th April 2017
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Court for the little st and his mates that egged him on.


surveyor

17,822 posts

184 months

Monday 10th April 2017
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I was wondering where a 13 year old gets a wife who has a Porsche....

I'm in the camp of depends on parents reaction...