Saving things for special occasions

Saving things for special occasions

Author
Discussion

mike74

3,687 posts

132 months

Wednesday 20th November 2019
quotequote all
My mum has at least one set of literally every household item that is ''for best''... i.e. hoarded away and never actually used.

Pots, pans, plates, dishes, cups, cutlery, glasses, place mats, bath towels, hand towels, tea towels, bedding, cushion covers, etc etc

wildoliver

8,780 posts

216 months

Wednesday 20th November 2019
quotequote all
I find threads like this both sad and a worrying eye opener, most of us have hoarding tendencies to one degree or another, ranging from collectors and keeping for best at one end of the scale to living in a house filled with old newspapers and empty tin cans at the other.

I'm guilty for sure and have kept what childhood toys survived parental purges over the years, I've been an avid collector of certain radio control cars and old computers, even to the extent that a certain "rare" RC car I would buy every time one came on to eBay within budget, it eventually got to the stage I reckon I owned a substantial percentage of all those in existence still. Even now I see "my" old cars popping up on eBay after I realised the craziness of what I was doing and moved most of them on.

I'm trying to clear most of my hobbies out now, anything I'm not using or enjoying on a regular basis (and to a great extent that's going to start extending to proper cars too) is going to go so someone else can enjoy it and I can enjoy less responsibility and the money from it.

Shakermaker

11,317 posts

100 months

Wednesday 20th November 2019
quotequote all
oyster said:
1975 and 1977 both good years for port.
How have they been kept though?

They'd have to have been kept in great surroundings for more than 3 decades now.
I'd drink them myself.
In the box under the stairs at my parents house for 30 years, in the box under the stairs in my house for the last 5 years.

tokyo_mb

432 posts

217 months

Wednesday 20th November 2019
quotequote all
Piersman2]Champagne. [... said:
What a waste! Don't keep champers hanging around for too long. Drink it quick! drink
Not what this recent tasting led by Janicis Robinson (paywall) suggests... It actually ages quite well (if kept in the proper conditions).

The guidance in the post behind the paywall is "Store champagnes well, close to 12 degrees celsius and in the dark, and they will age gracefully for many decades." On top of a refrigerator is unlikely to have met those criteria!



Cotty

39,538 posts

284 months

Wednesday 20th November 2019
quotequote all
wildoliver said:
I'm guilty for sure and have kept what childhood toys survived parental purges over the years,
I wish I had kept my Action Man. My mum use to make different uniforms for them so a bit of sentimental value there.

Xaero

4,060 posts

215 months

Wednesday 20th November 2019
quotequote all
Not for me, except summer car for enjoying weekends with. Mostly because it's a 80s import Japanese car so will disintegrate across a salty winter. Otherwise I'm of the life is too short crowd.

My grandparents kept a whole cabinet with display plates and cutlery for best. I guess it's a generational thing, as it just looks dated after a while and needed occasional cleaning to keep it looking nice. After they died it was spread out between family, but I think most of it ended up spread across charity shops now, as none of us use it nor have the space to display it if we had the same taste to do so.

That said, my sister got the best bit, although there is no monetary value to it, which was a crystal cookie jar. The clanging of it closing and a grandparent shouting to not steal the cookies brings back fond memories. She uses it too which is nicer than storing it in the loft until she passes it down.

C0ffin D0dger

3,440 posts

145 months

Wednesday 20th November 2019
quotequote all
Sort of conform to this in some areas. We have a nice set of lead crystal glassware that only comes out for occasions, we'd probably use it more but with two young kids it just feels safer leaving it in the cabinet biggrin My brother, bless him, bought us a set of silver (plated?) cutlery for our wedding. That rarely gets used, not necessarily because we keep it for best more that it won't go in the dishwasher biggrin

I own a few suits but again these would only be worn for weddings, funerals, job interviews and court appearances wink

Anything alcohol related doesn't hang around at home. No point in keeping wine as unless you have a temperature / humidity controlled cellar it will go off. You also need to be somewhat of a connoisseur to know what is worth ageing and what isn't. You're in with a bit more of a shout with port as because it is fortified it will keep better but even then the corks can go bad and it will oxidise. Once opened though it needs to be drank. Longest I've held onto a bottle is about 6 months.

My grandparents on my Mum's side were probably the worst for this. They lived in a lovely and big 16th century house, 2 receptions, big kitchen diner, games room, 5 bedrooms. With the exception of the usual rooms (bathroom/WC/utility) they lived in 2-3 rooms of that house for most of the year. In the warmer months just the kitchen and the bedroom, in the cooler months the first reception (a lounge / diner) got used as it had an open fire. The main reception was a lovely room with a big inglenook fire, nice furniture, TV etc. Pretty much only allowed in there on Christmas day. The games room was similar, big room with decent billiard table (could have fitted a full sized snooker table up there), rarely got used though we were allowed up there a bit more as we got older and could be trusted with the table. Also had a sideboard stuffed with unopened boxes of chocolates like Matchmakers, After Eights etc. presumably given as gifts, guess these were also being saved.

wibble cb

3,605 posts

207 months

Wednesday 20th November 2019
quotequote all
Only a set of cutlery, nothing else is saved, if we used them all the time , they would soon look like cr@p! So once used they are hand washed then put back in their own draw, so not that fancy really!

R Mutt

5,891 posts

72 months

Wednesday 20th November 2019
quotequote all
Pericoloso said:
I going to save my last jar of pasta sauce bought back from Italy for eating on my birthday.

The little things mean a lot.
I've got some fancy pasty my mum brought back from Italy a couple of years ago I was saving to cook for a special guest. But I won't exactly do pasta if I'm trying to impress a bird.

Dicky Knee

1,031 posts

131 months

Wednesday 20th November 2019
quotequote all
Mrs Knee keeps bars of soap! Nicely wrapped, not cheap and never used.

I'm not even sure what special occasion would require a nice bar of soap. Hmmm.

FoxtrotOscar1

712 posts

109 months

Thursday 21st November 2019
quotequote all
Dicky Knee said:
Mrs Knee keeps bars of soap! Nicely wrapped, not cheap and never used.

I'm not even sure what special occasion would require a nice bar of soap. Hmmm.
The Queen might pass by and might have to wash her fanny enroute to a thrashing by big Duke?

DaveTheRave87

2,084 posts

89 months

Thursday 21st November 2019
quotequote all
wibble cb said:
Only a set of cutlery, nothing else is saved, if we used them all the time , they would soon look like cr@p! So once used they are hand washed then put back in their own draw, so not that fancy really!
Is that a Chester Draw?