Wedding Band Thoughts

Wedding Band Thoughts

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WhisperingWasp

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1,456 posts

137 months

Sunday 15th May 2022
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r159 said:
Platinum D shape for me and have a titanium one for knocking about.

Was a his and her’s thing.

But depending on size and budget…it’s up to you, but do try different shapes and sizes regardless of material chosen.

Edited by r159 on Sunday 15th May 20:47
I think I'm settled on a 4mm "court" shape I think it is called. quite a traditional, rounded shape. Not as keen on the slab-sided/sharp cut ones personally.

WhisperingWasp

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1,456 posts

137 months

Sunday 15th May 2022
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Red9zero said:
We got Sheffield stainless steel rings when we replaced our wedding rings last year.
I actually quite like the idea of a stainless steel one due to my interest in watches. However, the ones I've seen were so cheap (like a fiver or so!) that they didn't seem to fit the bill as a token of the marriage as such. Would you mind sharing a bit more about what you went for?

Cheers.

richthebike

1,733 posts

137 months

Sunday 15th May 2022
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WhisperingWasp said:
richthebike said:
Platinum.
Is that what you went for I presume?

(You got married last year didn’t you and I know most of your watches are ss)
Yes, went platinum.
In 10 months mine is totally battered and wears the damage really nicely.
Goes well with steel.

WhisperingWasp

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1,456 posts

137 months

Sunday 15th May 2022
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richthebike said:
WhisperingWasp said:
richthebike said:
Platinum.
Is that what you went for I presume?

(You got married last year didn’t you and I know most of your watches are ss)
Yes, went platinum.
In 10 months mine is totally battered and wears the damage really nicely.
Goes well with steel.
Polished/mirror finish? I think I like this over a brushed/satin finish. Not 100% though.

richthebike

1,733 posts

137 months

Sunday 15th May 2022
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WhisperingWasp said:
Polished/mirror finish? I think I like this over a brushed/satin finish. Not 100% though.
It was polished, it is now covered completely in scratches to the point that it's basically brushed.

I went D profile, very comfy and look round - also didn't want anything blocky.

Red9zero

6,830 posts

57 months

Sunday 15th May 2022
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WhisperingWasp said:
Red9zero said:
We got Sheffield stainless steel rings when we replaced our wedding rings last year.
I actually quite like the idea of a stainless steel one due to my interest in watches. However, the ones I've seen were so cheap (like a fiver or so!) that they didn't seem to fit the bill as a token of the marriage as such. Would you mind sharing a bit more about what you went for?

Cheers.
We got ours from https://www.flinnandsteel.co.uk/collections/frontp...
They were about £200 each iirc


WhisperingWasp

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1,456 posts

137 months

Sunday 15th May 2022
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Red9zero said:
WhisperingWasp said:
Red9zero said:
We got Sheffield stainless steel rings when we replaced our wedding rings last year.
I actually quite like the idea of a stainless steel one due to my interest in watches. However, the ones I've seen were so cheap (like a fiver or so!) that they didn't seem to fit the bill as a token of the marriage as such. Would you mind sharing a bit more about what you went for?

Cheers.
We got ours from https://www.flinnandsteel.co.uk/collections/frontp...
They were about £200 each iirc
I've been browsing that site for the last 10 minutes!

Quite like this https://www.flinnandsteel.co.uk/collections/matt-s...

Or this in 4mm https://www.flinnandsteel.co.uk/collections/polish...

Did you go polished or brushed?

r159

2,256 posts

74 months

Sunday 15th May 2022
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WhisperingWasp said:
r159 said:
Platinum D shape for me and have a titanium one for knocking about.

Was a his and her’s thing.

But depending on size and budget…it’s up to you, but do try different shapes and sizes regardless of material chosen.

Edited by r159 on Sunday 15th May 20:47
I think I'm settled on a 4mm "court" shape I think it is called. quite a traditional, rounded shape. Not as keen on the slab-sided/sharp cut ones personally.
I’ve been informed mine is a court 5mm, having just priced one up a st load less expensive now than when we bought it 15 years ago…

After looking I’ve now just bought another titanium ring which is a better replica of my platinum one…for £25. I’m not wearing the original titanium one as it’s a bit tight and thicker so not very comfortable.

Edited by r159 on Sunday 15th May 21:51

WhisperingWasp

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1,456 posts

137 months

Sunday 15th May 2022
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r159 said:
WhisperingWasp said:
r159 said:
Platinum D shape for me and have a titanium one for knocking about.

