Jacking in your job

Author
Discussion

Woodrow Wilson

Original Poster:

338 posts

160 months

Wednesday 23rd March 2022
quotequote all
I get no satisfaction from my job. It does not suit me/my personality and my current role does not make use of my strengths at all.

It pays quite well, but is soul-destroying unless you enjoy vague requirements, paperwork and endless detailed re-work

I have tried numerous times to find a different role within the company, but it is just not happening. I'm not in the clique and, to be honest, nor do I want to be.

There is very much a one size fits all / identikit employee culture. If you are a bit different to that norm, then there's nothing really for you.

Management, leadership and camaraderie is pretty much non-existent.

Projects are terrible -little more than bums on seats in reality, with glacial progress and they rarely reach completion.

Anyway, at risk of becoming Lester Burnham and buying an old muscle car, at what point does one just say bks to it and leave? At the moment, I'd prefer labouring for a few months to feel some sense of *doing* something.

It's obviously not sensible...
... But no mortarge or debt.


Monkeylegend

26,331 posts

231 months

Wednesday 23rd March 2022
quotequote all
Woodrow Wilson said:
I get no satisfaction from my job. It does not suit me/my personality and my current role does not make use of my strengths at all.

It pays quite well, but is soul-destroying unless you enjoy vague requirements, paperwork and endless detailed re-work

I have tried numerous times to find a different role within the company, but it is just not happening. I'm not in the clique and, to be honest, nor do I want to be.

There is very much a one size fits all / identikit employee culture. If you are a bit different to that norm, then there's nothing really for you.

Management, leadership and camaraderie is pretty much non-existent.

Projects are terrible -little more than bums on seats in reality, with glacial progress and they rarely reach completion.

Anyway, at risk of becoming Lester Burnham and buying an old muscle car, at what point does one just say bks to it and leave? At the moment, I'd prefer labouring for a few months to feel some sense of *doing* something.

It's obviously not sensible...
... But no mortarge or debt.
I would say you are way past that point.

Just to add I did it without another job to go to in my mid 40's for similar reasons and never looked back.

Edited by Monkeylegend on Wednesday 23 March 18:26

tozerman

1,175 posts

227 months

Wednesday 23rd March 2022
quotequote all
I have been in the same situation twice in the past.
As yourself I have no kids at home and no mortgage/debt.
Leaving a job you hate with no job to go to is very liberating and empowering. Do it, take a month off and then get a new job, there are plenty out there..
Good luck mate..

Sheets Tabuer

18,949 posts

215 months

Wednesday 23rd March 2022
quotequote all
If I felt like that I'd be off.

In my younger years I've left jobs because I started to dream about them hehe

rog007

5,759 posts

224 months

Wednesday 23rd March 2022
quotequote all
If you intend on staying in employment, one thing to do is to reflect on how you got to this point to try and prevent repeating that mistake.

jimmythingy

312 posts

62 months

Wednesday 23rd March 2022
quotequote all
Yep, done it twice. You spend your life beating yourself up, then tell yourself its ok because it's good money. Break the cycle, jack it in and find something that you want to do. If you have no debt and understanding partner you will find the right thing for you.

limpsfield

5,879 posts

253 months

Wednesday 23rd March 2022
quotequote all
jimmythingy said:
Yep, done it twice. You spend your life beating yourself up, then tell yourself its ok because it's good money.
Spot on I think. Been there a couple of times. It's a difficult step to take but as I get older it gets easier. Don't want to be on your deathbed thinking what-ifs and having wasted years just because it was safe and a good salary.


Good luck either way OP.

RedAndy

1,224 posts

154 months

Wednesday 23rd March 2022
quotequote all
did it last year. drive an asda van now. wonderful. Skint, but I actually enjoy it.

Kwackersaki

1,379 posts

228 months

Thursday 24th March 2022
quotequote all
I’m very close to it. Lucky that I’ve no mortgage and fairly reasonable savings and pension.

I get zero satisfaction from work and as my department consists of just me, have to take on multiple roles with little support.

I’ve seen a couple of jobs advertised recently for a seasonal gardener or part of the maintenance team for one of these large, stately home hotels. Either of those I’d love to do.

I think a decision is coming within the next few weeks.

Arnold Cunningham

3,765 posts

253 months

Thursday 24th March 2022
quotequote all
Watching with interest. I am in a similar position to you Woodrow. Will write some notes later and am interested in how other people have solved this dilemma.

anonymous-user

54 months

Thursday 24th March 2022
quotequote all
I did it last year, left 20 years in the construction and property to do a job for half the money, still have mortgage etc. to pay so finances are very tight. Spent 6 months volunteering and gaining experience in a totally new industry.

Best move I've ever made, spent all this week outside working with a great team of people

Arnold Cunningham

3,765 posts

253 months

Thursday 24th March 2022
quotequote all
Vidarr said:
Spent 6 months volunteering and gaining experience in a totally new industry.
This is one of the things I've been wondering about.


911r

241 posts

25 months

Thursday 24th March 2022
quotequote all
watching

in a very similar situation myself

i have made a note in my calendar to quit my current role at the end of the year

mental health is my priority at 41 years old these days

good luck OP

andrebar

427 posts

122 months

Thursday 24th March 2022
quotequote all
I’ve done it with no regrets. The toxicity of corporate “culture” seems to have no upper limit these days. Finances permitting, the sooner the better is perhaps the right time to find something less harmful to your mental health.


Steve Campbell

2,125 posts

168 months

Thursday 24th March 2022
quotequote all
911r said:
watching

in a very similar situation myself

i have made a note in my calendar to quit my current role at the end of the year

mental health is my priority at 41 years old these days

good luck OP
If mental health is your priority and you are in a similar position to the OP, why are you waiting 9 months ?

NewNameNeeded

2,560 posts

225 months

Thursday 24th March 2022
quotequote all
It's an easy mistake to dislike or rebel against a company culture but remain there, unhappy.

Better to accept the people and culture aren't for you and to find where you fit in elsewhere.

Sorry you're caught in that trap - get gone, and good luck with your future opportunities!

RDMcG

19,139 posts

207 months

Thursday 24th March 2022
quotequote all
In my career I quit my job of the time three times...as the job became less fulfilling. I lined something better up and never had a regret.If you dislike your job you will eventually do it badly. Quit while you're ahead.

911r

241 posts

25 months

Thursday 24th March 2022
quotequote all
Steve Campbell said:
911r said:
watching

in a very similar situation myself

i have made a note in my calendar to quit my current role at the end of the year

mental health is my priority at 41 years old these days

good luck OP
If mental health is your priority and you are in a similar position to the OP, why are you waiting 9 months ?
contract and team commitments sadly .

it will be the last 9 months in a 20y story .

anonymous-user

54 months

Thursday 24th March 2022
quotequote all
OP sounds where i was working in a national highways company.
Snails pace and regulation and bullcarp, left for the 2nd time last year, now work part time for a smallish family company any 3 days i want pottering around the peak district and surrounding areas in a little van for a bit less money and a lot more fun.
Below is worth bearing in mind.

CrgT16

1,964 posts

108 months

Thursday 24th March 2022
quotequote all
If no money concerns just quit.

If it pays well as you say, stick at it a little longer invest the money for padece nov e, then you will be free to whatever you want with your time.