Match.com (Vol. 7)

[NNK]

A newly single mate was asking best way to meet women and I suggested Tinder as it worked for me.
He's early 30's, educated with a good sense of humour and is now having the time of his life !
He spent last weekend travelling around in a camper van with a Swedish girl who is here for 6 months (we are in NZ) and the weekend before he was partying with a gorgeous Brazilian girl.
He is doing the decent thing and hanging out of Kiwi girls mid week too.

[Petrus1983]

NNK said:

A newly single mate was asking best way to meet women and I suggested Tinder as it worked for me.
He's early 30's, educated with a good sense of humour and is now having the time of his life !
He spent last weekend travelling around in a camper van with a Swedish girl who is here for 6 months (we are in NZ) and the weekend before he was partying with a gorgeous Brazilian girl.
He is doing the decent thing and hanging out of Kiwi girls mid week too.

In this time of Brexit it’s important for all of us to play our parts as international brand ambassadors- he’s doing a good job. Mine was American on the weekend, between two of us we’ve encouraged good will between 4 countries!

[technodup]

I've been dipping my toe back in... I'm seeing a bang average 43yo on Sat, basically because she's been the dirtiest I've ever come across in texts. After a couple of days there's not a thing I don't know or haven't seen . The first woman ever to ask for a dick pic too, after sending me fk knows how many of her. The level of openness is quite something, and I haven't even been trying that hard.

I also have the very lovely Karen, 35, who I've been keeping it clean with as she's very attractive and definite gf material. I nearly asked her out last night but figured it was still too soon, not been that many messages (certainly not compared to the above!).

I think my problem is the ropey ones I don't care if they knock me back, so I am free to push the boundaries as far as I can and see how they respond. The nicer ones I find drawn out and frustrating, because I'm more invested and less comfortable, much like a teenager.

[Fermit and Sexy Sarah]

technodup said:

I've been dipping my toe back in... I'm seeing a bang average 43yo on Sat, basically because she's been the dirtiest I've ever come across in texts. After a couple of days there's not a thing I don't know or haven't seen . The first woman ever to ask for a dick pic too, after sending me fk knows how many of her. The level of openness is quite something, and I haven't even been trying that hard.

Run, fast. This one has the mental. Or give her a good seeing too, then run fast.

[hyphen]

Fermit and Sexy Sarah said:

Run, fast. This one has the mental. Or give her a good seeing too, then run fast.

No, just run fast. As Op said, she isn't a looker, so high risk for average reward.

[xjay1337]

Fermit and Sexy Sarah said:

Run, fast. This one has the mental. Or give her a good seeing too, then run fast.

Mental because she likes sex?

[Fermit and Sexy Sarah]

xjay1337 said:

Fermit and Sexy Sarah said:

Run, fast. This one has the mental. Or give her a good seeing too, then run fast.

Mental because she likes sex?

Nope, mental as she sounds desperate. Focus the efforts on the potential GF material I'd say.

[Plate spinner]

xjay1337 said:

Fermit and Sexy Sarah said:

Run, fast. This one has the mental. Or give her a good seeing too, then run fast.

Mental because she likes sex?

Loads of Victorian blokes on here that believe women should be coy and demure in the mating game, exposing a bit of ankle here, hint of décolletage there etc. Women choosing to openly express their sexual desires, being comfortable with their bodies (jeez, we’re all walking around naked under our clothes FFS) and being horny for potentially uncomplicated sex makes them mental / sluts / to be run away from apparently.

Plenty of women have superb daily lives - all the basics in check; successful careers, raising good kids, strong friends & family circles, well run home life etc. All they are missing is a good seeing to, which is a basic human desire and bloody good fun if with the right company!

A lot don’t even want to be in a proper relationship with a man because they simply don’t need it / don’t have the time / have had their fingers burnt in the past / whatever - a lot of guys read this as ‘she has issues’...
But every other weekend when without their kids they want to indulge and express a side of them that has no other outlet. Some people are just more highly sexed than others.

Anyone who doesn’t get this or believes that other guys are making this st up is living in the dark ages, is terrified of the thought of it or has had very little experience with women in the modern era.

As a bloke if that’s not what you’re looking for because you’re actively looking for a GF / wife then fair enough, it’s a thanks but no thanks and on you go. But to be derogatory towards such a woman is pretty infantile and short sighted IMHO.

Y’know how acceptable it is for blokes to look at a physically attractive woman and think “I would” without even considering a relationship with her... well surprisingly women look at some men and think exactly the same. The apps on the phones we are so intimate with now give a discreet / intimate medium to explore those thoughts.

Just my opinion

[technodup]

Fermit and Sexy Sarah said:

Nope, mental as she sounds desperate. Focus the efforts on the potential GF material I'd say.

