Caught GF on POF.

[anonymous-user]

Welshbeef said:

If I do I get banned or thread closed. Why does this fantasy thread seem to not be given the same level of ticking off?

This thread isn't about you, it's about fish and chips and fantasy cum buckets. Keep your S2000s nose out.

[ApOrbital]

[Lemming Train]

Welshbeef said:

If I do I get banned or thread closed. Why does this fantasy thread seem to not be given the same level of ticking off?

Possibly because the OP hasn't been posting incomprehensible drunken rants at 1am every day?

[SpunkyGlory]

Petrus1983 said:

Barmaid at the local just made two valid points - a) it would take longer to fill a focus with ‘5*’ than you’d last in bed, b) you’re a tt.

I’m just delivering the msg.

You talk to the barmaid about a thread on PH?

Just when I thought I'd already seen the most cringy post in this thread.

[Kewy]

SpunkyGlory said:

Petrus1983 said:

Barmaid at the local just made two valid points - a) it would take longer to fill a focus with ‘5*’ than you’d last in bed, b) you’re a tt.

I’m just delivering the msg.

You talk to the barmaid about a thread on PH?

Just when I thought I'd already seen the most cringy post in this thread.

At barely 5pm I'm going to add

[Flibble]

SpunkyGlory said:

Petrus1983 said:

Barmaid at the local just made two valid points - a) it would take longer to fill a focus with ‘5*’ than you’d last in bed, b) you’re a tt.

I’m just delivering the msg.

You talk to the barmaid about a thread on PH?

Just when I thought I'd already seen the most cringy post in this thread.

A strangely appropriate username given the thread.

[csd19]

SpunkyGlory said:

Petrus1983 said:

Barmaid at the local just made two valid points - a) it would take longer to fill a focus with ‘5*’ than you’d last in bed, b) you’re a tt.

I’m just delivering the msg.

You talk to the barmaid about a thread on PH?

Just when I thought I'd already seen the most cringy post in this thread.

Yeah, but is she "the one", and when are they getting married?!

[Petrus1983]

Kewy said:

SpunkyGlory said:

Petrus1983 said:

Barmaid at the local just made two valid points - a) it would take longer to fill a focus with ‘5*’ than you’d last in bed, b) you’re a tt.

I’m just delivering the msg.

You talk to the barmaid about a thread on PH?

Just when I thought I'd already seen the most cringy post in this thread.

At barely 5pm I'm going to add

Barmaid/friends

[FocusRS3]

We fked last Wednesday because she wanted it she initiated it not because I said get to bed now.


[/quote]


Class

[maccas99]

FocusRS3 said:

We fked last Wednesday because she wanted it she initiated it not because I said get to bed now.

Class

Are you and the OP cousins?

[FocusRS3]

maccas99 said:

Are you and the OP cousins?

Class- as in being sarcastic......Are you not from down sarf ?

[Kewy]

FocusRS3 said:

maccas99 said:

Are you and the OP cousins?

Class- as in being sarcastic......Are you not from down sarf ?

Haha

Facckin quality mayte.

[maccas99]

I was going on your username, Focus friends...

[sc0tt]

Came back for a laugh.

5* unleaded

More like 2 stroke.

[ESOG]

Total Drivin said:

Seems I can't win here among some posters doesn't it.

I gave her the choice of staying together or splitting up and we both chose to start again.

She is as free as a bird and do as she pleases within reason it has always been this way.

I am not the controlling manipulative bf some of you seem to think far from it.

We fked last Wednesday because she wanted it she initiated it not because I said get to bed now.

I contemplated posting but figured why not.

As you have seen many people on this forum say ridiculous things. I shoukd know. They are very critical and unforgiven. I should know because many years ago (under a different name) i went thru a very stty event in my life that left me completely destroyed and kicked off years of distress that affected my life in many negative ways. I was very active on this forum and felt this was a place i could go and get things off my chest.

I caught the women i was in love with and had been with for a decade in the act of sex with another man and discovered other horrendous things about her shortly thereafter.... I was completely berated by many people on here. Totally nonsensical and only furthered my frustration. There was ZERO sympathy. Not that i was searching for it but expected some support and instead got laughed at and told to man up. I was genuinely in love with this girl at the time and believed truly that i was going to marry her etc.

Some people on here are downright cruel. I too was told i was a troll etc.

I honestly cannot make any sense of it. And I advise you not to even try and to not bother defending or explaining yourself.

I read your post and i just want you to know that i understand you. Because i feel that any rational human being can read what you said about needing to 'dip your wick' and understand it within the proper context. Its obvious you care for her and that having sex is not all you care about. But some read that and they think thats all you mean. I dont know how anyone could be that dumb but whatever.

---

For those criticizing the OP for needing to get his d*** wet.... Are you not a male? Have you not experienced the necessary urge to alleviate a males drive to have to get off? I mean seriously. It doesnt mean he doesnt respect his girl or is selfish etc. A man NEEDS to get off. Especially one who is working all the time and has the responsibility of maintaining a home.