Was a his and her’s thing.

But depending on size and budget…it’s up to you, but do try different shapes and sizes regardless of material chosen.

Edited by r159 on Sunday 15th May 20:47
I think I'm settled on a 4mm "court" shape I think it is called. quite a traditional, rounded shape. Not as keen on the slab-sided/sharp cut ones personally.
I’ve been informed mine is a court 5mm, having just priced one up a st load less expensive now than when we bought it 15 years ago…
5mm court seems to be a nice style I think. I will go 4 or 5mm for sure. Just the material I need to choose. Platinum seems to be the favourite but I do like the SS ones. Although not sure they could ever be re-sized?!

WhisperingWasp

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1,456 posts

137 months

Sunday 15th May 2022
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Grandad’s rose gold against my steel watch for reference. It doesn’t look ridiculous I don’t think but just can’t see myself wearing gold. Think that is my issue more than the clash with a watch.

CAPP0

19,577 posts

203 months

Sunday 15th May 2022
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Mine's titanium and I love it. Never wore a ring before we were married but when I saw this it just worked for me. A little darker than white gold/platinum, but very durable (I'm always messing about with cars/bikes etc) and remains shiny without any attention. It initially appealed to the engineer in me. It's also incredibly light, if that matters at all. And whilst it didn't/doesn't matter, extremely cheap!! it's also engraved on the inside.

Only thing to bear in mind with Ti is that it can't easily (if at all) be resized, or so I was told anyway.

gregs656

10,874 posts

181 months

Sunday 15th May 2022
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Looks like a wedding ring to me. Those old ones are much nicer that the vast majority of modern rings IMO.

r159

2,256 posts

74 months

Sunday 15th May 2022
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Neither myself or wife are into gold jewellery, she recently sold some of her inherited gold off to buy platinum so at least she would wear it. Her thoughts were that she’d rather wear something every day to remember than it be stuck in a drawer.

r159

2,256 posts

74 months

Sunday 15th May 2022
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CAPP0 said:
Mine's titanium and I love it. Never wore a ring before we were married but when I saw this it just worked for me. A little darker than white gold/platinum, but very durable (I'm always messing about with cars/bikes etc) and remains shiny without any attention. It initially appealed to the engineer in me. It's also incredibly light, if that matters at all. And whilst it didn't/doesn't matter, extremely cheap!! it's also engraved on the inside.

Only thing to bear in mind with Ti is that it can't easily (if at all) be resized, or so I was told anyway.
While I was just shopping for a titanium ring read a great review saying that it was nice but was light and felt cheap…rolleyes

okgo

38,001 posts

198 months

Sunday 15th May 2022
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gregs656 said:
Looks like a wedding ring to me. Those old ones are much nicer that the vast majority of modern rings IMO.
Agreed. My wife and I have my grandmother and her mothers rings which were 22ct resized (up a lot in my case of course) - really like the simple style.

I wear gold as I tan quickly and wear steel watches, never given it a second thought. If you’re pale then gold can look a bit off on a bloke.

Gweeds

7,954 posts

52 months

Sunday 15th May 2022
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I’d wear his. That would carry more meaning IMO.

markiii

3,603 posts

194 months

Sunday 15th May 2022
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WhisperingWasp said:
Grandad’s rose gold against my steel watch for reference. It doesn’t look ridiculous I don’t think but just can’t see myself wearing gold. Think that is my issue more than the clash with a watch.
Get it platinum plated? then it has sentimental value but still works colour wise?

markiii

3,603 posts

194 months

Sunday 15th May 2022
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CAPP0 said:
Only thing to bear in mind with Ti is that it can't easily (if at all) be resized, or so I was told anyway.
They can be, mine was. Not cheap though

WhisperingWasp

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Sunday 15th May 2022
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markiii said:
WhisperingWasp said:
Grandad’s rose gold against my steel watch for reference. It doesn’t look ridiculous I don’t think but just can’t see myself wearing gold. Think that is my issue more than the clash with a watch.
Get it platinum plated? then it has sentimental value but still works colour wise?
Didn't know that was a thing. Interesting...

dogbucket

1,204 posts

201 months

Sunday 15th May 2022
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I have polished Tungsten Carbide. Bit darker than stainless steel, but basically un-scratchable. Mine is still a mirror finish after 15 years. A work colleague took a file to it after I dared him, and not a mark.

Not expensive by any means but has some weight to it so feels premium.

Edited by dogbucket on Sunday 15th May 23:42