Dating an older woman

Dating an older woman

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johnwilliams77

8,308 posts

103 months

Thursday 23rd November 2017
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civiclegend said:
I’ve had some experience of the stigma attached to the age-gap thing.

I (37) was out for dinner with my girlfriend (19!) - the night was somewhat tainted by calls of ‘Paedo’ and ‘kiddy-fiddler’.

Completely ruined our ten-year anniversary.
Tell us when to laugh

steveL98

1,090 posts

180 months

Thursday 23rd November 2017
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My first was 45 when I was 18.. Awesome! I learned stuff that I tried on girls my own age later that shocked them although considered normal now.

This set me on a path of older women and as I worked a few years in a carpet factory employing about 3000, it was constant. Never had any problem with their age and a lot were at least 15-20years older than me and always up for it married or not (the married ones were the best, such great liars, no-one would suspect what they got up to). Got engaged to a girl nearer my own age back in '75 and that broke up as I had her mum too and got caught..

One lady I can remember a while back ago was a fit and curvy 66 year old. Bored with life at home, her three boys were married and away, her husband played golf and watched football, and the worst part of it for her was because she was being called 'mother' by her hubby. This is ok for her boys, but it really bugged her that she took care of herself and had more time on her hands, but hubby was too thick to realise this and basically, she told me that she was still keen and if her hubby wasn't going to pay her attention, she'd look elsewhere and she did, with me and my mate (not at the same time), and because hubby was focussed elsewhere, it wouldn't occur to him that his neglected wife at 66 would ever cheat on him as women are waaaay better liars than guys...




Superflow

1,399 posts

132 months

Thursday 23rd November 2017
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steveL98 said:
My first was 45 when I was 18.. Awesome! I learned stuff that I tried on girls my own age later that shocked them although considered normal now.

This set me on a path of older women and as I worked a few years in a carpet factory employing about 3000, it was constant. Never had any problem with their age and a lot were at least 15-20years older than me and always up for it married or not (the married ones were the best, such great liars, no-one would suspect what they got up to). Got engaged to a girl nearer my own age back in '75 and that broke up as I had her mum too and got caught..

One lady I can remember a while back ago was a fit and curvy 66 year old. Bored with life at home, her three boys were married and away, her husband played golf and watched football, and the worst part of it for her was because she was being called 'mother' by her hubby. This is ok for her boys, but it really bugged her that she took care of herself and had more time on her hands, but hubby was too thick to realise this and basically, she told me that she was still keen and if her hubby wasn't going to pay her attention, she'd look elsewhere and she did, with me and my mate (not at the same time), and because hubby was focussed elsewhere, it wouldn't occur to him that his neglected wife at 66 would ever cheat on him as women are waaaay better liars than guys...


Steve,if only the internet was around in the seventies you could of been the original milf hunter haha.

Ari

19,347 posts

215 months

Thursday 23rd November 2017
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steveL98 said:
My first was 45 when I was 18.. Awesome! I learned stuff that I tried on girls my own age later that shocked them although considered normal now.

This set me on a path of older women and as I worked a few years in a carpet factory employing about 3000, it was constant. Never had any problem with their age and a lot were at least 15-20years older than me and always up for it married or not (the married ones were the best, such great liars, no-one would suspect what they got up to). Got engaged to a girl nearer my own age back in '75 and that broke up as I had her mum too and got caught..

One lady I can remember a while back ago was a fit and curvy 66 year old. Bored with life at home, her three boys were married and away, her husband played golf and watched football, and the worst part of it for her was because she was being called 'mother' by her hubby. This is ok for her boys, but it really bugged her that she took care of herself and had more time on her hands, but hubby was too thick to realise this and basically, she told me that she was still keen and if her hubby wasn't going to pay her attention, she'd look elsewhere and she did, with me and my mate (not at the same time), and because hubby was focussed elsewhere, it wouldn't occur to him that his neglected wife at 66 would ever cheat on him as women are waaaay better liars than guys...
Step away from Pornhub, the line is getting too blurred... biggrin

Kneetrembler

2,069 posts

202 months

Friday 24th November 2017
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46 - 50 for the very best ever women, the best years of my life ever, young men just will never understand , sad or what !
If you like or love women then 40- 50 is the very best time to enjoy their company as they are at their very best.
The best

johnwilliams77

8,308 posts

103 months

Friday 24th November 2017
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Kneetrembler said:
46 - 50 for the very best ever women, the best years of my life ever, young men just will never understand , sad or what !
If you like or love women then 40- 50 is the very best time to enjoy their company as they are at their very best.
The best
Errrrrr, ok

DanielSan

18,786 posts

167 months

Friday 24th November 2017
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The last few posts have featured one bloke addicted to what can only be described as grannies and a post that’s downright weird.

