My Wife is annoyed at me because...
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Adenauer said:
s2kjock said:
Needing some new bedsheets for the spare room, and needing some other stuff from Amazon I mention to the OH that I am going to order them from there too.
OH "We should be supporting a local supplier/store and not a nasty corporate etc etc"
Me: "Ok fair enough - when are we going to cancel that subscription to Prime you got just to watch Outlander?"
OH "That's different"
Well it is, isn't it? OH "We should be supporting a local supplier/store and not a nasty corporate etc etc"
Me: "Ok fair enough - when are we going to cancel that subscription to Prime you got just to watch Outlander?"
OH "That's different"
CanAm said:
Pothole said:
OK. Came across as standard misogyny. This whole thread and Classics from the Mrs is just chock full of apparently dysfunctional relationships. I c an't imagine why most posters are still married/cohabiting.
I think it could just as easily be "My O/H is mad at me...." and "Classic from the O/H" (or even kids!) and it would work just as well. That could cover all genders and relationships equally unfairly.
Pothole said:
OK. Came across as standard misogyny. This whole thread and Classics from the Mrs is just chock full of apparently dysfunctional relationships. I c an't imagine why most posters are still married/cohabiting.
Probably because most people have commitments to children, to mortgages, to the idea of marriage. If you think it’s easy to walk away from something like that then I can only presume you are not in the same level of relationship and are therefore not in a position to judge.I've just read the whole thread after I contributed early on. Highly entertaining and very much needed, so thank you
I would like to point out that whilst my other half (married for some 25-odd years - I forget how long as they're all merged into one "experience") is a little crazy, we are actually both well-matched and happy.
I certainly don't get the irrational "crazy" as indicated in these posts - wow, you lot are very patient. And I'm really lucky
That said......
We had a great "one" last weekend - I'm building a walk-in wardrobe (my decision, not her's - she just does colours and stuff). Nothing fancy, but there's dead space in an alcove where a huge wardrobe used to be. Perfect conversion opportunity. More space, and tidier.
To keep her involved in the process, I asked her how she wanted her side of the wardrobe designed (shoe racks, cubby holes, vanity table etc). I even sketched out some designs (even labelled them as Idea 1, 2, 3 etc) Jeez. You'd have thought I'd sh@t on her pillow.
"Well that's just great - you spend all this time sorting out your side, and how the hell am I meant to get up there ?" (pointing at some 400mm-deep cubby boxes at the top about 2m high - above her clothes rail).
" WTF are you talking about? That's for bedding etc - to get it out the way. At YOUR request."
"Well that's just stupid".
"I agree. Totally. It's the same height as shelving in the old wardrobe"
"And where do you propose I put all of my undies and bras?" I'm not having them on show!"
"I don't care where you put them, but convention dictates you put them in one of the drawers"
"I'm not having them out on show. That's daft"
"Yes, I know. That's why you've got a drawer".
"And where am I'm going to my put jumpers and tops?"
"Well, how many drawers do you have right now?"
"3"
"Surely you can find space in the new additional 7 you'll have"
"Well, I'm not having my undies on show"
"FFS, shut up about your bloody undies - no fecker sees them anyway, least of all me. They'll be in a drawer, so wind your neck in"
"And what about my shoes" (she's a short-arse with an Imelda Marcos complex for "clippy clops")
"They'll go in the storage along the room, under your clothes" (quite a smug idea, I thought, so she could see what outfits to wear)
"But that's daft. What if the shoes underneath the dress don't match?"
Apparently, "That sounds like a "you" problem, not a "me" problem"" wasn't the right response. She stormed out then.
I'd even pre-loaded the, "You have 2 choices: move the shoes or the dress" - didn't get chance to use it
It's all good now - but over the years, she's come out with some classic stuff - all of which I've published on Facebook Timehop is a great reminder, especially when I share her comments on her timeline. She does shake her head with some degree of regret.
Its done for fun, but I suspect that I can use it in a Court of Law too
DAno
I would like to point out that whilst my other half (married for some 25-odd years - I forget how long as they're all merged into one "experience") is a little crazy, we are actually both well-matched and happy.
