FGM Parties

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XM5ER

5,091 posts

248 months

Monday 27th February 2017
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BlackLabel said:
Wow.

It a completely understandable position for the police to take. Its the same with murder really, why bother to catch the murderer when it is unlikely to benefit the victim. Think of the paperwork involved.

VolvoT5

4,155 posts

174 months

Monday 27th February 2017
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Should be an automatic prosecution in my view. Would we accept 'not in the best interests of the child' as an excuse for ignoring any other kind of child abuse?
Multiculturalism does not mean accepting the unacceptable.

herewego

8,814 posts

213 months

Monday 27th February 2017
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If the law only says illegal to cut then the police have to find the actual perpetrator. If the law says illegal to permit then they should be able to prosecute the parents since they are responsible for safeguarding their kids.

XM5ER

5,091 posts

248 months

Monday 27th February 2017
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herewego said:
If the law only says illegal to cut then the police have to find the actual perpetrator. If the law says illegal to permit then they should be able to prosecute the parents since they are responsible for safeguarding their kids.
Aiding and abetting?
Child abuse/cruelty?

Sheets Tabuer

18,949 posts

215 months

Monday 27th February 2017
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A quick change of law could sort that

To Allow/permit/enable/conspire to commit FGM

Why the hell are they not taking the kids off these parents that want to butcher them?

Sickening.

rscott

14,714 posts

191 months

Monday 27th February 2017
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Sheets Tabuer said:
A quick change of law could sort that

To Allow/permit/enable/conspire to commit FGM

Why the hell are they not taking the kids off these parents that want to butcher them?

Sickening.
Did you read the West Midlands Police article? They've taken out orders preventing some girls from being taken overseas for cutting - unless their actually cut or they get proof it was going to happen, I doubt social services have the authority to remove them.

it also mentions that CPS threw out 13 cases as having insufficient evidence.

herewego

8,814 posts

213 months

Monday 27th February 2017
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XM5ER said:
herewego said:
If the law only says illegal to cut then the police have to find the actual perpetrator. If the law says illegal to permit then they should be able to prosecute the parents since they are responsible for safeguarding their kids.
Aiding and abetting?
Child abuse/cruelty?
I agree but for some reason there is a specific law against it. Presumably this is because circumcision is inexplicably not held to be illegal.

Sheets Tabuer

18,949 posts

215 months

Monday 27th February 2017
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rscott said:
Did you read the West Midlands Police article? They've taken out orders preventing some girls from being taken overseas for cutting - unless their actually cut or they get proof it was going to happen, I doubt social services have the authority to remove them.

it also mentions that CPS threw out 13 cases as having insufficient evidence.
I would suggest having a child undergo FGM is evidence enough to prosecute the parent, what are they going to say my cousin took my child abroad and hacked them to pieces and I had no idea?

All the evidence they need is the child with bits missing.

kowalski655

14,632 posts

143 months

Monday 27th February 2017
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Isn't it a crime anyway to aid,abet,facilitate,etc another crime, without it having to be specifically written down? I don't know, can anyone here confirm?

Saw that midwife bks too(Mrs was watching,no way I want to) Apparently it's all cultural, not just the Muslims,and WE used to do it over here to so that makes it alright

blade runner

1,029 posts

212 months

Monday 27th February 2017
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Sheets Tabuer said:
All the evidence they need is the child with bits missing.
You would think so. I believe the current legislation still includes the terms 'to aid, abet, counsel or procure' in relation to FGM, so surely a medical examination of any child in question is sufficient evidence that it has taken place?

XM5ER

5,091 posts

248 months

Monday 27th February 2017
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herewego said:
XM5ER said:
herewego said:
If the law only says illegal to cut then the police have to find the actual perpetrator. If the law says illegal to permit then they should be able to prosecute the parents since they are responsible for safeguarding their kids.
Aiding and abetting?
Child abuse/cruelty?
I agree but for some reason there is a specific law against it. Presumably this is because circumcision is inexplicably not held to be illegal.
Ahh. I see. Hippocracy (the rule of horses) and all that.

blade runner

1,029 posts

212 months

Monday 27th February 2017
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kowalski655 said:
Saw that midwife bks too(Mrs was watching,no way I want to) Apparently it's all cultural, not just the Muslims,and WE used to do it over here to so that makes it alright
Saw that too...

I don't care if it's 'cultural' or not and neither should the law. The age of consent is 12 in the Philippines and Angola, so I would presume that it's 'culturally' acceptable to have sex with what we would consider to be minors in these countries. So would we apply the same 'look the other way' logic for child abuse offences committed by immigrants from these countries? Of course not, so why is it ok in regards to FGM?

jjlynn27

7,935 posts

109 months

Monday 27th February 2017
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Sheets Tabuer said:
rscott said:
Did you read the West Midlands Police article? They've taken out orders preventing some girls from being taken overseas for cutting - unless their actually cut or they get proof it was going to happen, I doubt social services have the authority to remove them.

it also mentions that CPS threw out 13 cases as having insufficient evidence.
I would suggest having a child undergo FGM is evidence enough to prosecute the parent, what are they going to say my cousin took my child abroad and hacked them to pieces and I had no idea?

All the evidence they need is the child with bits missing.
The problem, as I see it, is how to remove children from unfit parents before the act. Or even how do you find out after the act? Compulsory check from certain destinations?

I wish I had a solution how to deal with vermin.

Cotty

39,496 posts

284 months

Monday 27th February 2017
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blade runner said:
kowalski655 said:
Saw that midwife bks too(Mrs was watching,no way I want to) Apparently it's all cultural, not just the Muslims,and WE used to do it over here to so that makes it alright
Saw that too...

