Match.com (Vol. 7)

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Scrump

Original Poster:

21,889 posts

157 months

Sunday 18th August 2019
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Blown2CV

28,697 posts

202 months

Sunday 18th August 2019
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these summary stats just in from vol 6:

23% losers
15% dweebs
36% incels
12% psychos
14% deluded

Scrump

Original Poster:

21,889 posts

157 months

Sunday 18th August 2019
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Which category are you in Blown2cv?

Petrus1983

8,518 posts

161 months

Sunday 18th August 2019
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Vyse-

“How much do you guys typically spend on the first few dates with a girl. Do you tend to pickup all the bills during this period?

Am trying to gauge if my spending is excessive or not that much compared to others.”

I always pay for the first few dates - but on reflection the girls who’ve been the nicest/most compatible have always either offered to split it or have made me agree they can buy the drinks after. I’m quite sure some girls see dating as a free lunch.

The girl I’m seeing now asked me to book an expensive French seafood restaurant - when the bill came she pulled her card out and said she wanted to pay, I still did, but it was a good sign.

Lemming Train

5,567 posts

71 months

Sunday 18th August 2019
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Scrump said:
Which category are you in Blown2cv?
smile

Lemming Train

5,567 posts

71 months

Sunday 18th August 2019
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Petrus1983 said:
Vyse-

“How much do you guys typically spend on the first few dates with a girl. Do you tend to pickup all the bills during this period?

Am trying to gauge if my spending is excessive or not that much compared to others.”

I always pay for the first few dates - but on reflection the girls who’ve been the nicest/most compatible have always either offered to split it or have made me agree they can buy the drinks after. I’m quite sure some girls see dating as a free lunch.

The girl I’m seeing now asked me to book an expensive French seafood restaurant - when the bill came she pulled her card out and said she wanted to pay, I still did, but it was a good sign.
Not necessarily. There are plenty of crafty feckers that know how to play the game.

hyphen

26,262 posts

89 months

Sunday 18th August 2019
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Why didn't she book it by herself if it was her particular choice?

Did you carry her handbag too hehe

Petrus1983

8,518 posts

161 months

Sunday 18th August 2019
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Lemming Train said:
Not necessarily. There are plenty of crafty feckers that know how to play the game.
True, but you’ve got to start somewhere!!

pincher

8,497 posts

216 months

Sunday 18th August 2019
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Scrump said:
Which category are you in Blown2cv?
All of them.

























Sorry B2CV - only playing beer

Vyse

1,224 posts

123 months

Sunday 18th August 2019
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Petrus1983 said:
Vyse-

“How much do you guys typically spend on the first few dates with a girl. Do you tend to pickup all the bills during this period?

Am trying to gauge if my spending is excessive or not that much compared to others.”

I always pay for the first few dates - but on reflection the girls who’ve been the nicest/most compatible have always either offered to split it or have made me agree they can buy the drinks after. I’m quite sure some girls see dating as a free lunch.

The girl I’m seeing now asked me to book an expensive French seafood restaurant - when the bill came she pulled her card out and said she wanted to pay, I still did, but it was a good sign.
The girl am currently seeing has offered a couple of times to pay but I declined the offer. Whether she has intend to go through with paying I don't know but I guess offering is better than silence.

Petrus1983

8,518 posts

161 months

Sunday 18th August 2019
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Vyse said:
The girl am currently seeing has offered a couple of times to pay but I declined the offer. Whether she has intend to go through with paying I don't know but I guess offering is better than silence.
Maybe offer to split it as a half way house?

technodup

7,576 posts

129 months

Sunday 18th August 2019
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Blown2CV said:
these summary stats just in from vol 6:

36% incels
I think that's me now. The shame of it.

Sooner my immune system sorts out this bug the sooner I can get back to being deluded. wink

GTI16V

542 posts

73 months

Sunday 18th August 2019
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This thread is the thread that keeps on giving. nutssillythumbup

S1KRR

12,548 posts

211 months

Sunday 18th August 2019
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Vyse- said:
“How much do you guys typically spend on the first few dates with a girl. Do you tend to pickup all the bills during this period?

Am trying to gauge if my spending is excessive or not that much compared to others.”

For the most recent example with a girl I saw a handful of times

Date 1: Drinks in a bar
I bought 1st round, she bought 2nd round. £12 each I guess

Date 2: Restaurant (with 1 drink in pub before)
She bought the drinks in the pub (under a tenner)
I paid for restaurant. £90 all in with service charge and a tip direct to the waitress
I preface this with the fact it was ME who asked her out. She offered to pay something. I told her I asked her out, it was my shout. She said she didn't want me to think "I was buying something" I told her "I wasn't expecting anything as I going home after this, I have work in the morning" laugh

Date 3 Bistro meal. She asked. She paid (£60 plus service IIRC)

Date 4. Invited me over to cook for me. I took wine, chocs and something for her pets biggrin £20ish for me. Probably £10-15 her costs.

Other factors stopped us going much further. So no idea how it would have progressed in this case. But it struck me as pretty equal. So I wasn't worried about inbalance


I've had a few dates with girls over the years where you can tell they expect more. I tend to screen them out asap. Fine if I was a millionaire and they were a Uni student. But Im not. And when you both have mortgages and reasonable paying jobs, I expect there to be equality indicated early on.

Petrus1983

8,518 posts

161 months

Sunday 18th August 2019
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Do you have Date 3’s number still?? laugh

S1KRR

12,548 posts

211 months

Sunday 18th August 2019
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Petrus1983 said:
Do you have Date 3’s number still?? laugh
Same girl, 4 dates smile

(Oh, I forgot we went to the cinema as well. I bought tickets, £30ish she bought the popcorn and drink. Dunno tenner maybe)

Yes, I have her number, but I haven't contacted her since she text me! rolleyes to say decided she didn't want to see me anymore. I deleted her from all my social media so have no idea if she's seeing anyone currently. Still want the number? laugh




Edited by S1KRR on Sunday 18th August 22:00

FN2TypeR

7,091 posts

92 months

Sunday 18th August 2019
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S1KRR said:
Petrus1983 said:
Do you have Date 3’s number still?? laugh
Same girl, 4 dates smile

(Oh, I forgot we went to the cinema as well. I bought tickets, £30ish she bought the popcorn and drink. Dunno tenner maybe)

Yes, I have her number, but I haven't contacted her since she text me! rolleyes to say decided she didn't want to see me anymore. I deleted her from all my social media so have no idea if she's seeing anyone currently. Still want the number? laugh




Edited by S1KRR on Sunday 18th August 22:00
So cheap? Never mind the lady, do you have the cinemas number?

Petrus1983

8,518 posts

161 months

Sunday 18th August 2019
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S1KRR said:
Still want the number?
I’m an angel in volume 7 remember!!


(But don’t lose it laugh)

GloverMart

11,773 posts

214 months

Monday 19th August 2019
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FN2TypeR said:
So cheap? Never mind the lady, do you have the cinemas number?
hehe

Blown2CV

28,697 posts

202 months

Monday 19th August 2019
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Scrump said:
Which category are you in Blown2cv?
observers smile