Match.com (Vol. 7)
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hyphen said:
Bluesgirl is setting a trap, she is seeking a fella for Xmas. Buy own drinks first date, get expensive Xmas present later.
She will dump him before new year and get another for Valentines
You probably have a good point there with some ladies.She will dump him before new year and get another for Valentines
They will date some old fart for a good crimbo gift, lol
throt said:
It hasn’t be signed off yet plus you have till Thursday.
Go for it but remember it will be your last date , unless you have another one before the 5th.
If she is a sort you may want to really go for it
You can have her in your bubble if you live alone.Go for it but remember it will be your last date , unless you have another one before the 5th.
If she is a sort you may want to really go for it
It's not like anyone takes any notice of Boris anyway
hyphen said:
Bluesgirl is setting a trap, she is seeking a fella for Xmas. Buy own drinks first date, get expensive Xmas present later.
She will dump him before new year and get another for Valentines
Dammit, you figured out my MO!She will dump him before new year and get another for Valentines
However, best laid plans etc - this evenings date insisted on paying for meal, drinks, the lot. It went very well.
I remember going on a date with a work colleague a few years ago to a smart restaurant, it all went well until the bill arrived. When I said I’d like to pay half he told me to F*** O**. So he paid. Didn’t see him again.
Bluesgirl said:
hyphen said:
Bluesgirl is setting a trap, she is seeking a fella for Xmas. Buy own drinks first date, get expensive Xmas present later.
She will dump him before new year and get another for Valentines
Dammit, you figured out my MO!She will dump him before new year and get another for Valentines
However, best laid plans etc - this evenings date insisted on paying for meal, drinks, the lot. It went very well.
I remember going on a date with a work colleague a few years ago to a smart restaurant, it all went well until the bill arrived. When I said I’d like to pay half he told me to F*** O**. So he paid. Didn’t see him again.
He was a client of mine. He carried on being a client for a year or so, but we didn’t go on any more dates. throt said:
Yep, classy guy, haha.
I would want to pay fully for the first date for sure. Even if there was no spark, I would still pay and cover everything.
fI would want to pay fully for the first date for sure. Even if there was no spark, I would still pay and cover everything.
k that. I see it as a first date test; if woman in question sits there entitled at the next round that's a sign it's probably always going to be that way. I've no interest in funding the lifestyle of someone I don't know. Equality much?trackdemon said:
fk that. I see it as a first date test; if woman in question sits there entitled at the next round that's a sign it's probably always going to be that way. I've no interest in funding the lifestyle of someone I don't know. Equality much?
I get it, it’s just me, buddy k that. I see it as a first date test; if woman in question sits there entitled at the next round that's a sign it's probably always going to be that way. I've no interest in funding the lifestyle of someone I don't know. Equality much?I am the same with the girls that work for me, just generous.
Algarve said:
If a girl on a first date made zero attempt to put her hand in her purse at all she'd immediately be recategorised from "potential partner" to "hopeful one night stand and then never contact again"
I'm happy to pay but I'd want to know I'm not being seen as a free meal ticket.
I know I know, I am wrongI'm happy to pay but I'd want to know I'm not being seen as a free meal ticket.
You want to know the second date is happening because she wants to see ‘’you’’, not because of a free meal and drink
throt said:
I know I know, I am wrong
You want to know the second date is happening because she wants to see ‘’you’’, not because of a free meal and drink
On the second date though one would see if she genuinely offers and wants to pay to return the compliment. If she just sits there waiting for you to cough up then, yes, it wouldn’t come across too clever would it.You want to know the second date is happening because she wants to see ‘’you’’, not because of a free meal and drink
throt said:
Algarve said:
If a girl on a first date made zero attempt to put her hand in her purse at all she'd immediately be recategorised from "potential partner" to "hopeful one night stand and then never contact again"
I'm happy to pay but I'd want to know I'm not being seen as a free meal ticket.
I know I know, I am wrongI'm happy to pay but I'd want to know I'm not being seen as a free meal ticket.
You want to know the second date is happening because she wants to see ‘’you’’, not because of a free meal and drink
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