Match.com (Volume 6)

Match.com (Volume 6)

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soad

32,882 posts

176 months

Wednesday 29th August 2018
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How does Bumble work, from a female's perspective?

I get a Match Queue, multiple times. If you click on your match, it says ladies go first.

Do they have to pay to message you?! Or only get a certain message limit daily etc?

For instance, super likes are free on Tinder (you know what I mean). Not so here, require coin credit.

Blown2CV

28,786 posts

203 months

Wednesday 29th August 2018
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soad said:
How does Bumble work, from a female's perspective?

I get a Match Queue, multiple times. If you click on your match, it says ladies go first.

Do they have to pay to message you?! Or only get a certain message limit daily etc?

For instance, super likes are free on Tinder (you know what I mean). Not so here, require coin credit.
you have to pay, beg, plead, present them with offerings, sign a contract for endless cunnilingus and to do all the housework and babysit her 5 kids, then yes, you can then send her a message.

trixical

1,054 posts

175 months

Wednesday 29th August 2018
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soad said:
How does Bumble work, from a female's perspective?

I get a Match Queue, multiple times. If you click on your match, it says ladies go first.

Do they have to pay to message you?! Or only get a certain message limit daily etc?

For instance, super likes are free on Tinder (you know what I mean). Not so here, require coin credit.
The ladies have to message first on Bumble within 24 hours of the match or it is lost (& money has to be paid to get it back) I think you can extend matches, they don't have to pay anything just pull their finger out and type but some (including friends of mine) still don't realise that they have to send the first message despite it being mentioned everywhere and sending you reminders when the 24 hours are nearly up.
If they do send the first message you have to respond back within 24 hours or the match also goes.

soad

32,882 posts

176 months

Wednesday 29th August 2018
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Yes, there's a single Daily Extend. Can't even see that working, tbh.

soad

32,882 posts

176 months

Wednesday 29th August 2018
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Blown2CV said:
you have to pay, beg, plead, present them with offerings, sign a contract for endless cunnilingus and to do all the housework and babysit her 5 kids, then yes, you can then send her a message.
Too much work for me. hehe

trixical

1,054 posts

175 months

Wednesday 29th August 2018
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soad said:
Yes, there's a single Daily Extend. Can't even see that working, tbh.
Probably not
Its just as frustrating as a woman, get a match, send first message then no response so its lost, in fact have had instances where i've matched with the same person more than once as they have either wiped their profile or got multiple set up I presume. I've binned off the 1 or 2 that I was trying again as its the same people on them all & am taking it that i'm too boring/normal/a unicorn hunter lol

Blown2CV

28,786 posts

203 months

Wednesday 29th August 2018
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Blown2CV

28,786 posts

203 months

Wednesday 29th August 2018
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anonymous said:
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it was more the sentence in the 'about' section that would resonate with most PHers

Cold

15,237 posts

90 months

Wednesday 29th August 2018
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Blown2CV said:
it was more the sentence in the 'about' section that would resonate with most PHers
As before, use Google to reverse search that picture... laugh

moanthebairns

17,933 posts

198 months

Thursday 30th August 2018
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trixical said:
soad said:
How does Bumble work, from a female's perspective?

I get a Match Queue, multiple times. If you click on your match, it says ladies go first.

Do they have to pay to message you?! Or only get a certain message limit daily etc?

For instance, super likes are free on Tinder (you know what I mean). Not so here, require coin credit.
The ladies have to message first on Bumble within 24 hours of the match or it is lost (& money has to be paid to get it back) I think you can extend matches, they don't have to pay anything just pull their finger out and type but some (including friends of mine) still don't realise that they have to send the first message despite it being mentioned everywhere and sending you reminders when the 24 hours are nearly up.
If they do send the first message you have to respond back within 24 hours or the match also goes.
I've two mates that are on this. One said he just basically swiped everything right and eventually met one person.
The other has had fake accounts liking him first that he has to pay to see or something.
I looked at it, its bks, there seems to be a hell of a lot of americans living in falkirk with 2 prong plug sockets in the back of photos.

Calza

1,992 posts

115 months

Thursday 30th August 2018
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I thought bumble was quite fun, took some of the pressure off!

moanthebairns

17,933 posts

198 months

Thursday 30th August 2018
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Calza said:
I thought bumble was quite fun, took some of the pressure off!
I'm not on it but I have perused it, I note your London location, I reckon it'd work well there, there isn't much to pick from in a Scottish town of 40 thousand.

mcdjl

5,446 posts

195 months

Thursday 30th August 2018
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moanthebairns said:
Calza said:
I thought bumble was quite fun, took some of the pressure off!
I'm not on it but I have perused it, I note your London location, I reckon it'd work well there, there isn't much to pick from in a Scottish town of 40 thousand.
Isn't that the case for any of the options though? i liked bumble, its worked best of all of them for me!

moanthebairns

17,933 posts

198 months

Thursday 30th August 2018
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I don't disagree but when my mate showed me who was "nearby" dozens of profiles showed women from USA in Falkirk. Dozens.

Fermit and Sarah

12,908 posts

100 months

Friday 7th September 2018
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xjay1337

15,966 posts

118 months

Friday 7th September 2018
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Fermit and Sarah said:
Not really.

From the article:

“I’m not on Tinder actively looking to date or for a relationship, and I haven’t been on a date from there.

“I just find it funny to scroll through now and then and have chats with people – especially when they’re funny.

“But when I’m back from holiday I don’t see any harm in potentially going on a date with him and seeing what happens.”


What's the fking point then. This is why guys have issues.

Fermit and Sarah

12,908 posts

100 months

Friday 7th September 2018
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xjay1337 said:
Fermit and Sarah said:
Not really.

From the article:

“I’m not on Tinder actively looking to date or for a relationship, and I haven’t been on a date from there.

“I just find it funny to scroll through now and then and have chats with people – especially when they’re funny.

“But when I’m back from holiday I don’t see any harm in potentially going on a date with him and seeing what happens.”


What's the fking point then. This is why guys have issues.
She maybe playing it cool, but he's got a date all the same, and she's quite tidy. Job jobbed I'd say.

Saleen836

11,104 posts

209 months

Friday 7th September 2018
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Why do women insist on only using photos on their profile they have taken using snapchat filters or photos of themself that after you meet them you instantly realise the photos were taken 15-20 years ago?

Blown2CV

28,786 posts

203 months

Friday 7th September 2018
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Saleen836 said:
Why do women insist on only using photos on their profile they have taken using snapchat filters or photos of themself that after you meet them you instantly realise the photos were taken 15-20 years ago?
hobbies include rhetorical questions.

carguy45

221 posts

164 months

Friday 7th September 2018
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Blown2CV said:
hobbies include rhetorical questions.
Well played!
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