Harry and Meghan

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psi310398

9,084 posts

203 months

Wednesday 19th February 2020
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Lord Marylebone said:
For starters, that just isn’t true:

“ There are no obligatory codes of behaviour when meeting The Queen or a member of the Royal Family”

From the Royal families own website.

You are under no obligation, legal or implied, to behave differently towards the Queen or anyone under her.
I meant it metaphorically rather than literally.

The principle being the requirement to accept/defer/be 'loyal' to the unelected head of state of which I am citizen simply because he/she is someone's son/daughter?

hutchst

3,700 posts

96 months

Wednesday 19th February 2020
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Lord Marylebone said:
For starters, that just isn’t true:

“ There are no obligatory codes of behaviour when meeting The Queen or a member of the Royal Family”

From the Royal families own website.

You are under no obligation, legal or implied, to behave differently towards the Queen or anyone under her.
I met the Queen many years ago. We were coached by a Palace aide beforehand.

I also met Dianna and Phillip (twice). No protocol or coaching involved.

psi310398

9,084 posts

203 months

Wednesday 19th February 2020
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Dont like rolls said:
HRM or her delegated, you bend, kneel etc to the office/country NOT the person.

Maybe if you had a smattering of knowledge you would know that, blame your teachers not the Royal person
And if you had a smattering of knowledge you'd know that the two are inseparable in a monarchy - that's the sodding point.

Dont like rolls

3,798 posts

54 months

Wednesday 19th February 2020
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psi310398 said:
And if you had a smattering of knowledge you'd know that the two are inseparable in a monarchy - that's the sodding point.
That is not correct, the "office" is inseparable not the person.

anonymous-user

54 months

Wednesday 19th February 2020
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psi310398 said:
Lord Marylebone said:
For starters, that just isn’t true:

“ There are no obligatory codes of behaviour when meeting The Queen or a member of the Royal Family”

From the Royal families own website.

You are under no obligation, legal or implied, to behave differently towards the Queen or anyone under her.
I meant it metaphorically rather than literally.

The principle being the requirement to accept/defer/be 'loyal' to the unelected head of state of which I am citizen simply because he/she is someone's son/daughter?
I would actually agree.

But I don’t like to get hung up on the details as long as on the whole, the Royal family are more of an asset to the country than they are a liability.

As I posted earlier, I think I they need downsized a bit with regards to members, but on balance I think they do good work for our country and are generally envied abroad.

I like to think of it as a business arrangement. If economists and government strategists can prove to me that our country will be better off financially and with regards to influence and standing without the Royals then I would be all for a republic.

The Wookie

13,946 posts

228 months

Wednesday 19th February 2020
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Lord Marylebone said:
If it helps define my character, I was once compared to a cross between ‘Tim nice but dim’ from the Fast Show, and YouTuber Tim ‘Shmee150’ Burton.
<sucks air through teeth> aaarrrrrrgggghhhhhhh

<pats LM sympathetically on the shoulder>

Mort7

1,487 posts

108 months

Wednesday 19th February 2020
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Lord Marylebone said:
psi310398 said:
Lord Marylebone said:
For starters, that just isn’t true:

“ There are no obligatory codes of behaviour when meeting The Queen or a member of the Royal Family”

From the Royal families own website.

You are under no obligation, legal or implied, to behave differently towards the Queen or anyone under her.
I meant it metaphorically rather than literally.

The principle being the requirement to accept/defer/be 'loyal' to the unelected head of state of which I am citizen simply because he/she is someone's son/daughter?
I would actually agree.

But I don’t like to get hung up on the details as long as on the whole, the Royal family are more of an asset to the country than they are a liability.

As I posted earlier, I think I they need downsized a bit with regards to members, but on balance I think they do good work for our country and are generally envied abroad.

I like to think of it as a business arrangement. If economists and government strategists can prove to me that our country will be better off financially and with regards to influence and standing without the Royals then I would be all for a republic.
It's more fundamental than simply being considered as a cost benefit analysis. It's whether it is appropriate, in the 21st Century, for one person to be expected to bow and scrape to another simply because, historically, their family had a bigger, more brutal, and richer gang than anyone else.

