"You're very nice but..."

[vrsmxtb]

That's actually cheered me right up! I knew I could trust PH!

[Funk]

This thread needs more 'Dave200: Ladyslayer'.

[FloppyRaccoon]

mat777 said:

I am in exactly the same boat as you. Apparently I'm too nice a guy. What the fk is it with girls that they go for the utter douchebags, then moan that they are being taken for granted??? Then they repeat the whole cycle all over again and NEVER fkING LEARN!!!!!!!!!

There's a breathtakingly gorgeous girl here at uni who I so so really utterly fancied 9and she knew it) when I met her in my accomodation last year but I never got close.. I assumed it was because she was way out of my league.

However, after bumping into her in a nightclub this year and seeing her way more drunk than usual night-out levels, she opened up with "I've missed you matt. But I could never sleep with you, you're too nice a guy. But we'll always be friends, right?".

Before or after the new hair style and/or new jeans?

[vrsmxtb]

wendyg said:

Just being nice means nothing. It's good, of course, but irrelevant.
I've been looking at your posting recently.



Wow, that is really boring.
No girl is even slightly interested it the stuff youve been posting.

Be open
Be engaging
Be cheerful
Be interesting
Be interested
Be funny
Be kind
Be generous
Be attentive

You know all my personality defects from a random load of posts on a car forum. Impressive!

[LeeMad]

Plotloss said:

Apostrophes and capitals on the other hand...

you an english teacher or something? theres more important things in life to worry about.

[KingNothing]

mat777 said:

I am in exactly the same boat as you. Apparently I'm too nice a guy. What the fk is it with girls that they go for the utter douchebags, then moan that they are being taken for granted??? Then they repeat the whole cycle all over again and NEVER fkING LEARN!!!!!!!!!

There's a breathtakingly gorgeous girl here at uni who I so so really utterly fancied 9and she knew it) when I met her in my accomodation last year but I never got close.. I assumed it was because she was way out of my league.

However, after bumping into her in a nightclub this year and seeing her way more drunk than usual night-out levels, she opened up with "I've missed you matt. But I could never sleep with you, you're too nice a guy. But we'll always be friends, right?".

You see, chance was clearly there and you blew it, after she said that you should have replied with "nah, don't think so you dirty we/bh" You would have had her frothing at the gash with that witty repsonse. Welcome to the friend zone!

[Funk]

LeeMad said:

Plotloss said:

Apostrophes and capitals on the other hand...

you an english teacher or something? theres more important things in life to worry about.

Y. E. T. '.

These things are important.

[NightRunner]

KingNothing said:

mat777 said:

I am in exactly the same boat as you. Apparently I'm too nice a guy. What the fk is it with girls that they go for the utter douchebags, then moan that they are being taken for granted??? Then they repeat the whole cycle all over again and NEVER fkING LEARN!!!!!!!!!

There's a breathtakingly gorgeous girl here at uni who I so so really utterly fancied 9and she knew it) when I met her in my accomodation last year but I never got close.. I assumed it was because she was way out of my league.

However, after bumping into her in a nightclub this year and seeing her way more drunk than usual night-out levels, she opened up with "I've missed you matt. But I could never sleep with you, you're too nice a guy. But we'll always be friends, right?".

You see, chance was clearly there and you blew it, after she said that you should have replied with "nah, don't think so you dirty we/bh" You would have had her frothing at the gash with that witty repsonse. Welcome to the friend zone!

No, you say nothing. Just flop it out.

[Fred Leicester]

KingNothing said:

"You would have had her frothing at the gash with that witty repsonse. Welcome to the friend zone!"

[Justayellowbadge]

LeeMad said:

seriously do it, i learned a long time ago that if youre too nice they just wont like you. you need confidence that borders on arrogance and if youre trying to be nice you'll never pull it off.
ive never been short of women

Do you import old VWs?

[Steamer]

wendyg said:

Be open
Be engaging
Be cheerful
Be interesting
Be interested
Be funny
Be kind
Be generous
Be attentive

That sounds like the prefect résumé from 'Mr Nice'.

I'm stuck in the desert at the moment too and I swear its because I'm 'too nice' these days.

Back when I was a bit of an arse and getting by on looks & build quality I had more chicks than Bernard Matthews.

[Lawsome]

mat777 said:

What the fk is it with girls that they go for the utter douchebags, then moan that they are being taken for granted??? Then they repeat the whole cycle all over again and NEVER fkING LEARN!!!!!!!!!

They're not really going for utter douchebags though. They're just not going for weak, easy to obtain, sweetie wifes who are willing to fall over themselves for them.

Be fun, be confident. You don't even need to be a douche. Girls want to be around guys with good energy. Just be awesome and don't act interested. They can smell your drool

[LeeMad]

Justayellowbadge said:

Do you import old VWs?

afraid not, have i missed a joke?

[Plotloss]

LeeMad said:

you an english teacher or something? theres more important things in life to worry about.

You're quite right, there is. Please don't however mistake my mockery for concern, it's done purely for comedy value.

[Steamer]

Justayellowbadge said:

Do you import old VWs?

Narr... Its gone 'Lights Out' time now.

[LeeMad]

Plotloss said:

LeeMad said:

you an english teacher or something? theres more important things in life to worry about.

You're quite right, there is. Please don't however mistake my mockery for concern, it's done purely for comedy value.

sorry, grammar nazi's grate on me. i spend far too much time writing essays and project proposals for uni to make sure forum posts are perfect haha

[Famous Graham]

mat777 said:

There's a breathtakingly gorgeous girl here at uni who I so so really utterly fancied 9and she knew it) when I met her in my accomodation last year but I never got close.. I assumed it was because she was way out of my league.

However, after bumping into her in a nightclub this year and seeing her way more drunk than usual night-out levels, she opened up with "I've missed you matt. But I could never sleep with you, you're too nice a guy. But we'll always be friends, right?".

Move over Robert Downey Jr. Someone's after your Sherlock role.

[anonymous-user]

BJG1 said:

I'm quite nice.

I get laid.

You're probably just boring.

Exactly, it's not rocket science. Make 'em laugh, but don't be a creepy fawning weirdo. That works with 90%, and the remainder are probably mental anyway.

[Adam B]

"I've missed you matt. But I could never sleep with you, you're too nice a guy. But we'll always be friends, right?".

What she really meant:

I could never sleep with you because you hair looks crap, you dress sense is dodgy as hell and, although you a fan of Americana you are in fact British, yet continue to use idiotic words like "douchebag"

No charge

Edited by Adam B on Thursday 17th May 23:57

[Stedman]

I thought this once.

Changed things. Now life is errrr...more fun! Crack on sir, crack on.