Fuuuuuck that

The problem is deep down I just prefer 'women of ill repute'. I can't be arsed with spending ages 'getting to know' someone only to find out she won't do this, and doesn't like that... and I'd always be looking elsewhere if that was the case.

So I'll continue the two pronged approach for now. The high road and the low road if you will...

[hyphen]

Plate spinner -All true.

But women also, since even before Victorian times, use their sexuality to get what they really want.

Yes, she may just want to get laid, and OP is the most gorgeous guy she has come across amongst the the other 10,000 messages in her inbox, but it's important to tread carefully.

For example, there are lots of 'honeytrap' cases reported in the media, where a woman 'lures' guys using a dating app to her bedroom, and then halfway through sex, the boyfriend comes in armed with a knife, ties you and and pops to the ATM with your cards and PIN! Or perhaps she is seeking to get pregnant asap.

If it seems too good to be true, then be careful.

[CharlesdeGaulle]

hyphen said:

For example, there are lots of 'honeytrap' cases reported in the media, where a woman 'lures' guys using a dating app to her bedroom, and then halfway through sex, the boyfriend comes in armed with a knife, ties you and and pops to the ATM with your cards and PIN! Or perhaps she is seeking to get pregnant asap.

If it seems too good to be true, then be careful.

For real ... really...truly?

Mate, step away from the internet

[lemmingjames]

hyphen said:

For example, there are lots of 'honeytrap' cases reported in the media, where a woman 'lures' guys using a dating app to her bedroom, and then halfway through sex, the boyfriend comes in armed with a knife, ties you and and pops to the ATM with your cards and PIN! Or perhaps she is seeking to get pregnant asap.

Do they charge for that experience, asking for a friend....

[Plate spinner]

hyphen said:

Plate spinner -All true.

But women also, since even before Victorian times, use their sexuality to get what they really want.

Yes, she may just want to get laid, and OP is the most gorgeous guy she has come across amongst the the other 10,000 messages in her inbox, but it's important to tread carefully.

For example, there are lots of 'honeytrap' cases reported in the media, where a woman 'lures' guys using a dating app to her bedroom, and then halfway through sex, the boyfriend comes in armed with a knife, ties you and and pops to the ATM with your cards and PIN! Or perhaps she is seeking to get pregnant asap.

If it seems too good to be true, then be careful.

Errr... yeah... relax dude, I think that’s a different thing altogether...
We’re not talking about deceptive, violent, manipulative pre-meditated fraudsters though, the subject was regular well-adjusted women who are open to exploring uncomplicated sexual experiences.
But hey, whatever floats your boat man, I’m not here to judge

[hyphen]

CharlesdeGaulle said:

For real ... really...truly?

Mate, step away from the internet

Yup, the CPS have nothing better to do, so they just randomly find decent law abiding individuals and charge them with honeytrap scams and other frauds via dating apps in front of Judges.

And Judges just jail them for a laugh.

yes, some women can be nympho's but most make guys work for it a little first. As said by others, mental health/confidence issues maybe at play and it may not be worth the resulting aggro.

[SpeckledJim]

lemmingjames said:

hyphen said:

For example, there are lots of 'honeytrap' cases reported in the media, where a woman 'lures' guys using a dating app to her bedroom, and then halfway through sex, the boyfriend comes in armed with a knife, ties you and and pops to the ATM with your cards and PIN! Or perhaps she is seeking to get pregnant asap.

Do they charge for that experience, asking for a friend....

They do. Depending on your settings, the price is £250 or £500, usually.

Maybe £1000 if you're a BSD from that London.

[Lemming Train]

hyphen said:

For example, there are lots of 'honeytrap' cases reported in the media, where a woman 'lures' guys using a dating app to her bedroom, and then halfway through sex, the boyfriend comes in armed with a knife, ties you and and pops to the ATM with your cards and PIN! Or perhaps she is seeking to get pregnant asap.

Wait.. what ?!

Presumably you have links to these "lots of cases" for our viewing? Strangely, Google isn't turning anything up from my searches.

[hyphen]

Lemming Train said:

Wait.. what ?!

Presumably you have links to these "lots of cases" for our viewing? Strangely, Google isn't turning anything up from my searches.

Learn to use google perhaps! It took 5 seconds to find one from only a few days ago, Male and the female jailed for 6 years
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-7766897/H...

[Lemming Train]

One case. You're saying this is a regular thing .

[hyphen]

No I didn't say it is a regular thing. I said it happens, so be careful and keep wits about you.

BTW - You said you found none, and I showed you otherwise. So I won. Loser

[Lemming Train]

hyphen said:

No I didn't say it is a regular thing. I said it happens, so be careful and keep wits about you.

BTW - You said you found none, and I showed you otherwise. So I won. Loser

You only knew about that one because you're a Daily Mail reader. That is far more embarrassing that my apparent inability to use Google .