Middle aged virgins
Discussion
Jasandjules said:
I must confess I assumed (awful to do but there we go) that most of the people would be, well, not Brad Pitt..... So that would be quite normal to them? Otherwise they might not make much money at all.
If you were a male escort, would you just shag 'anything' .. if they were 5/10 you might do it but if they were really really ugly or their down below smelt like anchovies you'd pass? Especially, anything oral.fido said:
If you were a male escort, would you just shag 'anything' .. if they were 5/10 you might do it but if they were really really ugly or their down below smelt like anchovies you'd pass? Especially, anything oral.
Some people really are way to fussy, as the saying goes, any holes a goal. Ungrateful sod fido said:
If you were a male escort, would you just shag 'anything' .. if they were 5/10 you might do it but if they were really really ugly or their down below smelt like anchovies you'd pass? Especially, anything oral.
Well, poor hygiene is a different matter. I suppose without knowing at what stage the person was "turned down" - I assumed at the outset and may be mistaken.However, again I would assume that a male prostitute is unlikely to have Cindy Crawford and other supermodels as their main clientele?
4x4Tyke said:
I decided to take a look at what mumsnet thought about this topic, glad I did because it was rather surprising. Oddly they seem to be a lot less tolerant than this thread has been, regarding it as a big red flag. I'd think a shy guy is much less likely go about cheating on them.
https://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/2437884...
https://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/2869548...
Never thought I'd see the day when PH was more accomodating than Mumsnet!! https://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/2437884...
https://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/2869548...
I do home I never come across some of those people in real life.
Some Gump said:
I had no idea what mgtow was. I googled it. fk me there's some weirdos on the internet.
I'll just leave this here.http://www.dictionary.com/browse/narcissist
Clockwork Cupcake said:
Some Gump said:
I had no idea what mgtow was. I googled it. fk me there's some weirdos on the internet.
I had to google it too. Most blokes who went through divorces in their 20's and 30's are fine but there are a few who could just never get over it and just end up being bitter and angry people. I kind of pity them. I want to tell them "Good god man, she did you a favour, you're in the prime of your life and single". A not completely unattractive male in their 30's or 40's has a lot more options than they did in their 20s in my experience.
No dislike towards those who are married either mind you, If you're happy, I'm happy for you.
Jasandjules said:
fido said:
If you were a male escort, would you just shag 'anything' .. if they were 5/10 you might do it but if they were really really ugly or their down below smelt like anchovies you'd pass? Especially, anything oral.
Well, poor hygiene is a different matter. I suppose without knowing at what stage the person was "turned down" - I assumed at the outset and may be mistaken.However, again I would assume that a male prostitute is unlikely to have Cindy Crawford and other supermodels as their main clientele?
If you get to the meat and potatoes of it (I will apologise for this terrible pun, but I'll still make it) and she wants out at that point there is something wrong. Its less to do with being shy or even unattractive (you have to have some serious hygiene problems for that to be an issue) but usually because the "lady" feels threatened.
4x4Tyke said:
Jasandjules said:
Douglas Quaid said:
Of course it’s possible. They are not forced into having sex with you, they have a choice. If they think you are too ugly/smelly/whatever to have sex with you for money then they can turn you down. They are people you know, not machines.
I must confess I assumed (awful to do but there we go) that most of the people would be, well, not Brad Pitt..... So that would be quite normal to them? Otherwise they might not make much money at all. Divine Brown, less so, but kudos, she did manage to snag Hugh Grant.
4x4Tyke said:
I'm not even sure that's it. Reading the wiki (and a 10s look at reddit before backing away slowly), I'd say it was a group who were:Men st at relationships (and/or)
Men that have been hurt in a past relationship (and/or)
Men unhappy with their lot looking for someone to blame.
In all cases, I'd call it a strange defense mechanism, not unlike when the fat angry ones die their hair red and decide that beauty is a flawed concept and all men are bds. "None of it is my fault, it's all the fault of (x)*"
x can be men, women, foreigners, tories, the unemployed, cyclists, truckers, ethnicities, religion, etc etc depending on which radical mentalist group you subscribe to on reddit (or worse, 4chan)...
It really appears to be the social version of taking your ball home because you're the sttest player on the pitch!
Helvetica42 said:
Never thought I'd see the day when PH was more accomodating than Mumsnet!!
I do home I never come across some of those people in real life.
I would suggest its 65/35 For or Against tbhI do home I never come across some of those people in real life.
