Charlie Gard

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Sylvaforever

2,212 posts

98 months

Saturday 22nd July 2017
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mondeoman said:
Sylvaforever said:
TwigtheWonderkid said:
I take your point, but parents who, in reality, are not doing what's best for their children, should not be immune to criticism just because they think they are. Ultimately, there are parents who allow FGM on their daughters, or beat or mistreat their kids in other ways, because they genuinely think it's in the best long term interests of their kids. They are wrong, and deserved to be criticised for their actions.
Despicable post.
No, honest. But then some people can't handle the truth, as evidenced.
Hmm. I believe that you don't really equate the pro life parents actions to those of child mutilators, please confirm...




GloverMart

11,815 posts

215 months

Saturday 22nd July 2017
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Words fail me!

From Sky News Twitter feed..... "Gard family spokesman tells Sky News Great Ormond Street Hospital claim that staff have received death threats is "arguably a cynical ploy"


SydneyBridge

8,588 posts

158 months

Saturday 22nd July 2017
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GloverMart said:
Words fail me!

From Sky News Twitter feed..... "Gard family spokesman tells Sky News Great Ormond Street Hospital claim that staff have received death threats is "arguably a cynical ploy"
Holy mother of Jesus, wtf..
Hospital have released a statement

http://www.gosh.nhs.uk/news/latest-press-releases/...

Really getting out of control.

mondeoman

11,430 posts

266 months

Saturday 22nd July 2017
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Sylvaforever said:
mondeoman said:
Sylvaforever said:
TwigtheWonderkid said:
I take your point, but parents who, in reality, are not doing what's best for their children, should not be immune to criticism just because they think they are. Ultimately, there are parents who allow FGM on their daughters, or beat or mistreat their kids in other ways, because they genuinely think it's in the best long term interests of their kids. They are wrong, and deserved to be criticised for their actions.
Despicable post.
No, honest. But then some people can't handle the truth, as evidenced.
Hmm. I believe that you don't really equate the pro life parents actions to those of child mutilators, please confirm...
Nice twist attempt, but ultimately doomed to fail.

The kids a vegetable, turn the damn machine off. If you think that keeping him alive is in his best interests, then your humanity left the building a long, long time ago.

He's suffering, his parents are suffering. Let him go.

ClaphamGT3

11,300 posts

243 months

Saturday 22nd July 2017
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bhstewie said:
FN2TypeR said:
Despicable, genuinely shameful - how can people even bring themselves to act like that and try to justify it?
It's wrong, you can't justify it, but then I think it's shameful and can't be justified how some people on here are rounding on the parents who, however misguided, are only acting in what they feel are the best interests of their son.
Know one can expect parents in their - unimaginably awful - position to think and act entirely rationally. What Appears sad is that they seem to have no one close to them who can help them see reason

GloverMart

11,815 posts

215 months

Saturday 22nd July 2017
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SydneyBridge said:
GloverMart said:
Words fail me!

From Sky News Twitter feed..... "Gard family spokesman tells Sky News Great Ormond Street Hospital claim that staff have received death threats is "arguably a cynical ploy"
Holy mother of Jesus, wtf..
Hospital have released a statement

http://www.gosh.nhs.uk/news/latest-press-releases/...

Really getting out of control.
Interestingly enough, their spokesman Alasdair Seton-Marsden (failed UKIP candidate for Chelsea & Fulham) was condemning the behaviour of those protesting at the hospital on July 14th, saying the family abhor violence.

After a "bad" week in court, and with the possibility of more news going against them on Tuesday, all of a sudden it's a "cynical ploy" from the hospital.

IMO, getting this slimy, smarmy prick involved was one bad move from the family. You wonder how much is coming from the parents mouths and how much is actually his idea.

98elise

26,565 posts

161 months

Sunday 23rd July 2017
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GloverMart said:
Words fail me!

From Sky News Twitter feed..... "Gard family spokesman tells Sky News Great Ormond Street Hospital claim that staff have received death threats is "arguably a cynical ploy"
What a fking idiot!

