School Proms

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PT1984

2,281 posts

183 months

Sunday 13th February 2022
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Cold said:
Crossflow Kid said:
PT1984 said:
Great memories. At our six form ball I took a girl
Did you put her back afterwards?
I carried a watermelon.
FFS! Thought I’d deleted that! I’d decided not to tell that story….

surveyor

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17,822 posts

184 months

Monday 21st February 2022
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This filled me with joy tonight.


anonymous-user

54 months

Monday 21st February 2022
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It's a start.... Probably because one of the teachers had a child of prom age

surveyor

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17,822 posts

184 months

Monday 21st February 2022
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Mr Spoon said:
It's a start.... Probably because one of the teachers had a child of prom age
Only girls will tell you that dresses have a lead time of months.

Paul Dishman

4,701 posts

237 months

Wednesday 23rd February 2022
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Had a discussion with my wife about this yesterday, our daughter was 18 in the mid-90s and they had a Summer Ball back held at the school back then. The school had a dress code instead of uniform so we got used to seeing the children walking around the town dressed hippy style, so the Summer Ball was a revelation, rather like butterflies all emerging that evening there were all these handsome lads in dicky bows and pretty girls in ball gowns- our children smile


grumpy52

5,581 posts

166 months

Wednesday 23rd February 2022
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I have driven cars for several proms , Bentley Mullsane and a Tubo R .
It always amazed me the effort put in by the girls with dresses,shoes, make-up, hairdressers and tanning . The boys on the other hand didn't have a clue and most looked like they had bought the suits from Norman wisdom and hair gel by the gallon .

surveyor

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17,822 posts

184 months

Monday 27th June 2022
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We are p-2.5 weeks

Emotions are high and tears very frequent.

I’ve got no sense from my daughter for weeks and all sorts of dates, which means that I’m away the night of the prom.

I can’t decide if that’s a good thing or a bad thing. At the moment I’m royally sick of the whole thing which has cost the same as a small holiday.

Cold

15,247 posts

90 months

Monday 27th June 2022
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surveyor said:
We are p-2.5 weeks

Emotions are high and tears very frequent.

I’ve got no sense from my daughter for weeks and all sorts of dates, which means that I’m away the night of the prom.

I can’t decide if that’s a good thing or a bad thing. At the moment I’m royally sick of the whole thing which has cost the same as a small holiday.
Think of it as a comparably inexpensive preamble to her wedding day. thumbup

anonymous-user

54 months

Monday 27th June 2022
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I took three teenagers to prom in the Maserati last Thursday. I made use of the cars performance biggrin

anyway, what surprised me was the number of old fat bald men (im bald) driving like a granny and gave me the impression they forgot what fun was 40 years ago.

So you have a Ferrari, you take your niece to prom and drive at 45mph all the way and make no entrance whatsoever? May as well arrived on a pushbike.

andyxxx

1,164 posts

227 months

Tuesday 28th June 2022
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I picture you screaming in too fast, revving your engine and breaking too hard looking like a middle aged idiot with anyone witnessing it above eight thinking what a plank.


But I am bald and 61 so may not hold the majority view.

Randy Winkman

16,134 posts

189 months

Tuesday 28th June 2022
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No way can any dress cost £600. I've watched Sewing Bee lots of times and know all about it. laugh

anonymous-user

54 months

Tuesday 28th June 2022
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andyxxx said:
I picture you screaming in too fast, revving your engine and breaking too hard looking like a middle aged idiot with anyone witnessing it above eight thinking what a plank.


But I am bald and 61 so may not hold the majority view.
None of the above. But good try. biggrin

I did a burnout, haven't done one of those for 15 years!

I'm bald and look 61 so don't worry, I tarred your generation too.

anonymous-user

54 months

Tuesday 28th June 2022
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Mr Spoon said:
I took three teenagers to prom in the Maserati last Thursday. I made use of the cars performance biggrin

anyway, what surprised me was the number of old fat bald men (im bald) driving like a granny and gave me the impression they forgot what fun was 40 years ago.

So you have a Ferrari, you take your niece to prom and drive at 45mph all the way and make no entrance whatsoever? May as well arrived on a pushbike.
Other Prom drivers were likely being careful because:

a)There is a limit to how you can drive in a 20 or 30mph zone, or urban areas, which is generally where most schools or prom venues are located.

b)It would be frowned upon to drive too fast near a school or near an event where there were lots of kids.

c)Any daft behaviour by the driver would see the kids and/or their parents given a bking and the tradition of kids being dropped off in fancy cars being put at risk of being banned. Health and Safety and all that.

d)The school would be furious at any 'lively' driving on the way to, or near the grounds of the school or the event.

e) It would simply be irresponsible when you have other peoples children in the car.

I've dropped a friends kid off at Prom in one of my cars before, and we just cruised all the way there, as did all the other cars, a few blips of the throttle on arrival seemed to be the order of the day from everyone. The photos of the cars and photos of the kids getting out of the cars seemed by far the most important bit.

I'm 42 and I learned some time ago that trying to 'show off' in a car with silly driving is either a tragic look for a middle aged bloke, or a recipe for disaster.

I'm not totally straight-laced... my car did have straight through Fabspeed exhausts on it, so it absolutely made all the right noises on arrival, but there was no requirement for 'lively' driving smile


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Taff107

567 posts

149 months

Tuesday 28th June 2022
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Not an issue in affluent areas but can be embarrassing and filled with dread in those not so affluent.

I went to a public school and the end of the year was 'celebrated' with the annual rugby match with a rival school and a momentous 'Leo Sayer' in nearly all the pubs in town. (Hardly any paid attention to the legal age requirement for drinking).

Jimmy No Hands

5,011 posts

156 months

Tuesday 28th June 2022
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At my partners school (teacher, I'm not one of those) they get a coach to and from the venue together, saves on the flashy types showing off to the ones who can't, I suppose.

bristolbaron

4,818 posts

212 months

Tuesday 28th June 2022
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We didn’t have a school disco/prom, but had some sort of awards night, hosted by Tony ‘bulldog’ Bullimore.

After that we headed into town, but had all been clubbing for at least a year prior anyway so was no big deal.

If mine are still innocent enough at 16 to want to attend a prom I’ll be delighted!

Jamescrs

4,479 posts

65 months

Tuesday 28th June 2022
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I remember having a "leavers ball" when I left high-school 25 years ago so ots not new its just got blown up massively.

I have a while to worry about it thankfully. My eldest is moving to high school next year but thankfully proms haven't decended to her junior school level yet.

Ambleton

6,656 posts

192 months

Tuesday 28th June 2022
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Cold said:
She'll need a decent car in which to arrive at the event, too. Possibly with a group of friends, possibly just her and a chauffeur (you'll do as long as you're dressed smartly - but under no circumstances get out of the vehicle).
I've crunched the numbers on this and by my reckoning, man maths dictates a sports car purchase is required....

Krupp88

591 posts

127 months

Tuesday 28th June 2022
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surveyor said:
Tonight the subject of cars has been raised. Deep joy!
Cars are so last year, I'm sure there was a yacht at the Y11 leavers prom of my childrens school last year.

ComStrike

321 posts

93 months

Tuesday 28th June 2022
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Been there.
Cant remember the costings that we incurred but i can remember it being sore.
Dropped my daughter off in a friends 12C. My wife commented on "baller" comments. Made her quite popular that night.
As per, they are only young once. Its just money