I’m amazed if took this long really

steveL98

1,090 posts

180 months

Friday 24th November 2017
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DanielSan said:
The last few posts have featured one bloke addicted to what can only be described as grannies and a post that’s downright weird.

I’m amazed if took this long really
I know someone who was a granny twice over before she was 30..

I know this tends to make some guys uncomfortable as your only supposed to fancy young and skinny women, but in my experience (I'm 63 now) they just don't cut it. They don't have the correct attitude and too many mental distractions and hang ups to know how to enjoy what older women do, and this has been my experience since I was 18. 40's to 50's is my favourite age range and one reason why I married a lovely lady 13years my junior.

Guys are mainly liars and gutless when confronted with this subject in front of their peers. Ask a bunch of guys collectively in a pub who they find attractive and you'll get answers like Kylie Minogue etc, get those guys on their own and you'll get a very different answer! Not got the balls to stand up and tell the world what really pushes their buttons, so to ensure they don't suffer ridicule themselves, they make nervous jokes hoping no one will take the p*ss out of them. Losers!

All I can say is if you haven't tried an older woman, you haven't lived.. Put aside the need to "be seen" with a trophy and enjoy real sexual athletics with a mature!

xjay1337

15,966 posts

118 months

Friday 24th November 2017
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Are you OK mate?

steveL98

1,090 posts

180 months

Friday 24th November 2017
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xjay1337 said:
Are you OK mate?
Never better! wink

mjb1

2,556 posts

159 months

Friday 24th November 2017
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steveL98 said:
I know someone who was a granny twice over before she was 30..

I know this tends to make some guys uncomfortable as your only supposed to fancy young and skinny women, but in my experience (I'm 63 now) they just don't cut it. They don't have the correct attitude and too many mental distractions and hang ups to know how to enjoy what older women do, and this has been my experience since I was 18. 40's to 50's is my favourite age range and one reason why I married a lovely lady 13years my junior.

Guys are mainly liars and gutless when confronted with this subject in front of their peers. Ask a bunch of guys collectively in a pub who they find attractive and you'll get answers like Kylie Minogue etc, get those guys on their own and you'll get a very different answer! Not got the balls to stand up and tell the world what really pushes their buttons, so to ensure they don't suffer ridicule themselves, they make nervous jokes hoping no one will take the p*ss out of them. Losers!

All I can say is if you haven't tried an older woman, you haven't lived.. Put aside the need to "be seen" with a trophy and enjoy real sexual athletics with a mature!
The granny comments are more a reference to age than the status though. I'm sure the 30 y/o granny is a still fit, just an exception from the norm. Although she sounds a bit 'council' for my liking.

At 63 yourself, a woman in her 40's and 50's is probably a good result for you! But frankly it's a bit weird to suggest a young bloke should be targetting women of that age, other than perhaps for a bit of cougar experience. If a 20 y/o bloke shacks up with a 50 y/o long term, the prospect reaching 40 & 70 together don't really sound appealing.

Also, Kylie almost 50, so bang in the middle of your age category!

BigMon

4,186 posts

129 months

Friday 24th November 2017
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Chuckling away reading the last couple of pages. This thread is rapidly becoming golden.

Ari

19,347 posts

215 months

Friday 24th November 2017
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steveL98 said:
I know someone who was a granny twice over before she was 30..

I know this tends to make some guys uncomfortable as your only supposed to fancy young and skinny women, but in my experience (I'm 63 now) they just don't cut it. They don't have the correct attitude and too many mental distractions and hang ups to know how to enjoy what older women do, and this has been my experience since I was 18. 40's to 50's is my favourite age range and one reason why I married a lovely lady 13years my junior.

Guys are mainly liars and gutless when confronted with this subject in front of their peers. Ask a bunch of guys collectively in a pub who they find attractive and you'll get answers like Kylie Minogue etc, get those guys on their own and you'll get a very different answer! Not got the balls to stand up and tell the world what really pushes their buttons, so to ensure they don't suffer ridicule themselves, they make nervous jokes hoping no one will take the p*ss out of them. Losers!

All I can say is if you haven't tried an older woman, you haven't lived.. Put aside the need to "be seen" with a trophy and enjoy real sexual athletics with a mature!
Are you new to Pistonheads? biggrin

The ONLY thing that matters to most of our esteemed 'members' is, does she look like a supermodel? Doesn't matter if she's stupid, vapid, completely nuts, only after you for your money. That's it, that's the criteria.

Take a look at Classics From The Missus (where most posts have you thinking 'my god she must be attractive' or the many many 'SWT/divorce nightmare threads that leave you thinking the same way. Or one of the many Aintree threads where ridicule is poured over women who dare to go out in public and enjoy themselves without meeting the required stick thin and under thirty PH standards.