At least the family have released a sensible statement condemning any threats.

TwigtheWonderkid

43,347 posts

150 months

Sunday 23rd July 2017
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Sylvaforever said:
mondeoman said:
Sylvaforever said:
TwigtheWonderkid said:
I take your point, but parents who, in reality, are not doing what's best for their children, should not be immune to criticism just because they think they are. Ultimately, there are parents who allow FGM on their daughters, or beat or mistreat their kids in other ways, because they genuinely think it's in the best long term interests of their kids. They are wrong, and deserved to be criticised for their actions.
Despicable post.
No, honest. But then some people can't handle the truth, as evidenced.
Hmm. I believe that you don't really equate the pro life parents actions to those of child mutilators, please confirm...
I was referring to the suggestion that they can't be criticised because they are only doing what they think is best, and using some more extreme examples to illustrate the point. If you couldn't see that from my post, then I think you have a comprehension issue. But for clarity, I wasn't accusing Charlie's parents of mutilating or beating him. Although I think that was pretty clear to all bar you.

But back to the point in hand, Charlie Guard's parents can't have it both ways. They've been very critical of GOSH who, as an organisation, are only doing what the think is best for the child. Because they think GOSH have got it wrong. They can't then think they are immune from criticism for doing what they think is best for their child, from others who think they have it wrong.

Mike_Mac

664 posts

200 months

Sunday 23rd July 2017
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TwigtheWonderkid said:
Sylvaforever said:
mondeoman said:
Sylvaforever said:
TwigtheWonderkid said:
I take your point, but parents who, in reality, are not doing what's best for their children, should not be immune to criticism just because they think they are. Ultimately, there are parents who allow FGM on their daughters, or beat or mistreat their kids in other ways, because they genuinely think it's in the best long term interests of their kids. They are wrong, and deserved to be criticised for their actions.
Despicable post.
No, honest. But then some people can't handle the truth, as evidenced.
Hmm. I believe that you don't really equate the pro life parents actions to those of child mutilators, please confirm...
I was referring to the suggestion that they can't be criticised because they are only doing what they think is best, and using some more extreme examples to illustrate the point. If you couldn't see that from my post, then I think you have a comprehension issue. But for clarity, I wasn't accusing Charlie's parents of mutilating or beating him. Although I think that was pretty clear to all bar you.
Point was pretty clear to me, and I agreed fully with it.
TwigtheWonderkid said:
But back to the point in hand, Charlie Guard's parents can't have it both ways. They've been very critical of GOSH who, as an organisation, are only doing what the think is best for the child. Because they think GOSH have got it wrong. They can't then think they are immune from criticism for doing what they think is best for their child, from others who think they have it wrong.
Agree with that too. There is also a difference between criticism, based on the sort of medical facts presented (summed up well on here by Wiccan) and some of the more emotive crap that's been flung at them, but just because some people have to fling insults doesn't allow you to excuse all criticism as 'despicable'.

TheSnitch

2,342 posts

154 months

Monday 24th July 2017
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Sylvaforever said:
TwigtheWonderkid said:
I take your point, but parents who, in reality, are not doing what's best for their children, should not be immune to criticism just because they think they are. Ultimately, there are parents who allow FGM on their daughters, or beat or mistreat their kids in other ways, because they genuinely think it's in the best long term interests of their kids. They are wrong, and deserved to be criticised for their actions.
Despicable post.
Despicable comment.

TheSnitch

2,342 posts

154 months

Monday 24th July 2017
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Sylvaforever said:
mondeoman said:
Sylvaforever said:
TwigtheWonderkid said:
I take your point, but parents who, in reality, are not doing what's best for their children, should not be immune to criticism just because they think they are. Ultimately, there are parents who allow FGM on their daughters, or beat or mistreat their kids in other ways, because they genuinely think it's in the best long term interests of their kids. They are wrong, and deserved to be criticised for their actions.
Despicable post.
No, honest. But then some people can't handle the truth, as evidenced.
Hmm. I believe that you don't really equate the pro life parents actions to those of child mutilators, please confirm...
This is not a pro-life issue and should not be hijacked as such

Gandahar

9,600 posts

128 months

Monday 24th July 2017
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Bring back large Victorian families with the offset that nature intended......

