Any other expectant Dads?

Any other expectant Dads?

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Vaud

50,477 posts

155 months

Tuesday 12th February 2019
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richatnort said:
Congrats mate it's great to hear that all the tests come back low risk, we found out on Saturday so i'm guessing we're probably close with date, ours is due 16.08.

Yes took me a while to understand about baby moons too but now we're trying to figure out what type to go on which is difficult as we don't know what she'll be like at 30 weeks.
Pick something with lots of options and that doesn’t tie you to anywhere too hot, she might / will want to rest a lot and sleep might be hard by 30 weeks. Everything gets harder in the last 2 months.

E.g city break with hotel/Airbnb and set low expectations... or a hotel by a beach (not too hot)

Du1point8

21,607 posts

192 months

Tuesday 12th February 2019
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richatnort said:
Du1point8 said:
partner is 13 weeks gone and had the tests all last week and the 3 month scan and thankfully we are very low risk (despite age).

1-2500 for trisomy 21
1-19500 for trisomy 18/13

So can finally think about what we need to do.

after reading above I now know what the hell a BabyMoon is now when she mentioned it
Congrats mate it's great to hear that all the tests come back low risk, we found out on Saturday so i'm guessing we're probably close with date, ours is due 16.08.

Yes took me a while to understand about baby moons too but now we're trying to figure out what type to go on which is difficult as we don't know what she'll be like at 30 weeks.
Was 18.08, but after the 12 week scan on 12, it has the growth of 12+6, so revised to 13.08 due date.

She has demanded a BabyMoon and wants it over the Easter bank holiday weekend... so now I need to go and organise it somewhere, I want Iceland, but will settle for Bruges.

cbmotorsport

3,065 posts

118 months

Tuesday 12th February 2019
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scjgreen said:
IVF Embryo Transfer tomorrow - Fingers crossed

Hopefully can join in the Conversation soon
Good luck! I'm sure it'll go perfectly. :-)

Gary29

4,155 posts

99 months

Tuesday 12th February 2019
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Good luck to all the newly expecting and trying!

Our little bundle is 4 months now and teething apparently eek oh man is she letting us know about it!! Three teeth coming through at once, we've been spoilt with her sleep patterns up until now, so I guess it was only fair it took a hit for a while.......

scjgreen

577 posts

134 months

Tuesday 12th February 2019
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Thanks Everyone

2 Embryos transferred successfully.

Fingers Crossed

Blown2CV

28,808 posts

203 months

Tuesday 12th February 2019
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LittleBigPlanet said:
CharlieH89 v2.0 won't be in a cot for the first ~3 months anyway
6 months is the guidance.

Smitters

4,003 posts

157 months

Tuesday 12th February 2019
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Gary29 said:
Good luck to all the newly expecting and trying!

Our little bundle is 4 months now and teething apparently eek oh man is she letting us know about it!! Three teeth coming through at once, we've been spoilt with her sleep patterns up until now, so I guess it was only fair it took a hit for a while.......
Three at once is a godsend. They're no quieter with only one tooth coming through. Get it over and done with! Ours is the same. Waking every 30 mins or so for the first few hours and then giving us about two hour gaps between ruckus. Bring on the mouthful of teeth and the peace.

Stockman14

263 posts

70 months

Tuesday 12th February 2019
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Gary29 said:
Good luck to all the newly expecting and trying!

Our little bundle is 4 months now and teething apparently eek oh man is she letting us know about it!! Three teeth coming through at once, we've been spoilt with her sleep patterns up until now, so I guess it was only fair it took a hit for a while.......
Have you tried amber beads?

Vaud

50,477 posts

155 months

Tuesday 12th February 2019
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Liquid Anbesol worked for my two... Lidocaine in alcohol. Gives them 3-4 hours relief.

Jonnny

29,397 posts

189 months

Wednesday 13th February 2019
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Vaud said:
Du1point8 said:
after reading above I now know what the hell a BabyMoon is now when she mentioned it
Do it.. but not too late into 2nd trimester!
I 100% recommend a baby moon, we didn't and we've hardly had any physical contact as husband and wife since about 7 months into the pregnancy, our little one is now 3 months old..

If you do manage to get them down, you're either too tired or have jobs to do rather than be husband and wife as you were before, and even worse.. If you do manage to get some time, he's managed to wake up twice mid-way through, extremely frustrating laugh

CharlieH89

9,079 posts

165 months

Wednesday 13th February 2019
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Jonnny said:
Vaud said:
Du1point8 said:
after reading above I now know what the hell a BabyMoon is now when she mentioned it
Do it.. but not too late into 2nd trimester!
I 100% recommend a baby moon, we didn't and we've hardly had any physical contact as husband and wife since about 7 months into the pregnancy, our little one is now 3 months old..

