Odd things your neighbours do?

Odd things your neighbours do?

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anonymous-user

54 months

Thursday 24th June 2021
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Flumpo said:
Hackney said:
Flumpo said:
I thought that might be the case, I’m afraid I’m with the neighbour on this one.
What, you can’t park in a parking space either biggrin

According to site it’s not a parking space, even though he has exclusive access to it. I’d hoped - as he has two parking spaces and two cars - he might just do the decent thing.

He suggested other people would park there but then surely he’s got every right to ask people not to, and now he has me inside to ask the same thing.

People eh. Selfish c***s the lot of em.
So he has exclusive access to that peace of road?

You have bought the house that overlooks it and you are angry he’s blocking a view you don’t own?
Sorry to say Hackney, I'm with Flumpo. I agree it is annoying for you and the neighbour could be more considerate by simply using their own spaces but with no DYL etc there is nothing stopping anyone parking there. Be grateful it's not a caravan dumped there etc.

Basically on any new build estate with limited on street parking expect every bit of tarmac to be parked on at some point. That spot outside your window is prime parking. I learnt this lesson the hard way myself with a neighbour where I was at the end of a cul de sac and he parked on the bit of road outside his house blocking my access to my house. Bugga just couldn't see why it was a problem me not being able to access my drive.

PH User

22,154 posts

108 months

Thursday 24th June 2021
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Flumpo said:
Hackney said:
Flumpo said:
I thought that might be the case, I’m afraid I’m with the neighbour on this one.
What, you can’t park in a parking space either biggrin

According to site it’s not a parking space, even though he has exclusive access to it. I’d hoped - as he has two parking spaces and two cars - he might just do the decent thing.

He suggested other people would park there but then surely he’s got every right to ask people not to, and now he has me inside to ask the same thing.

People eh. Selfish c***s the lot of em.
So he has exclusive access to that peace of road?

You have bought the house that overlooks it and you are angry he’s blocking a view you don’t own?
I'm another one with the neighbour.

Hackney

6,828 posts

208 months

Thursday 24th June 2021
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Flumpo said:
So he has exclusive access to that peace of road?

You have bought the house that overlooks it and you are angry he’s blocking a view you don’t own?
When I said “exclusive access” I meant, no other houses would have cause to use that turning point.

I’m not that angry, yet. At the moment it’s a slight frustration over someone else’s laziness and human nature in general.
I have two spaces, I use them, even though I could park in that same space and be closer to my front door than my own spaces.

I bought the house overlooking a turning point and a nice grassy (maybe with trees too). It’s on the plans. I’ve got a view of a van.



Flumpo

3,737 posts

73 months

Thursday 24th June 2021
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Hackney said:
Flumpo said:
So he has exclusive access to that peace of road?

You have bought the house that overlooks it and you are angry he’s blocking a view you don’t own?
When I said “exclusive access” I meant, no other houses would have cause to use that turning point.

I’m not that angry, yet. At the moment it’s a slight frustration over someone else’s laziness and human nature in general.
I have two spaces, I use them, even though I could park in that same space and be closer to my front door than my own spaces.

I bought the house overlooking a turning point and a nice grassy (maybe with trees too). It’s on the plans. I’ve got a view of a van.
I’m not saying this to upset you, I think you don’t understand the plans.

If I were you I would put up a nice fast growing Laurel and focus on having a view of a beautiful garden. Have you thought about how are you going to feel when children and probably teenagers are making a lot of noise on that open space when you are working?


PF62

3,610 posts

173 months

Thursday 24th June 2021
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Hackney said:
Flumpo said:
So he has exclusive access to that peace of road?

You have bought the house that overlooks it and you are angry he’s blocking a view you don’t own?
When I said “exclusive access” I meant, no other houses would have cause to use that turning point.

I’m not that angry, yet. At the moment it’s a slight frustration over someone else’s laziness and human nature in general.
I have two spaces, I use them, even though I could park in that same space and be closer to my front door than my own spaces.

I bought the house overlooking a turning point and a nice grassy (maybe with trees too). It’s on the plans. I’ve got a view of a van.
Are you sure you would be allowed to do that given that the shaded area belongs to 73 on the deeds? Sure you might have a right to drive over that area and to use it for turning, but to park?