It's not 100% against. Plenty of stories on the couple pages I scanned of women who've married inexperienced guys.
captain_cynic said:
... the "lady"...
I'm far from a white knight but not sure on the need for the quotations. Just because they are doing a different job, doesn't mean that away from work they are any less of a person. Some will have children, some might even care for elderly relatives.
Some Gump said:
Men that have been hurt in a past relationship (and/or)
I suspect that's the main driver. If every/most relationship you've had has fallen down. It would be easy for some guys to think "fk it, I wont bother" and decide to focus on their happiness, their work, their health, whatever. My cursory look at MGTOW suggests that for every guy who clearly hates women and blames them. There's 2 guys who just choose what they consider an easier life by eschewing relationships. The latter also seem to do well in their personal endeavours. So it's taking a relative negative and making it a positive. So all power to them. I don't view them as sad or pathetic like some want to. It's their choice, their life. They aren't harming anyone as far as I can tell.
Rich_W said:
I suspect that's the main driver. If every/most relationship you've had has fallen down. It would be easy for some guys to think "fk it, I wont bother" and decide to focus on their happiness, their work, their health, whatever.
My cursory look at MGTOW suggests that for every guy who clearly hates women and blames them. There's 2 guys who just choose what they consider an easier life by eschewing relationships. The latter also seem to do well in their personal endeavours. So it's taking a relative negative and making it a positive. So all power to them. I don't view them as sad or pathetic like some want to. It's their choice, their life. They aren't harming anyone as far as I can tell.
I think there’s two types; there’s the ones who have been shunned by women as they have no social skills (that 4chan shooter springs to mind) and there’s the previously divorced who have lost a lot (see them ones on here as well).My cursory look at MGTOW suggests that for every guy who clearly hates women and blames them. There's 2 guys who just choose what they consider an easier life by eschewing relationships. The latter also seem to do well in their personal endeavours. So it's taking a relative negative and making it a positive. So all power to them. I don't view them as sad or pathetic like some want to. It's their choice, their life. They aren't harming anyone as far as I can tell.
But mix in the men who hate women because they lost their house/money/children with the men who are shunned by women, it seems to build a breeding ground for the socially awkward to hate women.
I find it no different to the KKK or nazi’s, just the enemy is different. They all probably pigeon hole a group based on some of that groups actions and use it to fuel their own prejudices.
Tim2k9 said:
I think there’s two types; there’s the ones who have been shunned by women as they have no social skills (that 4chan shooter springs to mind) and there’s the previously divorced who have lost a lot (see them ones on here as well).
But mix in the men who hate women because they lost their house/money/children with the men who are shunned by women, it seems to build a breeding ground for the socially awkward to hate women.
I find it no different to the KKK or nazi’s, just the enemy is different. They all probably pigeon hole a group based on some of that groups actions and use it to fuel their own prejudices.
Just for clarity, are you suggesting that because I've not been in a relationship for almost ten years that I'm pretty much a Nazi or a torch wielding racist? But mix in the men who hate women because they lost their house/money/children with the men who are shunned by women, it seems to build a breeding ground for the socially awkward to hate women.
I find it no different to the KKK or nazi’s, just the enemy is different. They all probably pigeon hole a group based on some of that groups actions and use it to fuel their own prejudices.
I think, perhaps, you might be a bit of a nutcase. And a nutcase full of his own prejudice at that.
Cold said:
Tim2k9 said:
I think there’s two types; there’s the ones who have been shunned by women as they have no social skills (that 4chan shooter springs to mind) and there’s the previously divorced who have lost a lot (see them ones on here as well).
But mix in the men who hate women because they lost their house/money/children with the men who are shunned by women, it seems to build a breeding ground for the socially awkward to hate women.
I find it no different to the KKK or nazi’s, just the enemy is different. They all probably pigeon hole a group based on some of that groups actions and use it to fuel their own prejudices.
Just for clarity, are you suggesting that because I've not been in a relationship for almost ten years that I'm pretty much a Nazi or a torch wielding racist? But mix in the men who hate women because they lost their house/money/children with the men who are shunned by women, it seems to build a breeding ground for the socially awkward to hate women.
I find it no different to the KKK or nazi’s, just the enemy is different. They all probably pigeon hole a group based on some of that groups actions and use it to fuel their own prejudices.
I think, perhaps, you might be a bit of a nutcase. And a nutcase full of his own prejudice at that.
Edit: actually to add I’m not sure why I’m even arguing with your straw man argument.
Edited by Tim2k9 on Friday 25th May 22:28
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