Im not saying his needs come first. His gf's responsibilities aren't overlooked AT ALL. He is aware of her plights as we are of his.

I think women some times forget/or brush off (and as it turns out so do some men on here) the importance of a man being intimate to completion in order to think straight. And there is only so much "wking" that can be done... The penis knows the difference between a hand and a hole FFS.

Anyway, just wanted to say to those going in on the OP... You act like you never went weeks/months walking around with a loaded gun.

I look at my life now and my relationship with my fiance and i consider myself very lucky and grateful. She takes care of me on every level and always makes sure i am satisfied. And in return i treat like the Goddess she is. We have that seemingly rare quality in our relationship; 100% open communication and trust. We keep no thought or feeling from each other. We get into argument and we discuss it thoroughly making sure to acknowledge each and every point and then be aware for the future.

If anything OP, my advice to couples is always to sit down and have an open and unfettered conversation about all your thoughts and feelings. How could nothing be resolved if this is done? Only if one does not want resolution, that is the only way this wouldnt get resolved.

Its simple; honey I love you and i appreciate you and everything you do. I recognize it isnt easy but we are both in this, together. Our circumstance has obviously created a space between us and i want to fix that. I want us to be wholly connected again. Ive been neglecting you and wasnt aware of just how much until the PoF incident. You got my attention now and i hope i have yours. I know youre tired and so am i. I need and want to be intimate with you. I need my girl. And i want to be your man. Let's make a real effort to communicate from this point on. No judgements, no resentments going forward. No buts... Just Love.

Best of luck OP. Just remember, all of life's st circumstances and stresses can never trump Love for too long. Don't let the stresses of every day life get its hooks any further into what i am sure is at its core a loving relationship. Remember with her what that Love felt like and what it looked like the last time you two were truly connected.

And now I will await the barrage of smart ass comments and criticisms from those miserable and jaded members.

[anonymous-user]

KFC and cycling

[57Ford]

ESOG said:

I contemplated posting but figured why not.

As you have seen many people on this forum say ridiculous things. I shoukd know. They are very critical and unforgiven. I should know because many years ago (under a different name) i went thru a very stty event in my life that left me completely destroyed and kicked off years of distress that affected my life in many negative ways. I was very active on this forum and felt this was a place i could go and get things off my chest.

I caught the women i was in love with and had been with for a decade in the act of sex with another man and discovered other horrendous things about her shortly thereafter.... I was completely berated by many people on here. Totally nonsensical and only furthered my frustration. There was ZERO sympathy. Not that i was searching for it but expected some support and instead got laughed at and told to man up. I was genuinely in love with this girl at the time and believed truly that i was going to marry her etc.

Some people on here are downright cruel. I too was told i was a troll etc.

I honestly cannot make any sense of it. And I advise you not to even try and to not bother defending or explaining yourself.

I read your post and i just want you to know that i understand you. Because i feel that any rational human being can read what you said about needing to 'dip your wick' and understand it within the proper context. Its obvious you care for her and that having sex is not all you care about. But some read that and they think thats all you mean. I dont know how anyone could be that dumb but whatever.

---

For those criticizing the OP for needing to get his d*** wet.... Are you not a male? Have you not experienced the necessary urge to alleviate a males drive to have to get off? I mean seriously. It doesnt mean he doesnt respect his girl or is selfish etc. A man NEEDS to get off. Especially one who is working all the time and has the responsibility of maintaining a home.

Im not saying his needs come first. His gf's responsibilities aren't overlooked AT ALL. He is aware of her plights as we are of his.

I think women some times forget/or brush off (and as it turns out so do some men on here) the importance of a man being intimate to completion in order to think straight. And there is only so much "wking" that can be done... The penis knows the difference between a hand and a hole FFS.

Anyway, just wanted to say to those going in on the OP... You act like you never went weeks/months walking around with a loaded gun.

I look at my life now and my relationship with my fiance and i consider myself very lucky and grateful. She takes care of me on every level and always makes sure i am satisfied. And in return i treat like the Goddess she is. We have that seemingly rare quality in our relationship; 100% open communication and trust. We keep no thought or feeling from each other. We get into argument and we discuss it thoroughly making sure to acknowledge each and every point and then be aware for the future.

If anything OP, my advice to couples is always to sit down and have an open and unfettered conversation about all your thoughts and feelings. How could nothing be resolved if this is done? Only if one does not want resolution, that is the only way this wouldnt get resolved.

Its simple; honey I love you and i appreciate you and everything you do. I recognize it isnt easy but we are both in this, together. Our circumstance has obviously created a space between us and i want to fix that. I want us to be wholly connected again. Ive been neglecting you and wasnt aware of just how much until the PoF incident. You got my attention now and i hope i have yours. I know youre tired and so am i. I need and want to be intimate with you. I need my girl. And i want to be your man. Let's make a real effort to communicate from this point on. No judgements, no resentments going forward. No buts... Just Love.