I certainly don't get the irrational "crazy" as indicated in these posts - wow, you lot are very patient. And I'm really lucky
That said......
We had a great "one" last weekend - I'm building a walk-in wardrobe (my decision, not her's - she just does colours and stuff). Nothing fancy, but there's dead space in an alcove where a huge wardrobe used to be. Perfect conversion opportunity. More space, and tidier.
To keep her involved in the process, I asked her how she wanted her side of the wardrobe designed (shoe racks, cubby holes, vanity table etc). I even sketched out some designs (even labelled them as Idea 1, 2, 3 etc) Jeez. You'd have thought I'd sh@t on her pillow.
"Well that's just great - you spend all this time sorting out your side, and how the hell am I meant to get up there ?" (pointing at some 400mm-deep cubby boxes at the top about 2m high - above her clothes rail).
" WTF are you talking about? That's for bedding etc - to get it out the way. At YOUR request."
"Well that's just stupid".
"I agree. Totally. It's the same height as shelving in the old wardrobe"
"And where do you propose I put all of my undies and bras?" I'm not having them on show!"
"I don't care where you put them, but convention dictates you put them in one of the drawers"
"I'm not having them out on show. That's daft"
"Yes, I know. That's why you've got a drawer".
"And where am I'm going to my put jumpers and tops?"
"Well, how many drawers do you have right now?"
"3"
"Surely you can find space in the new additional 7 you'll have"
"Well, I'm not having my undies on show"
"FFS, shut up about your bloody undies - no fecker sees them anyway, least of all me. They'll be in a drawer, so wind your neck in"
"And what about my shoes" (she's a short-arse with an Imelda Marcos complex for "clippy clops")
"They'll go in the storage along the room, under your clothes" (quite a smug idea, I thought, so she could see what outfits to wear)
"But that's daft. What if the shoes underneath the dress don't match?"
Apparently, "That sounds like a "you" problem, not a "me" problem"" wasn't the right response. She stormed out then.
I'd even pre-loaded the, "You have 2 choices: move the shoes or the dress" - didn't get chance to use it
It's all good now - but over the years, she's come out with some classic stuff - all of which I've published on Facebook Timehop is a great reminder, especially when I share her comments on her timeline. She does shake her head with some degree of regret.
Its done for fun, but I suspect that I can use it in a Court of Law too
DAno
ThunderSpook said:
Pothole said:
OK. Came across as standard misogyny. This whole thread and Classics from the Mrs is just chock full of apparently dysfunctional relationships. I c an't imagine why most posters are still married/cohabiting.
Probably because most people have commitments to children, to mortgages, to the idea of marriage. If you think it’s easy to walk away from something like that then I can only presume you are not in the same level of relationship and are therefore not in a position to judge.Not sure why you'd suddenly leap to such a binary conclusion, either. Why is walking away the only option? I said I wondered why they're still doing it. I should have qualified it. I wonder why they're still doing it the way they describe. Because it sounds like a horrible way to live. I don't live that way, nor would I contemplate it. If I felt like my marriage was going that way, I'd make sure we talked it through and nipped it in the bud.
Wife is annoyed with me, not because I'm clumsy and smashed my head whilst reaching into the roof storage space in the loft conversion.
But because I ignored the blood trickling down the back of my head and got on with the task in hand which was moving every piece of furniture in said loft room, to create a mini lounge. (As it appears her mother has moved in, following her Dad's death)
Apparently it's not big or clever to just get on, and ignore it, and I should have gone and found her, and her only seeing it whilst we were having tea ( A northern version of dinner) , left it too late to obtain any suitable dressings.
She's probably right to be angry.
Pothole said:
ThunderSpook said:
Pothole said:
OK. Came across as standard misogyny. This whole thread and Classics from the Mrs is just chock full of apparently dysfunctional relationships. I c an't imagine why most posters are still married/cohabiting.
Probably because most people have commitments to children, to mortgages, to the idea of marriage. If you think it’s easy to walk away from something like that then I can only presume you are not in the same level of relationship and are therefore not in a position to judge.Not sure why you'd suddenly leap to such a binary conclusion, either. Why is walking away the only option? I said I wondered why they're still doing it. I should have qualified it. I wonder why they're still doing it the way they describe. Because it sounds like a horrible way to live. I don't live that way, nor would I contemplate it. If I felt like my marriage was going that way, I'd make sure we talked it through and nipped it in the bud.
