Racism Hypocrisy

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Caddyshack

10,771 posts

206 months

Wednesday 22nd March 2023
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To be fair, we have the mobo awards but if we had a white music only awards night it would end in riots.

MarkwG

4,848 posts

189 months

Wednesday 22nd March 2023
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MrScroggs said:
Lenny Bruce had the right idea. He said everyone should use the N word, all the time. Make it a part of normal everyday vocabulary and it loses it's power to hurt anybody. It's just a word.
In an ideal world, perhaps: but we don't live in an ideal world, & all the while it's used as an aggressive slur then, no, everyone shouldn't - because, to someone who's suffered abuse, it isn't just a word.

LF5335

5,911 posts

43 months

Wednesday 22nd March 2023
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This thread started off at the bottom of the barrel and will now do it’s best to scrape even further, as all the “I’m not a racist, but …” appear on here to have a rant about how good the 1970s were and how people today are just too soft.

Castrol for a knave

4,682 posts

91 months

Wednesday 22nd March 2023
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It's called adopting the negative.

A group taking a word laced with hatred, directed at them and emasculating it.

I do wonder about this place at times.

DickyC

49,726 posts

198 months

Wednesday 22nd March 2023
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From an article twenty years ago:

Naive Bush slights Pakistanis with a short-cut
Matthew Engel in Washington
Wed 9 Jan 2002 02.37 GMT

President George Bush's fractured command of international nuance landed him in yet more trouble yesterday as Pakistanis protested over his casual use of the abbreviation "s", which is widely regarded as an offensive epithet.

He was trying at the time to defuse tensions, saying: "We are working hard to convince both the Indians and the s that there's a way to deal with their problems without going to war." However, he was not quite working hard enough.

Roofless Toothless

5,662 posts

132 months

Wednesday 22nd March 2023
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LF5335 said:
This thread started off at the bottom of the barrel and will now do it’s best to scrape even further, as all the “I’m not a racist, but …” appear on here to have a rant about how good the 1970s were and how people today are just too soft.
In 1970 I knew a Persian called Percy.

(Am I doing this right?)

Skyedriver

17,842 posts

282 months

Wednesday 22nd March 2023
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Caddyshack said:
To be fair, we have the mobo awards but if we had a white music only awards night it would end in riots.
Taking this forward - There's a radio programme called "Woman's Hour" and places of entertsinment, swimming pools etc have "Ladies Night".
Can you imagine the uproar if there was Man's Hour or a Blokes Only night......

Caddyshack

10,771 posts

206 months

Wednesday 22nd March 2023
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Skyedriver said:
Caddyshack said:
To be fair, we have the mobo awards but if we had a white music only awards night it would end in riots.
Taking this forward - There's a radio programme called "Woman's Hour" and places of entertsinment, swimming pools etc have "Ladies Night".
Can you imagine the uproar if there was Man's Hour or a Blokes Only night......
It is a bit odd.

J4CKO

41,527 posts

200 months

Wednesday 22nd March 2023
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Skyedriver said:
Caddyshack said:
To be fair, we have the mobo awards but if we had a white music only awards night it would end in riots.
Taking this forward - There's a radio programme called "Woman's Hour" and places of entertsinment, swimming pools etc have "Ladies Night".
Can you imagine the uproar if there was Man's Hour or a Blokes Only night......
There are such nights ! On Canal Street in Manchester if you fancy it wink

sociopath

3,433 posts

66 months

Wednesday 22nd March 2023
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I'm just sad I can no longer use my
"No blacks no Irish no dogs" sign.

I'm not racist or anything you understand, it's just not fair, after all the effort I went to, to make it...


FTAOD: sarcasm

gotoPzero

17,223 posts

189 months

Wednesday 22nd March 2023
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I am of Indian descent.

The "P" word is pretty common, in fact I would say very, very common in India.
Its also very common within people from Pakistan, IME.

What ruined it was in the 60s and 70s was d*ck heads who started to use it as an insult.
Its very, very common for people from the "stans" to drop the stan. And replace with "i".

No one says its a problem to call someone from Afghanistan an Afghani.

We dont call it the A word.

We dont have an issue with Uzbeki. There is no "U" word. People from Uzbekistan are not up in arms about it.

Because it wasnt used as an insult. But here we are.

FWIW Indian guys call each other "yaar" which basically means mate, it was never an insult but its basically the Indian version of what the N word is now to young black Americans - which is a term thats generally used between friends.

