Match.com (Volume 6)
Discussion
davek_964 said:
hyphen said:
'anything'? Yes, most non-desperate guys would turn down someone they don't find attractive. That's pretty normal.
Op was implying he would wait till signs of a relationship being possible which is a different thing, that would be normally done by those who were more religious.
It has nothing to do with religion, and it's not even that I'm "saving myself" for a relationship.Op was implying he would wait till signs of a relationship being possible which is a different thing, that would be normally done by those who were more religious.
I've been a complete tart at various times in my past, but for various reasons - none of which I intend to share here - I have no interest in jumping into bed with the first girl that offers at the moment.
These days, I need a connection, for there to be something more before jumping into bed. On the occasions where I've just gone for it in recent years, I've felt disappointed by the whole thing. Seems to be getting more prevalent as I get older.
Monkeylegend said:
moanthebairns said:
hyphen said:
davek_964 said:
Also - to be 100% clear - I am not sleeping with anybody until I am absolutely sure I want to see if a relationship will develop...
Unusual.etc.
Blown2CV said:
Monkeylegend said:
moanthebairns said:
hyphen said:
davek_964 said:
Also - to be 100% clear - I am not sleeping with anybody until I am absolutely sure I want to see if a relationship will develop...
Unusual.etc.
I think I'm done with this thread.
davek_964 said:
Blown2CV said:
Monkeylegend said:
moanthebairns said:
hyphen said:
davek_964 said:
Also - to be 100% clear - I am not sleeping with anybody until I am absolutely sure I want to see if a relationship will develop...
Unusual.etc.
I think I'm done with this thread.
davek_964 said:
Blown2CV said:
Monkeylegend said:
moanthebairns said:
hyphen said:
davek_964 said:
Also - to be 100% clear - I am not sleeping with anybody until I am absolutely sure I want to see if a relationship will develop...
Unusual.etc.
I think I'm done with this thread.
CharlesdeGaulle said:
Blown2CV said:
I miss the CB days.
That makes one of us. There are quite enough self-absorbed fantasists already without delving back into the past. Easy to snipe though.
garlicbread said:
Years ago when I was dating I decided to see two ladies at the same time and I got caught out. I was with one in a shopping centre and bumped into the other. I’ve never felt so unlucky. This was a year after cheating in my then wife.
I’m a real charmer
Both dump you, or did you get an ultimatum from one or both?I’m a real charmer
hyphen said:
garlicbread said:
Years ago when I was dating I decided to see two ladies at the same time and I got caught out. I was with one in a shopping centre and bumped into the other. I’ve never felt so unlucky. This was a year after cheating in my then wife.
I’m a real charmer
Both dump you, or did you get an ultimatum from one or both?I’m a real charmer
br d said:
You should meet him, nothing fantasy about it. He's settled a bit these days but he was exactly the same person in real life as his persona on here.
Easy to snipe though.
Both left me as I was “untrustworthy”. It was not my fault. I am now happily married and have never considered cheating since. It just shows you that at the i was unhappy with my relationships and marriage. Easy to snipe though.
Monkeylegend said:
moanthebairns said:
hyphen said:
davek_964 said:
Also - to be 100% clear - I am not sleeping with anybody until I am absolutely sure I want to see if a relationship will develop...
Unusual.Just finally ended a relationship that had lurched on life support since our 1st anniversary last year
Took her to the pub we met in, booked same table, presents hidden behind bar brought out with food. I was really pleased with myself
30 minutes later she’s laying into me saying I’m thoughtless amongst other traits, because I’m still friends with my daughters mums family I’m still in love with that ex (of 12 years). I knew then but for whatever excuse it continued
Ritual belittling and undermining until I reacted then I’m called angry, I blame her and then I’m an abuser as abusers always blame the victim (fking logic bomb)
Give it a few months and I’ll dust down the tinder account
Women!
Blown2CV said:
my mate married a brazilian girl. He met her on copacabana, and even thought she barely spoke any english they hit it off and that was that. You're probably imagining her to look a certain way, but unfortunately she is about 4 feet tall and looks like a shaved pug.
This did not get the deserved recognition-Fermit and Sexy Sarah said:
Some girls do just like older men though. At 36 I was seeing a 20 year old, and at 31 i was seeing a 19 y/o. It does happen. Just keep your guard up, and if it turns out to be legit then fill your boots!
52 here and my girlfriend is 31. The difference is absolutely no issue to us st all. We get on fantastically well and have plenty in common. MCSV8 said:
Blown2CV said:
my mate married a brazilian girl. He met her on copacabana, and even thought she barely spoke any english they hit it off and that was that. You're probably imagining her to look a certain way, but unfortunately she is about 4 feet tall and looks like a shaved pug.
This did not get the deserved recognition-The 21yo has disappeared. Definitely something funny about that but cant put my finger on it. The messages seemed real enough, but none of the photos were identifiable as local... fk knows.
Friday's one has proved a bit of an eye opener though. I'll not go into detail or Lemming Train will be calling me a liar again, but text has a way of getting down to the nitty gritty that meeting or talking doesn't, or at least would take much longer. It must be the relative anonymity or something, but they sure as hell open up.
Friday's one has proved a bit of an eye opener though. I'll not go into detail or Lemming Train will be calling me a liar again, but text has a way of getting down to the nitty gritty that meeting or talking doesn't, or at least would take much longer. It must be the relative anonymity or something, but they sure as hell open up.
George Smiley said:
Monkeylegend said:
moanthebairns said:
hyphen said:
davek_964 said:
Also - to be 100% clear - I am not sleeping with anybody until I am absolutely sure I want to see if a relationship will develop...
Unusual.Just finally ended a relationship that had lurched on life support since our 1st anniversary last year
Took her to the pub we met in, booked same table, presents hidden behind bar brought out with food. I was really pleased with myself
30 minutes later she’s laying into me saying I’m thoughtless amongst other traits, because I’m still friends with my daughters mums family I’m still in love with that ex (of 12 years). I knew then but for whatever excuse it continued
Ritual belittling and undermining until I reacted then I’m called angry, I blame her and then I’m an abuser as abusers always blame the victim (fking logic bomb)
Give it a few months and I’ll dust down the tinder account
Women!
g3org3y said:
George Smiley said:
Monkeylegend said:
moanthebairns said:
hyphen said:
davek_964 said:
Also - to be 100% clear - I am not sleeping with anybody until I am absolutely sure I want to see if a relationship will develop...
Unusual.Just finally ended a relationship that had lurched on life support since our 1st anniversary last year
Took her to the pub we met in, booked same table, presents hidden behind bar brought out with food. I was really pleased with myself
30 minutes later she’s laying into me saying I’m thoughtless amongst other traits, because I’m still friends with my daughters mums family I’m still in love with that ex (of 12 years). I knew then but for whatever excuse it continued
Ritual belittling and undermining until I reacted then I’m called angry, I blame her and then I’m an abuser as abusers always blame the victim (fking logic bomb)
Give it a few months and I’ll dust down the tinder account
Women!
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