Respect should be earned, not granted by right of birth. I have a huge amount of respect for HMQ, but unfortunately many members of her family have no concept of this, and have such a sense of entitlement that they consider it perfectly acceptable to treat those whom they consider to be their inferiors with complete distain. I don't consider that to be acceptable, and if faced with that type of behaviour I would have no hesitation in saying so.

mike-v2tmf

778 posts

79 months

Wednesday 19th February 2020
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I can see "H" for Hewitt

SpeckledJim

31,608 posts

253 months

Wednesday 19th February 2020
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The Wookie said:
Lord Marylebone said:
If it helps define my character, I was once compared to a cross between ‘Tim nice but dim’ from the Fast Show, and YouTuber Tim ‘Shmee150’ Burton.
<sucks air through teeth> aaarrrrrrgggghhhhhhh

<pats LM sympathetically on the shoulder>
<with a very long pole>

<through the window>

<and pushes his daily poppadoms under the door>

smn159

12,654 posts

217 months

Wednesday 19th February 2020
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Lord Marylebone said:
But I don’t like to get hung up on the details as long as on the whole, the Royal family are more of an asset to the country than they are a liability.
We don't know that they are though, do we? Tourism is usually cited as being entirely down to the Royals, as if no-one would visit London if the Queen wasn't home. The other 'benefit' touted is that Charles or whoever occasionally schmoozes some Saudi's into buying some more missiles that we have no way of knowing whether they would have bought or not.

There's really no way to test whether they are an asset to or a drag on the country.

popeyewhite

19,863 posts

120 months

Wednesday 19th February 2020
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smn159 said:
We don't know that they are though, do we?
Sunday Post - "The royal family may cost us a mint – but they bring in much more"

https://www.sundaypost.com/fp/they-cost-us-a-mint-...

wolfracesonic

6,992 posts

127 months

Wednesday 19th February 2020
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Dont like rolls said:
Am I the only one that sees a blue dress? Anyway, doesn’t Sussex Royal sound like some sort of rare breed chicken?

gregs656

10,877 posts

181 months

Wednesday 19th February 2020
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Dont like rolls said:
Note the Crown and the M at the top.......?? Why not a H&M or M&H, now let me think, Ohhh ...I wonder who influenced that design and who want to be a little Princess ?
Have you removed your foot from your mouth yet?

The outrage on here has been hilarious anyway but this is a new low.

Rewe

1,016 posts

92 months

Wednesday 19th February 2020
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gregs656 said:
Dont like rolls said:
Note the Crown and the M at the top.......?? Why not a H&M or M&H, now let me think, Ohhh ...I wonder who influenced that design and who want to be a little Princess ?
Have you removed your foot from your mouth yet?

The outrage on here has been hilarious anyway but this is a new low.
rofl

Well that’s embarrassing!

Dont like rolls

3,798 posts

54 months

Wednesday 19th February 2020
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gregs656 said:
Have you removed your foot from your mouth yet?

The outrage on here has been hilarious anyway but this is a new low.
outrage, LOL

"an extremely strong reaction of anger, shock, or indignation.", not really is it , what a melt
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1DtMdRhtlfk

Edited by Dont like rolls on Wednesday 19th February 15:24

GCH

3,991 posts

202 months

Wednesday 19th February 2020
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Dont like rolls

3,798 posts

54 months

Wednesday 19th February 2020
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You did not change those U's smile

Halmyre

11,193 posts

139 months

Wednesday 19th February 2020
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Dont like rolls said:
HRM or her delegated, you bend, kneel etc to the office/country NOT the person.

Maybe if you had a smattering of knowledge you would know that, blame your teachers not the Royal person
I think most people went to a school that had better things to teach them than how to defer to royalty.

Petrus1983

8,704 posts

162 months

Wednesday 19th February 2020
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Their last day is Fools Day - brilliant laugh God Bless the Queen #gangster

wolfracesonic

6,992 posts

127 months

Wednesday 19th February 2020
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Petrus1983 said:
Their last day is Fools Day - brilliant laugh God Bless the Queen #gangster
She is coming across in a whole new light in this affair, sort of Don Vito crossed with Harold Shand, ‘The Sussex’s? I’ve st them’.