Recommend a dog breed for widowed aunt?

Recommend a dog breed for widowed aunt?

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ATV

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556 posts

195 months

Sunday 7th October 2018
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Hello everyone.

I have an elderly widowed aunt who is looking to buy her first dog.

My uncle passed away last year and she is living on her own. She has family around regularly but I've recently found out she find nights alone quite anxious.

A couple of her nieces have allergies to various things (feathers, pollen etc.) so this would need to be taken into consideration.

I'd be looking for the following traits if possible, could you guys have a read and tell me if any breeds can match any or all of these?

- Nice sweet temperament
- Be suitable for a first time dog owner
- Not be too energetic (my aunt is elderly and whilst she is still mobile, I think 2 - 3 brisk walks a day might be a bit much for her. She has a large front and back garden)
- Suitable for family members who have allergies.
- Good as a guard-dog/watch-dog

Thanks


LordHaveMurci

12,040 posts

169 months

Sunday 7th October 2018
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Other than allergies which I'm not sure about, how about a Westie?

Not too lively, good guard dogs, great companions & very sweet nature.

Ours would spend hours in the garden given a chance, loves being a lap dog & is always the 1st to let us know if there's something/body about.

yellowbentines

5,311 posts

207 months

Sunday 7th October 2018
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Yep, Westie is a good choice!

Ours spent a lot of time with my Mum after my Dad passed away and he was ideal company for her without being any trouble or hard work. Happy to spend hours walking if we took him out but just as happy lounging in front of the fire or on the couch. A good sized enclosed garden (they are excellent escape artists) will keep them happy.

As a bonus they dont cast much hair and are hypoallergenic.

mcg_

1,445 posts

92 months

Sunday 7th October 2018
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miniature schnauzer?

I know of someone in a similar situation and thats what they have, their first dog too. I believe they have help with walks.

beedj

434 posts

213 months

Sunday 7th October 2018
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+1 for miniature schnauzer

rigga

8,728 posts

201 months

Monday 8th October 2018
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Again a vote for a mini Schnauzer, ours likes a walk, but his choice would rather be lounging about if he could, very good watch dog, in fact too good as the slightest sound has him all ears, non shedding coat, and non allergic, my first dog and he's fantastic.

QuartzDad

2,241 posts

122 months

Monday 8th October 2018
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Another vote for a Westie.

The Mad Monk

10,474 posts

117 months

Monday 8th October 2018
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The sensible answer would be - no dog.

GT03ROB

13,262 posts

221 months

Monday 8th October 2018
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Chinese Crested Hairless.

Lazermilk

3,523 posts

81 months

Monday 8th October 2018
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The Mad Monk said:
The sensible answer would be - no dog.
Why is that?

I was going to suggest mini schnauzer also.

Oilchange

8,447 posts

260 months

Monday 8th October 2018
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Great Dane ?

The Mad Monk

10,474 posts

117 months

Monday 8th October 2018
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Lazermilk said:
The Mad Monk said:
The sensible answer would be - no dog.
Why is that?
Dogs can be a lot of work. They need exercising, grooming, expensive vets visits etc.

No. A dog is too high maintenance for an elderly person living alone.

Piha

7,150 posts

92 months

Monday 8th October 2018
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The Mad Monk said:
Dogs can be a lot of work. They need exercising, grooming, expensive vets visits etc.

No. A dog is too high maintenance for an elderly person living alone.
Gosh, that's quite a statement to make. I had better pass on your informed advice to all the single elderly people I know that have got themselves a dog when time allowed. Thank you for your intelligent words, oh sage one!

OP - Don't discount a mature rescue staffy. Probably not the first dog that springs to mind but rescues are full of mature staff's that find themselves in rescue through no fault of their own making. A good rescue will match the needs of the prospective owner with a suitable dog. Some will allow a prospective owner to walk their rescue dogs or offer a short term foster to see how they get on before committing to a full on adoption.

This lot are wonderful and do a lot of work with their dogs -http://www.rescueremediesdogrescue.co.uk

Good luck with your search for a suitable search for a dog for your aunt.

iphonedyou

9,246 posts

157 months

Monday 8th October 2018
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We have a miniature Dachshund and she ticks all of your wish list (imo).

smile

P700DEE

1,111 posts

230 months

Monday 8th October 2018
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Get her to sign up as a Barking Mad host in her local area. Will give her a chance to try different breeds and find out about dogs and if they suit her lifestyle. www.barkingmad.uk.com No cost to her, doesn't get on with the dog they collect it . Fully supported inclding for the new licenses. If she likes a particular breed then she can look for a rescue, older dogs are much easier than puppies to cope with.

otolith

56,026 posts

204 months

Monday 8th October 2018
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If she wants something to make her feel safer, does it need to be a medium sized or larger dog? Something large that doesn't need much exercise. Greyhound?

familyguy1

778 posts

132 months

Monday 8th October 2018
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King Charles cavalier spaniel is my vote, lovely nature.

Whatever she gets, try and get an older rescue, less walking and there's a lot that need homes.

The Mad Monk

10,474 posts

117 months

Monday 8th October 2018
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Piha said:
The Mad Monk said:
Dogs can be a lot of work. They need exercising, grooming, expensive vets visits etc.

No. A dog is too high maintenance for an elderly person living alone.
Gosh, that's quite a statement to make. I had better pass on your informed advice to all the single elderly people I know that have got themselves a dog when time allowed. Thank you for your intelligent words, oh sage one!
It's a shame that some people can't simply express an opinion without resorting to mockery, or rudeness.

I was expressing my opinion.

dhutch

14,355 posts

197 months

Monday 8th October 2018
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Yeah I mean it's so hard to say.

Allergy symptoms are as much to do with cleaning and keeping dog downstairs and off sofas than breed.

All dogs need exercise and personal company. All puppies are hard work, like a baby/child.

Budget £50/80 (area depending) per week for an hours walk with a dog walker, for the future if not now. Gives a baseline minimum of exercise and socialising.


Daniel

aclivity

4,072 posts

188 months

Monday 8th October 2018
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I would NOT get a west highland terrier. They may look nice, but they are mad. More terrier than any other dog. We have one, but there are 4 kids for her to play with (and an older Yorkie Apso that she beats up).

Lhasa Apso or Yorkshire Apso would be good - generally quiet, bark sounds larger than they are but they do need cutting every 8 to 10 weeks.