Glassman

Original Poster:

22,528 posts

215 months

Wednesday 22nd March 2023
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greygoose said:
Are you ten years old? Grow up and just stop being a racist.
You're getting your Alans in a bit of a twist. You do ask a good question tbf. If I was black, would I still be a racist starting this thread with a question like that?

Same question if I was Pakistani.



LF5335

5,911 posts

43 months

Wednesday 22nd March 2023
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Glassman said:
greygoose said:
Are you ten years old? Grow up and just stop being a racist.
You're getting your Alans in a bit of a twist. You do ask a good question tbf. If I was black, would I still be a racist starting this thread with a question like that?

Same question if I was Pakistani.

It’s exactly the sort of question a 10 year old would ask. Adults should be more aware of the world as they gain experience. The fact you’ve chosen this topic to discuss shows what sort of experience you’ve gained.

Glassman

Original Poster:

22,528 posts

215 months

Wednesday 22nd March 2023
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LF5335 said:
It’s exactly the sort of question a 10 year old would ask. Adults should be more aware of the world as they gain experience. The fact you’ve chosen this topic to discuss shows what sort of experience you’ve gained.
Perhaps the burden lies with you.

I'm mixed race/heritage; half caste, whatever the buzz phrase is these days (I don't care).

One of my grandfathers was Scottish (descendant of the Clan Kerr) and the other was from North India; I have a Bajan stepfather and an Indian stepmother (parents parted ways when I was young).

I have a Polish girlfriend.

My friends and associates are African, Brazilian, Greek, Italian, Jamaican, Turkish, Indian, Polish, Portuguese, Scottish, Welsh... you name it.

You say experience?

Okay.



Harry Flashman

19,345 posts

242 months

Wednesday 22nd March 2023
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LF5335 said:
This thread started off at the bottom of the barrel and will now do it’s best to scrape even further, as all the “I’m not a racist, but …” appear on here to have a rant about how good the 1970s were and how people today are just too soft.
Bonus points awarded when the first inbred starts using the terms "snowflake" and "woke" to describe people not as stupid as him.

Raccaccoonie

2,797 posts

19 months

Thursday 23rd March 2023
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gotoPzero said:
I am of Indian descent.

The "P" word is pretty common, in fact I would say very, very common in India.
Its also very common within people from Pakistan, IME.

What ruined it was in the 60s and 70s was d*ck heads who started to use it as an insult.
Its very, very common for people from the "stans" to drop the stan. And replace with "i".

No one says its a problem to call someone from Afghanistan an Afghani.

We dont call it the A word.

We dont have an issue with Uzbeki. There is no "U" word. People from Uzbekistan are not up in arms about it.

Because it wasnt used as an insult. But here we are.

FWIW Indian guys call each other "yaar" which basically means mate, it was never an insult but its basically the Indian version of what the N word is now to young black Americans - which is a term thats generally used between friends.
Weird my brother's wife is Indian and hates the word, as do all her family. It doesn't really help that even in these modern times she has still been called it,(Yes the Irony isn't lost on her) this innocuous word according to PH, quite a few times , I think the most recent was 6 months ago in a park.

I guess the majority on here haven't faced daily insults to understand that a term might destroy the person , but they still smile, but inside broken up. I think that is why some, not everyone, may try to use it as a way to take it's power away.

But like most things in life, complex things can't really be distilled into one sentence answers.


Edited by Raccaccoonie on Thursday 23 March 02:11

bongtom

2,018 posts

83 months

Thursday 23rd March 2023
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Lozw86 said:
In India the Indians colloquially refer to the Pakistanis as “Paks”
That's probably not a very good example as to how that word cannot be racist!

Good grief.

Digger

14,660 posts

191 months

Thursday 23rd March 2023
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bongtom said:
Lozw86 said:
In India the Indians colloquially refer to the Pakistanis as “Paks”
That's probably not a very good example as to how that word cannot be racist!

Good grief.
But it does offer an interesting reference for consideration.

bitchstewie

51,182 posts

210 months

Thursday 23rd March 2023
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If Family Fortunes surveyed 100 people with brown skin and asked them their experience of the P word do people think it would be positive or negative?

InitialDave

11,888 posts

119 months

Thursday 23rd March 2023
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Harry Flashman said:
LF5335 said:
This thread started off at the bottom of the barrel and will now do it’s best to scrape even further, as all the “I’m not a racist, but …” appear on here to have a rant about how good the 1970s were and how people today are just too soft.
Bonus points awarded when the first inbred starts using the terms "snowflake" and "woke" to describe people not as stupid as him.
Does "I have a black friend" need to be on the same row/column, or does anywhere on the bingo card count?