I don't care if it's 'cultural' or not and neither should the law. The age of consent is 12 in the Philippines and Angola, so I would presume that it's 'culturally' acceptable to have sex with what we would consider to be minors in these countries. So would we apply the same 'look the other way' logic for child abuse offences committed by immigrants from these countries? Of course not, so why is it ok in regards to FGM?
I think there was more than a hint of sarcasm in kowalski655's post

del mar

Original Poster:

2,838 posts

199 months

Monday 27th February 2017
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jjlynn27 said:
Sheets Tabuer said:
rscott said:
Did you read the West Midlands Police article? They've taken out orders preventing some girls from being taken overseas for cutting - unless their actually cut or they get proof it was going to happen, I doubt social services have the authority to remove them.

it also mentions that CPS threw out 13 cases as having insufficient evidence.
I would suggest having a child undergo FGM is evidence enough to prosecute the parent, what are they going to say my cousin took my child abroad and hacked them to pieces and I had no idea?

All the evidence they need is the child with bits missing.
The problem, as I see it, is how to remove children from unfit parents before the act. Or even how do you find out after the act? Compulsory check from certain destinations?

I wish I had a solution how to deal with vermin.
Are they unfit, or just culturally different from us are they bad parents ?

As for the children - is life in foster and care homes really better for them ?


Edited by del mar on Monday 27th February 17:14

kowalski655

14,632 posts

143 months

Monday 27th February 2017
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Cotty said:
blade runner said:
kowalski655 said:
Saw that midwife bks too(Mrs was watching,no way I want to) Apparently it's all cultural, not just the Muslims,and WE used to do it over here to so that makes it alright
Saw that too...

I don't care if it's 'cultural' or not and neither should the law. The age of consent is 12 in the Philippines and Angola, so I would presume that it's 'culturally' acceptable to have sex with what we would consider to be minors in these countries. So would we apply the same 'look the other way' logic for child abuse offences committed by immigrants from these countries? Of course not, so why is it ok in regards to FGM?
I think there was more than a hint of sarcasm in kowalski655's post
There definitely was biggrin

And I think Blade Runner saw it,by commenting on what Call the Midwife(i.e. lefty PC BBC cobblers) preached.I am 100% with him:it doesnt matter what reason is given-cultural,religious,or just that you think your daughter's bits look prettier after taking a hacksaw to it, it is wrong,100% WRONG, and there is no reason not to prosecute parents for allowing it in this country or abroad.

How can the CPS/courts use the argument that sending parents to jail for this mutilation is not in the interests of the kids....by that token you should not send ANYONE to jail if they have kids,after all the effects to them woudl be the same if dad was in nick for robbery(but the kid would have her bits intact!)

del mar

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2,838 posts

199 months

Tuesday 28th February 2017
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The idea of "checking" is a great one, but when you look at the logistics of that who do you check ?

There will be a cost, both time and money, so to mitigate the cost you limit the number of people you check.

It does not appear to be an issue in white girls so they are not checked - it instantly becomes a racists process.

Nor does it seem to be an issue in girls from the Far East so they are not checked - Indonesia perhaps.

Saying Asians wont work as it doesn't appear to be a Sikh or Hindu issue - which leaves Asian Muslims.

Blacks from the Caribbean wont be supportive as it doesn't appear to be an issue for them.

Which leaves Black Africans, even then Africa is split so we would focus on those in the MENA region - ie Mainly Muslim Countries.


So Muslims girls will be checked at school every June and September, which will go down like a cup of cold sick.

So I propose we continue doing what we have for the last 30 years....




rscott

14,714 posts

191 months

Tuesday 28th February 2017
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del mar said:
The idea of "checking" is a great one, but when you look at the logistics of that who do you check ?

There will be a cost, both time and money, so to mitigate the cost you limit the number of people you check.

It does not appear to be an issue in white girls so they are not checked - it instantly becomes a racists process.

Nor does it seem to be an issue in girls from the Far East so they are not checked - Indonesia perhaps.

Saying Asians wont work as it doesn't appear to be a Sikh or Hindu issue - which leaves Asian Muslims.

Blacks from the Caribbean wont be supportive as it doesn't appear to be an issue for them.

Which leaves Black Africans, even then Africa is split so we would focus on those in the MENA region - ie Mainly Muslim Countries.


So Muslims girls will be checked at school every June and September, which will go down like a cup of cold sick.

So I propose we continue doing what we have for the last 30 years....
It's a mainly African issue - http://www.motherjones.com/kevin-drum/2016/02/fema... and occurs pretty much equally amongst Christians and Muslims in those countries.

Eritrea & Ethiopia are majority Christian countries yet have the same or higher rates of FGM as neighbouring mainly Muslim states.

http://www.politifact.com/punditfact/statements/20... sets a very clear case for it being an African, rather than religious, issue.

jjlynn27

7,935 posts

109 months

Tuesday 28th February 2017
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del mar said:
Are they unfit, or just culturally different from us are they bad parents ?

As for the children - is life in foster and care homes really better for them ?


Edited by del mar on Monday 27th February 17:14

Not sure if serious. Any parent that facilitates non-medical intervention on their kids is unfit to be a parent. Yes, they would most definitely be better off without them.

Morningside

24,110 posts

229 months

Tuesday 28th February 2017
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dave_s13 said:


They are not the same



The circumcised male donger still works fine! I'm not some kind of lunatic that wants all baby boys to be snipped. I don't really care.

I do find FGM to be abhorrent however.
Sorry but what is the point of sewing up the entrance? (Have to type that as the works firewall blocks certain words).

From what I understand from some programmes that the woman is not allowed to feel any pleasure being a taboo of some sort hence the point of removing the cl1t0ris but blocking the whole part up the man would be denying himself sex (crude I know).