Dating an older woman
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S10GTA said:
Saw a lady for a while, 9 year gap. I was late 20s, she was late 30s. Utterly adored her and she was filthy. Got scared about the age gap, plus she had two teenage kids, I had none. Backed off. Regret losing her, but not the baggage.
Get stuck in, just don't get too attached.
No 'baggage' as such, she has no kids. She is recently divorced though. Get stuck in, just don't get too attached.
AVV EM said:
Baz2000 said:
Can't be arsed going through 50+ pages, what was the outcome out of interest?
Meets up at lunch in cafeteria, she asks if he's going to the pub on friday.Meet up at pub, turns out she has an OH.
Couple weeks later finds out she is in on/off relationship with OH.
Sends an email to her
Thread died.
Some great experiences being shared on this thread 
I've had the same experience in the past, 9 years senior to me. She looked younger than her age, was always gagging for it, keen to do most things, etc. That lasted a few years but she got a little saggy and floppy (too much rogering I suppose) and traded her in for a younger model.
Years and years before that I had some fluff on the side for a few months with a divorcee 20 years my senior, very fit bod and an absolute cracker in the sack, but that was just fun, her pussy was surprising tight given she'd popped out two kids.
The positives:
If you don't want a family the older woman scenario can be good
Usually they're more settled in their career
In general they tend to be slightly "lower maintenance" than the later models.
The negatives:
She may be wanting kids soon (someone mentioned the ticking clock)
Menopause.... down the line (when your mates have partners who are not experiencing the same with their ladies)
Dry pussy, spend half your time lubricating.
I've had the same experience in the past, 9 years senior to me. She looked younger than her age, was always gagging for it, keen to do most things, etc. That lasted a few years but she got a little saggy and floppy (too much rogering I suppose) and traded her in for a younger model.
Years and years before that I had some fluff on the side for a few months with a divorcee 20 years my senior, very fit bod and an absolute cracker in the sack, but that was just fun, her pussy was surprising tight given she'd popped out two kids.
The positives:
If you don't want a family the older woman scenario can be good
Usually they're more settled in their career
In general they tend to be slightly "lower maintenance" than the later models.
The negatives:
She may be wanting kids soon (someone mentioned the ticking clock)
Menopause.... down the line (when your mates have partners who are not experiencing the same with their ladies)
Dry pussy, spend half your time lubricating.
My wife is 11 years older. We met when I was 21. Been together 21 years and married for 10.
She already had a child from her previous marriage and didn't want any more. I didn't want kids of my own so that was fine.
Generally it's been great - we are both quite highly sexed and this was a massive aspect of our relationship in the first few years. Things have slowed lately as she is going through the menopause, but we still get down to it a couple of times a week at least which based on some things I have been reading is pretty good - some women lose it completely, and being a younger man with a high sex drive, it can have a massive impact on your relationship.
I think they key is compatibility rather than age. We just clicked and love each others company. Couldn't imagine having to go back into the dating game again - women at or below my age group just seem so high maintenance.
She already had a child from her previous marriage and didn't want any more. I didn't want kids of my own so that was fine.
Generally it's been great - we are both quite highly sexed and this was a massive aspect of our relationship in the first few years. Things have slowed lately as she is going through the menopause, but we still get down to it a couple of times a week at least which based on some things I have been reading is pretty good - some women lose it completely, and being a younger man with a high sex drive, it can have a massive impact on your relationship.
I think they key is compatibility rather than age. We just clicked and love each others company. Couldn't imagine having to go back into the dating game again - women at or below my age group just seem so high maintenance.
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