If you do manage to get them down, you're either too tired or have jobs to do rather than be husband and wife as you were before, and even worse.. If you do manage to get some time, he's managed to wake up twice mid-way through, extremely frustrating laugh
Spot on there. 35+6 weeks and there’s not been much contact the past few weeks due to my wife being in pain. Still had sex though hehe

Scan today the ground floor was freezing. Go up in the lift and walk into this part of the building and it is like a tropical paradise laugh

Medical reason or because the majority of staff are woman and like it like a devils lair?
I know now why some on here have recommended shorts on the maternity ward haha!

Edited by CharlieH89 on Wednesday 13th February 09:49

Gary29

4,155 posts

99 months

Wednesday 13th February 2019
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Vaud said:
Liquid Anbesol worked for my two... Lidocaine in alcohol. Gives them 3-4 hours relief.
Yeah we picked up some of this yesterday, seemed to soothe her, fell asleep at 10 last night, didn't wake up until 6:30 this morning, I'll take that!

We thought it was due to the 4 month vaccinations she had on Friday, but only realised it was teething as she kept rubbing her face and trying to chew her hands. It's early for teething apparently, but it looks like she's got more than 3, she's got 3 along the bottom and 3 or 4 along the top, no wonder she's been naggy, still been managing to smile at us periodically through the tears bless her.

Amber beads, never heard of them, but will bare them in mind if the Anbesol fails us.

The Moose

22,847 posts

209 months

Wednesday 13th February 2019
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CharlieH89 said:
Scan today the ground floor was freezing. Go up in the lift and walk into this part of the building and it is like a tropical paradise laugh

Medical reason or because the majority of staff are woman and like it like a devils lair?
I know now why some on here have recommended shorts on the maternity ward haha!
The labor floor here is so freaking cold - it feels like the a/c is cranked up to the max.

richatnort

3,026 posts

131 months

Wednesday 13th February 2019
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CharlieH89 said:
Jonnny said:
Vaud said:
Du1point8 said:
after reading above I now know what the hell a BabyMoon is now when she mentioned it
Do it.. but not too late into 2nd trimester!
I 100% recommend a baby moon, we didn't and we've hardly had any physical contact as husband and wife since about 7 months into the pregnancy, our little one is now 3 months old..

If you do manage to get them down, you're either too tired or have jobs to do rather than be husband and wife as you were before, and even worse.. If you do manage to get some time, he's managed to wake up twice mid-way through, extremely frustrating laugh
Spot on there. 35+6 weeks and there’s not been much contact the past few weeks due to my wife being in pain. Still had sex though hehe

Scan today the ground floor was freezing. Go up in the lift and walk into this part of the building and it is like a tropical paradise laugh

Medical reason or because the majority of staff are woman and like it like a devils lair?
I know now why some on here have recommended shorts on the maternity ward haha!

Edited by CharlieH89 on Wednesday 13th February 09:49
Well we've set on Lake Garda for our baby moon, it's a good mixture of walking around and exploring to relaxing on a shore line or hotel to sitting on a boat taxi bus thing for a few hours so best of both worlds. Time to get it booked.

Peanut Gallery

2,427 posts

110 months

Wednesday 13th February 2019
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CharlieH89 said:
Scan today the ground floor was freezing. Go up in the lift and walk into this part of the building and it is like a tropical paradise laugh

Medical reason or because the majority of staff are woman and like it like a devils lair?
I know now why some on here have recommended shorts on the maternity ward haha!

Edited by CharlieH89 on Wednesday 13th February 09:49
It was crazy warm when I was there, fully agree shorts would have been preferred, I had other things going on so I did not think about how hot I was!

There are a number of very new borns, with very little clothing on, trying to figure out what life is, so instead of trying to wrap them up, you crank up the temp of the room to make them comfortable, and the adults can suffer. There was one baby next to where Mrs PG spent the night that was being kept on a bed with a UV lamp (?) over the baby, (newborn jaundice) so you cannot really wrap them up and shine a light on them!

(Did not stop Mrs PG setting the heating at home to the same temp as the mat ward, having seen what she went through I did not dare say anything..)

Du1point8

21,607 posts

192 months

Wednesday 13th February 2019
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richatnort said:
CharlieH89 said:
Jonnny said:
Vaud said:
Du1point8 said:
after reading above I now know what the hell a BabyMoon is now when she mentioned it
Do it.. but not too late into 2nd trimester!
I 100% recommend a baby moon, we didn't and we've hardly had any physical contact as husband and wife since about 7 months into the pregnancy, our little one is now 3 months old..