The reason I assumed you meant walk away is because you said cohabiting. Surely the opposite of cohabiting is not to live together?
Edited by ThunderSpook on Saturday 24th October 20:44
catman said:
BT Summers said:
Another time she got annoyed.
We were in bed, I was fast asleep.
'Will you take that damn thing out of my back, what do you think you are, an armed robber?'
A .22 wouldn't be much use in an armed robbery....We were in bed, I was fast asleep.
'Will you take that damn thing out of my back, what do you think you are, an armed robber?'
"I know its called fusilli but why have you brought a piece of pasta to bed?"
Current annoyance is that she wanted a new stick vacuum cleaner as our v6 dyson has a knackered battery (can’t use it on full power for more than 2-3seconds). She has been looking at the v11 for weeks umming and ahhing about it
I got sick and just went and bought it.
Apparently I’m an idiot as she didn’t know if she wanted it or not (even though she didn’t like any of the competition) and even though she loves it.
Literally can’t do right for doing wrong!
I got sick and just went and bought it.
Apparently I’m an idiot as she didn’t know if she wanted it or not (even though she didn’t like any of the competition) and even though she loves it.
Literally can’t do right for doing wrong!
robm3 said:
Mine is annoyed at me because I knocked on the front door to collect my kids (we're separated).
Thankfully, as of next month, I can technically no longer contribute to this thread!
Even though she'll be an ex-wife she'll still get annoyed at you, the difference is now you really don't give a st Thankfully, as of next month, I can technically no longer contribute to this thread!
Which sounds great until you meet somebody new who gets annoyed at you, plus you've still got an ex-wife who's now even more annoyed at you because you've moved on. But ime you'll still be happier than you were
DanoS4 said:
I've just read the whole thread after I contributed early on. Highly entertaining and very much needed, so thank you
I would like to point out that whilst my other half (married for some 25-odd years - I forget how long as they're all merged into one "experience") is a little crazy, we are actually both well-matched and happy.
I certainly don't get the irrational "crazy" as indicated in these posts - wow, you lot are very patient. And I'm really lucky
That said......
" WTF are you talking about? That's for bedding etc - to get it out the way. At YOUR request."
"Well that's just stupid".
"I agree. Totally. It's the same height as shelving in the old wardrobe"
"And where do you propose I put all of my undies and bras?" I'm not having them on show!"
"I don't care where you put them, but convention dictates you put them in one of the drawers"
"I'm not having them out on show. That's daft"
"Yes, I know. That's why you've got a drawer".
"And where am I'm going to my put jumpers and tops?"
"Well, how many drawers do you have right now?"
"3"
"Surely you can find space in the new additional 7 you'll have"
"Well, I'm not having my undies on show"
"FFS, shut up about your bloody undies - no fecker sees them anyway, least of all me. They'll be in a drawer, so wind your neck in"
DAno
I mean I know I've quoted selectively, but it sounds like you really dislike each other, even if you're doing your level best to deny it.I would like to point out that whilst my other half (married for some 25-odd years - I forget how long as they're all merged into one "experience") is a little crazy, we are actually both well-matched and happy.
I certainly don't get the irrational "crazy" as indicated in these posts - wow, you lot are very patient. And I'm really lucky
That said......
" WTF are you talking about? That's for bedding etc - to get it out the way. At YOUR request."
"Well that's just stupid".
"I agree. Totally. It's the same height as shelving in the old wardrobe"
"And where do you propose I put all of my undies and bras?" I'm not having them on show!"
"I don't care where you put them, but convention dictates you put them in one of the drawers"
"I'm not having them out on show. That's daft"
"Yes, I know. That's why you've got a drawer".
"And where am I'm going to my put jumpers and tops?"
"Well, how many drawers do you have right now?"
"3"
"Surely you can find space in the new additional 7 you'll have"
"Well, I'm not having my undies on show"
"FFS, shut up about your bloody undies - no fecker sees them anyway, least of all me. They'll be in a drawer, so wind your neck in"
DAno
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