McGee_22

6,704 posts

179 months

Thursday 24th June 2021
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Hackney said:
It’s an odd layout. Our house is sideways on to the street address and my parking is behind the house, not on that pic. We have a different street address to the house next door, plot 74
The parking bottom right is his, two spaces.



This picture shows both “conveyancing lines” in red and the hatches are “shared access”
[url|https://thumbsnap.com/n7sFvk16[/url]

Ours is plot 73 and our property boundary is up to the turning point. Bizarrely about a metre outside the fence *facepalm*
Plot 71 has a long dark walk home from their car parking spots...

Hackney

6,828 posts

208 months

Thursday 24th June 2021
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Flumpo said:
I’m not saying this to upset you, I think you don’t understand the plans.

If I were you I would put up a nice fast growing Laurel and focus on having a view of a beautiful garden. Have you thought about how are you going to feel when children and probably teenagers are making a lot of noise on that open space when you are working?
I get what you’re saying. I guess I’m basing this on what I’d do and working with neighbours to make / keep an area as nice as possible for all of us.

Flumpo

3,737 posts

73 months

Thursday 24th June 2021
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Hackney said:
Flumpo said:
I’m not saying this to upset you, I think you don’t understand the plans.

If I were you I would put up a nice fast growing Laurel and focus on having a view of a beautiful garden. Have you thought about how are you going to feel when children and probably teenagers are making a lot of noise on that open space when you are working?
I get what you’re saying. I guess I’m basing this on what I’d do and working with neighbours to make / keep an area as nice as possible for all of us.


Honestly I think you will save yourself a lot of hassle if you put a really nice hedge, even if it’s just blocking that one bit.

Hackney

6,828 posts

208 months

Thursday 24th June 2021
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PF62 said:
Are you sure you would be allowed to do that given that the shaded area belongs to 73 on the deeds? Sure you might have a right to drive over that area and to use it for turning, but to park?
That was based on what the neighbour said, he started parking his van there to stop others parking there and making it harder to turn into his spaces.
He should’ve been using the “get orrf my laaand” argument if he actually owns the turning point, rather than just blocking it.
The builders, site manager etc don’t seem to think he does but I accept they’re not lawyers.

PF62

3,610 posts

173 months

Thursday 24th June 2021
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Hackney said:
PF62 said:
Are you sure you would be allowed to do that given that the shaded area belongs to 73 on the deeds? Sure you might have a right to drive over that area and to use it for turning, but to park?
That was based on what the neighbour said, he started parking his van there to stop others parking there and making it harder to turn into his spaces.
He should’ve been using the “get orrf my laaand” argument if he actually owns the turning point, rather than just blocking it.
The builders, site manager etc don’t seem to think he does but I accept they’re not lawyers.
Telling someone not do something you don't want them to do is less effective than preventing someone doing something you don't want them to do - so it is entirely sensible for him to park there and prevent others from doing so.

Why would the builders and site managers care less or be bothered about thinking about the legality for two seconds? Their jobs were to build houses and sell them - job done, next site please.


TTmonkey

20,911 posts

247 months

Thursday 24th June 2021
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PF62 said:
Hackney said:
Flumpo said:
So he has exclusive access to that peace of road?

You have bought the house that overlooks it and you are angry he’s blocking a view you don’t own?
When I said “exclusive access” I meant, no other houses would have cause to use that turning point.

I’m not that angry, yet. At the moment it’s a slight frustration over someone else’s laziness and human nature in general.
I have two spaces, I use them, even though I could park in that same space and be closer to my front door than my own spaces.

I bought the house overlooking a turning point and a nice grassy (maybe with trees too). It’s on the plans. I’ve got a view of a van.
Are you sure you would be allowed to do that given that the shaded area belongs to 73 on the deeds? Sure you might have a right to drive over that area and to use it for turning, but to park?
No one has rights over parking on the hatched areas. There’s been a legal battle on our street with exactly the same circumstances, same maps same issues. Even though YOU own part of it and probably have a mortgage on it….Ask a competent lawyer. The only people to gain from this was the legal people.
It caused annoyance and bad feeling on the street, including threats and very unsavoury behaviour. Furthermore, once you start a legal issue on something like this, even though you are in the right, it will be recorded as a neighbour hood dispute and must be declared in the legal pack, even after a legal judgement. Ask me how I know.