If you do manage to get them down, you're either too tired or have jobs to do rather than be husband and wife as you were before, and even worse.. If you do manage to get some time, he's managed to wake up twice mid-way through, extremely frustrating laugh
Spot on there. 35+6 weeks and there’s not been much contact the past few weeks due to my wife being in pain. Still had sex though hehe

Scan today the ground floor was freezing. Go up in the lift and walk into this part of the building and it is like a tropical paradise laugh

Medical reason or because the majority of staff are woman and like it like a devils lair?
I know now why some on here have recommended shorts on the maternity ward haha!

Edited by CharlieH89 on Wednesday 13th February 09:49
Well we've set on Lake Garda for our baby moon, it's a good mixture of walking around and exploring to relaxing on a shore line or hotel to sitting on a boat taxi bus thing for a few hours so best of both worlds. Time to get it booked.
Any recommendations on locations to go on Lake Garda, Im looking to get it sorted for Bank holiday weekend in April

richatnort

3,026 posts

131 months

Wednesday 13th February 2019
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Du1point8 said:
Any recommendations on locations to go on Lake Garda, Im looking to get it sorted for Bank holiday weekend in April
Nope not yet sorry but I think i've read the south is busier & the north a bit quieter and relaxing.

Stockman14

263 posts

70 months

Wednesday 13th February 2019
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Gary29 said:
Vaud said:
Liquid Anbesol worked for my two... Lidocaine in alcohol. Gives them 3-4 hours relief.
Yeah we picked up some of this yesterday, seemed to soothe her, fell asleep at 10 last night, didn't wake up until 6:30 this morning, I'll take that!

We thought it was due to the 4 month vaccinations she had on Friday, but only realised it was teething as she kept rubbing her face and trying to chew her hands. It's early for teething apparently, but it looks like she's got more than 3, she's got 3 along the bottom and 3 or 4 along the top, no wonder she's been naggy, still been managing to smile at us periodically through the tears bless her.

Amber beads, never heard of them, but will bare them in mind if the Anbesol fails us.
https://honeybeeamberandcrystals.bigcartel.com/category/childrens-amber-bracelets-anklets

Our little man is 2 next month, we've used granules and Anbesol a couple of times, but other than that, the amber has worked

Jonnny

29,397 posts

189 months

Wednesday 13th February 2019
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Peanut Gallery said:
CharlieH89 said:
Scan today the ground floor was freezing. Go up in the lift and walk into this part of the building and it is like a tropical paradise laugh

Medical reason or because the majority of staff are woman and like it like a devils lair?
I know now why some on here have recommended shorts on the maternity ward haha!

Edited by CharlieH89 on Wednesday 13th February 09:49
It was crazy warm when I was there, fully agree shorts would have been preferred, I had other things going on so I did not think about how hot I was!

There are a number of very new borns, with very little clothing on, trying to figure out what life is, so instead of trying to wrap them up, you crank up the temp of the room to make them comfortable, and the adults can suffer. There was one baby next to where Mrs PG spent the night that was being kept on a bed with a UV lamp (?) over the baby, (newborn jaundice) so you cannot really wrap them up and shine a light on them!

(Did not stop Mrs PG setting the heating at home to the same temp as the mat ward, having seen what she went through I did not dare say anything..)
Also agree, it was hot! I would have preferred shorts too but didn't think it was worth mentioning it to the labouring missus hehe

Du1point8

21,607 posts

192 months

Wednesday 13th February 2019
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Jonnny said:
Peanut Gallery said:
CharlieH89 said:
Scan today the ground floor was freezing. Go up in the lift and walk into this part of the building and it is like a tropical paradise laugh

Medical reason or because the majority of staff are woman and like it like a devils lair?
I know now why some on here have recommended shorts on the maternity ward haha!

Edited by CharlieH89 on Wednesday 13th February 09:49
It was crazy warm when I was there, fully agree shorts would have been preferred, I had other things going on so I did not think about how hot I was!

There are a number of very new borns, with very little clothing on, trying to figure out what life is, so instead of trying to wrap them up, you crank up the temp of the room to make them comfortable, and the adults can suffer. There was one baby next to where Mrs PG spent the night that was being kept on a bed with a UV lamp (?) over the baby, (newborn jaundice) so you cannot really wrap them up and shine a light on them!

(Did not stop Mrs PG setting the heating at home to the same temp as the mat ward, having seen what she went through I did not dare say anything..)
Also agree, it was hot! I would have preferred shorts too but didn't think it was worth mentioning it to the labouring missus hehe
Ours is due in August, so I will be in shorts and flip flops (are there dress codes in labour ward?) anyway so hopefully I wont be sweating too much.