Best of luck OP. Just remember, all of life's st circumstances and stresses can never trump Love for too long. Don't let the stresses of every day life get its hooks any further into what i am sure is at its core a loving relationship. Remember with her what that Love felt like and what it looked like the last time you two were truly connected.

And now I will await the barrage of smart ass comments and criticisms from those miserable and jaded members.

Ha-ha you great soft Jessy!

Nah, just kidding. Good post mate, glad you’ve turned things round with your new lady. If the OP is genuine, support like this is exactly why PH is useful.
If he’s not and it’s a big piss take, then the other responses are valid and he’s a total throbber.

[citizensm1th]

For a moment i thought i had logged into the fiesta/razzle forums by mistake.

good grief what ever happened to not broadcasting ones business to all and sundry

[Lemming Train]

ESOG said:

Total Drivin said:

Seems I can't win here among some posters doesn't it.

I gave her the choice of staying together or splitting up and we both chose to start again.

She is as free as a bird and do as she pleases within reason it has always been this way.

I am not the controlling manipulative bf some of you seem to think far from it.

We fked last Wednesday because she wanted it she initiated it not because I said get to bed now.

I contemplated posting but figured why not.

As you have seen many people on this forum say ridiculous things. I shoukd know. They are very critical and unforgiven. I should know because many years ago (under a different name) i went thru a very stty event in my life that left me completely destroyed and kicked off years of distress that affected my life in many negative ways. I was very active on this forum and felt this was a place i could go and get things off my chest.

I caught the women i was in love with and had been with for a decade in the act of sex with another man and discovered other horrendous things about her shortly thereafter.... I was completely berated by many people on here. Totally nonsensical and only furthered my frustration. There was ZERO sympathy. Not that i was searching for it but expected some support and instead got laughed at and told to man up. I was genuinely in love with this girl at the time and believed truly that i was going to marry her etc.

Some people on here are downright cruel. I too was told i was a troll etc.

I honestly cannot make any sense of it. And I advise you not to even try and to not bother defending or explaining yourself.

I read your post and i just want you to know that i understand you. Because i feel that any rational human being can read what you said about needing to 'dip your wick' and understand it within the proper context. Its obvious you care for her and that having sex is not all you care about. But some read that and they think thats all you mean. I dont know how anyone could be that dumb but whatever.

---

For those criticizing the OP for needing to get his d*** wet.... Are you not a male? Have you not experienced the necessary urge to alleviate a males drive to have to get off? I mean seriously. It doesnt mean he doesnt respect his girl or is selfish etc. A man NEEDS to get off. Especially one who is working all the time and has the responsibility of maintaining a home.

Im not saying his needs come first. His gf's responsibilities aren't overlooked AT ALL. He is aware of her plights as we are of his.

I think women some times forget/or brush off (and as it turns out so do some men on here) the importance of a man being intimate to completion in order to think straight. And there is only so much "wking" that can be done... The penis knows the difference between a hand and a hole FFS.

Anyway, just wanted to say to those going in on the OP... You act like you never went weeks/months walking around with a loaded gun.

I look at my life now and my relationship with my fiance and i consider myself very lucky and grateful. She takes care of me on every level and always makes sure i am satisfied. And in return i treat like the Goddess she is. We have that seemingly rare quality in our relationship; 100% open communication and trust. We keep no thought or feeling from each other. We get into argument and we discuss it thoroughly making sure to acknowledge each and every point and then be aware for the future.

If anything OP, my advice to couples is always to sit down and have an open and unfettered conversation about all your thoughts and feelings. How could nothing be resolved if this is done? Only if one does not want resolution, that is the only way this wouldnt get resolved.

Its simple; honey I love you and i appreciate you and everything you do. I recognize it isnt easy but we are both in this, together. Our circumstance has obviously created a space between us and i want to fix that. I want us to be wholly connected again. Ive been neglecting you and wasnt aware of just how much until the PoF incident. You got my attention now and i hope i have yours. I know youre tired and so am i. I need and want to be intimate with you. I need my girl. And i want to be your man. Let's make a real effort to communicate from this point on. No judgements, no resentments going forward. No buts... Just Love.

Best of luck OP. Just remember, all of life's st circumstances and stresses can never trump Love for too long. Don't let the stresses of every day life get its hooks any further into what i am sure is at its core a loving relationship. Remember with her what that Love felt like and what it looked like the last time you two were truly connected.

And now I will await the barrage of smart ass comments and criticisms from those miserable and jaded members.

[ApOrbital]

Well said ESOG that's a bit deep wow,you have me thinking now, You caught the women i was in love with and had been with for a decade in the act of sex with another man and discovered other horrendous things about her shortly thereafter.... I was completely berated by many people on here.

That's sad i feel for you and the op.

ESGO did you go and get any fish n chips per chance i fancy some scraps.