It’s not worth getting upset about. If you can still manage to park your car properly and access your own property then ignore the neighbor and put it aside. Don’t let it worm into your life.

Planners and builders are causing issues like this across the country. Not enough space and too many cars outside properties, especially on modern estates. Parking issues with neighbors cause many problems and actual conflict.

Hackney

6,828 posts

208 months

Thursday 24th June 2021
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TTmonkey said:
No one has rights over parking on the hatched areas. There’s been a legal battle on our street with exactly the same circumstances, same maps same issues. Even though YOU own part of it and probably have a mortgage on it….Ask a competent lawyer. The only people to gain from this was the legal people.
It caused annoyance and bad feeling on the street, including threats and very unsavoury behaviour. Furthermore, once you start a legal issue on something like this, even though you are in the right, it will be recorded as a neighbour hood dispute and must be declared in the legal pack, even after a legal judgement. Ask me how I know.

It’s not worth getting upset about. If you can still manage to park your car properly and access your own property then ignore the neighbor and put it aside. Don’t let it worm into your life.

Planners and builders are causing issues like this across the country. Not enough space and too many cars outside properties, especially on modern estates. Parking issues with neighbors cause many problems and actual conflict.
  • nods in agreement*

lord trumpton

7,381 posts

126 months

Friday 25th June 2021
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Why not stir up a bit of st and contact the company he works for?

Explain the situation - they might just have a word with him

Paddymcc

931 posts

191 months

Friday 25th June 2021
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Christ on a bike complaining about a neighbour parking his van on his land because it's spoiling your view. What a way to build neighbourly relations.

Why don't you move your office space to another room?

mfmman

2,387 posts

183 months

Friday 25th June 2021
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I used to live in a house with a similar layout. The three houses that used the shared driveway had equal rights of access and responsibility for upkeep. In the deeds of the house there was a clause that it was not for parking purposes. I was the equivalent of No75. When the previous owners of my house parked in the turning space a few times, No74 got a solicitor to write to them to ask them to stop (even though they didn't have a car). The previous owners of my house told me about this when we viewed, although No74 had changed hands by them anyway.

If it's like my case then Hackney wouldn't have the same clause - as no use of the shared drive - so no ability to object.


How u doing

27,006 posts

183 months

Friday 25th June 2021
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bimsb6 said:
No , both garages belong to that property .the one on the left can’t be driven into due to the hedging on the left and to get into the right one you need to slalom your way past the conifer , before he died he asked me if i would cut it down for him , except the lazy bd wouldn’t have helped and i would have had to lug it all up the garden which is approx 50m away . fk that .

Edited by bimsb6 on Thursday 24th June 21:10
Did he tell you he wasn't well?

Blown2CV

28,786 posts

203 months

Friday 25th June 2021
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that 'tree cut in half' story has all the hallmarks of being totally fabricated for likes.

illmonkey

18,177 posts

198 months

Friday 25th June 2021
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Blown2CV said:
that 'tree cut in half' story has all the hallmarks of being totally fabricated for likes.
Not so sure, on my walk to the local there is a 'hedge' about 25m long and 3m tall that has been totally stripped one side. you can just see the branches of the other side.

I imagine there is a story behind it!

ETA: Ok, I'll go to the pub and get a photo on route...

jamei303

3,001 posts

156 months

Friday 25th June 2021
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People planting stuff on boundaries instead of at an appropriate distance inside leads to misshapen trees and hedges and is entirely their fault. Boils my piss when people do this with hedges which then take up half the pavement.

vetrof

2,485 posts

173 months

Friday 25th June 2021
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How u doing said:
bimsb6 said:
No , both garages belong to that property .the one on the left can’t be driven into due to the hedging on the left and to get into the right one you need to slalom your way past the conifer , before he died he asked me if i would cut it down for him , except the lazy bd wouldn’t have helped and i would have had to lug it all up the garden which is approx 50m away . fk that .

Edited by bimsb6 on Thursday 24th June 21:10
Did he tell you he wasn't well?
He lived next to Spike Milligan?