I was worrying about the NHS spending billions on keeping old folk alive to snore away their lives in care homes. But obviously the younger generation now want to get into the act too.

Tongue in cheek, but we are starting to have a large costly problem with medicine. That has to be stumped up for.

It's not sustainable





Edited by Gandahar on Monday 24th July 05:45

Murph7355

37,708 posts

256 months

Monday 24th July 2017
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Gandahar said:
Bring back large Victorian families with the offset that nature intended......

I was worrying about the NHS spending billions on keeping old folk alive to snore away their lives in care homes. But obviously the younger generation now want to get into the act too.

Tongue in cheek, but we are starting to have a large costly problem with medicine. That has to be stumped up for.

It's not sustainable
Agree totally. Once the line is drawn individuals shouldn't be in a position to go beyond it. Though I am a little mixed on if people can fully fund treatment themselves - the problem in this case being the "quality of life angle".

I guess today's hearing will finally draw that line, hopefully. It's just a shame that process couldn't have happened quicker to stop this being protracted for all sides.

Sa Calobra

37,122 posts

211 months

Monday 24th July 2017
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This sounds horrible but the parents appear to what Charlie alive no matter what quality of live he (and they by extension) would have.

Forget the cost and framework to support him/them for 10yrs+ that ^^ possibly may lead into - why has no one actually said 'stop. No more appeals'?

They've exhausted every legal route yet now it seems that media pressure is staying turning off his life support. Why?

Mr2Mike

20,143 posts

255 months

Monday 24th July 2017
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Sylvaforever said:
mondeoman said:
Sylvaforever said:
TwigtheWonderkid said:
I take your point, but parents who, in reality, are not doing what's best for their children, should not be immune to criticism just because they think they are. Ultimately, there are parents who allow FGM on their daughters, or beat or mistreat their kids in other ways, because they genuinely think it's in the best long term interests of their kids. They are wrong, and deserved to be criticised for their actions.
Despicable post.
No, honest. But then some people can't handle the truth, as evidenced.
Hmm. I believe that you don't really equate the pro life parents actions to those of child mutilators, please confirm...
You are clearly a little confused. "Pro-life" is a movement against abortion, it has nothing whatsoever to do with treatment for a terminally sick child.

XCP

16,914 posts

228 months

Monday 24th July 2017
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I think that 'experts' and 'authority' are not trusted by many people, and consequently some people think that if they make enough noise and fuss on the periphery of an issue that their view will prevail. However wrong that view may be.

I think we will see/are seeing a similar situation re the Grenfell fire. In a way Trump and other political issues are the other side of the same coin.

SydneyBridge

8,588 posts

158 months

Monday 24th July 2017
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I assume if the Judge gives a decision today that the family are not happy with, that they can appeal again as before?

Wait Here Until Green Light Shows

15,225 posts

200 months

Monday 24th July 2017
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It surely takes a special kind of moron to threaten GOSH employees over this sorry story.

V8LM

5,174 posts

209 months

Monday 24th July 2017
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Decision expected tomorrow, not today. Most of the media, all of Twitter, and those protesting forget that it was GOSH who instigated this latest hearing, not the parents (directly).

This will run for a long time. Either way, the claims of "if only" (quicker, sooner, blah, blah) will start.

One of the things I don't get is that the Columbia doctor was consulted before and he said that he didn't realize "how far gone" Charlie was. What is the new evidence?

FN2TypeR

7,091 posts

93 months

Monday 24th July 2017
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Wait Here Until Green Light Shows said:
It surely takes a special kind of moron to threaten GOSH employees over this sorry story.
It does indeed, sadly that sort are available in abundance