For the record, I'm with you. Give me a real woman over some simpering vapid Facebook obsessed Heat reading princess every time. smile

schmunk

4,399 posts

125 months

Friday 24th November 2017
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steveL98 said:
Guys are mainly liars

MontyC

538 posts

168 months

Friday 24th November 2017
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steveL98 said:
My first was 45 when I was 18.. Awesome! I learned stuff that I tried on girls my own age later that shocked them although considered normal now.

This set me on a path of older women and as I worked a few years in a carpet factory employing about 3000, it was constant. Never had any problem with their age and a lot were at least 15-20years older than me and always up for it married or not (the married ones were the best, such great liars, no-one would suspect what they got up to). Got engaged to a girl nearer my own age back in '75 and that broke up as I had her mum too and got caught..

One lady I can remember a while back ago was a fit and curvy 66 year old. Bored with life at home, her three boys were married and away, her husband played golf and watched football, and the worst part of it for her was because she was being called 'mother' by her hubby. This is ok for her boys, but it really bugged her that she took care of herself and had more time on her hands, but hubby was too thick to realise this and basically, she told me that she was still keen and if her hubby wasn't going to pay her attention, she'd look elsewhere and she did, with me and my mate (not at the same time), and because hubby was focussed elsewhere, it wouldn't occur to him that his neglected wife at 66 would ever cheat on him as women are waaaay better liars than guys...
Fit and curvy 66 year old Really!! laugh

dai1983

2,912 posts

149 months

Friday 24th November 2017
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MontyC said:
Fit and curvy 66 year old Really!! laugh
Two of my sisters friends are over 60. I’m 34 now and I would jump at the chance!

schmunk

4,399 posts

125 months

Friday 24th November 2017
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dai1983 said:
MontyC said:
Fit and curvy 66 year old Really!! laugh
Two of my sisters friends are over 60. I’m 34 now and I would jump at the chance!
Foursome, eh?

steveL98

1,090 posts

180 months

Friday 24th November 2017
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Getting older, with less things to worry about and hassle me, I find it easier to speak about such things..

Always had an open mind though, and what was important to me was, and still is, love, emotion, selflessness, fun etc, Never really had much thought for material things, like houses, money, status, how society regards me, etc. I think that's why I still enjoy to drive my Corvette as a regular commuter car and got my first tattoo recently. Never did quite fit in with mainstream male expectations.

Didn't hurt my 35 year career as an NHS B8 bio-engineer though, with staff and a 'boys club' style medical engineering lab. I'll be retired soon with my 'gold plated pension', more time for the missus and lots of fond memories to reflect upon.

Time is short guys, you owe it to yourselves to live a little.. wink

Shnozz

27,473 posts

271 months

Friday 24th November 2017
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steveL98 said:
Getting older, with less things to worry about and hassle me, I find it easier to speak about such things..

Always had an open mind though, and what was important to me was, and still is, love, emotion, selflessness, fun etc, Never really had much thought for material things, like houses, money, status, how society regards me, etc. I think that's why I still enjoy to drive my Corvette as a regular commuter car and got my first tattoo recently. Never did quite fit in with mainstream male expectations.

Didn't hurt my 35 year career as an NHS B8 bio-engineer though, with staff and a 'boys club' style medical engineering lab. I'll be retired soon with my 'gold plated pension', more time for the missus and lots of fond memories to reflect upon.

Time is short guys, you owe it to yourselves to live a little.. wink
Your sentiments are in alignment with my own. However, subjective it may be, but I don't need to have sex with 66 year old women to live a little.

steveL98

1,090 posts

180 months

Friday 24th November 2017
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MontyC said:
steveL98 said:
My first was 45 when I was 18.. Awesome! I learned stuff that I tried on girls my own age later that shocked them although considered normal now.

This set me on a path of older women and as I worked a few years in a carpet factory employing about 3000, it was constant. Never had any problem with their age and a lot were at least 15-20years older than me and always up for it married or not (the married ones were the best, such great liars, no-one would suspect what they got up to). Got engaged to a girl nearer my own age back in '75 and that broke up as I had her mum too and got caught..

One lady I can remember a while back ago was a fit and curvy 66 year old. Bored with life at home, her three boys were married and away, her husband played golf and watched football, and the worst part of it for her was because she was being called 'mother' by her hubby. This is ok for her boys, but it really bugged her that she took care of herself and had more time on her hands, but hubby was too thick to realise this and basically, she told me that she was still keen and if her hubby wasn't going to pay her attention, she'd look elsewhere and she did, with me and my mate (not at the same time), and because hubby was focussed elsewhere, it wouldn't occur to him that his neglected wife at 66 would ever cheat on him as women are waaaay better liars than guys...
Fit and curvy 66 year old Really!! laugh
Try it, you'll like it.. What have you got to lose, ..your virginity? rofl