Saddest book you have read?

Saddest book you have read?

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Derek Smith

45,613 posts

248 months

Sunday 10th July 2022
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After the war, there were a number of books on the pogrom. I had a Jewish girlfriend and I read up on what happened. I was crying at home - I was around 18 - when my dad found me. He said something along the lines of the only thing we, the universal we, could do is ensure such things never occurred again.

That went well.

There was one book by a Jewish lass who survived a concentration camp by means explained in the book. She, like my girlfriend, had red hair; fairly unusual but not that remarkable. I obviously did what anyone would have done and imagined my girlfriend as the book's writer. Stayed with me for years. Now, some 55 years later, when I read the thread title, she and the book sprang to mind. The woman in the book was on a bus in post-war Germany when the conductor asked her, 'How did you not get taken to the camps?'

By that time the Germans knew what had been done in their names, but, it seems, some agreed.

Stick Legs

4,897 posts

165 months

Sunday 10th July 2022
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Just bleak.
See also ‘Tunnel Rats in Vietnam’.





My Catholic mother read this to me as a bedtime story.
I bought it as a nostalgia item when my children were little & OMFG it’s pure passive aggressive guilt trip manipulation and martyr complex in hard back form.

No. Just no.

Stick Legs

4,897 posts

165 months

Sunday 10th July 2022
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Just bleak.
See also ‘Tunnel Rats in Vietnam’.





My Catholic mother read this to me as a bedtime story.
I bought it as a nostalgia item when my children were little & OMFG it’s pure passive aggressive guilt trip manipulation and martyr complex in hard back form.

No. Just no.

CoupeKid

751 posts

65 months

Tuesday 8th November 2022
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Another book I found rather sad just came to me this afternoon. Possibly because I caught up with an old friend I haven’t seen in 30 years and she told me she was recovering from cancer.

And Then We came to the End by Joshua Ferris.

It’s about a Chicago advertising agency imploding after the dot com boom and people gradually being fired except a manager who dies of breast cancer.

The book is written from the point of view of every one in the agency, including the building as I recall but could be wrong about that, rather than just one person.

MC Bodge

21,620 posts

175 months

Wednesday 9th November 2022
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Janluke said:
A Fine Balance-Rohinton Mistry

Set in India from the 70s a story of 4 people dealing with the cruelty and corruption of India. "A Fine Balance" between hope and despair.
While fiction it's historically accurate. I became quite angry with the author(silly I know) for what he put his charges through
I read it about 20 years ago. It is a very good novel, but, yes, the subject matter is harrowing.

I read other books by the same author, but they were not as memorable.

SS427 Camaro

6,457 posts

170 months

Monday 30th January 2023
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On The Beach, had to read it @ school, utterly depressing…….

Stick Legs

4,897 posts

165 months

Tuesday 31st January 2023
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SS427 Camaro said:
On The Beach, had to read it @ school, utterly depressing…….
If I remember correctly Winston Churchill regarded it highly and sent copies to Krushchev and Eisenhower.

I enjoyed it but agree that it is rather depressing.
A bit like a Radiohead album.

ZedLeg

12,278 posts

108 months

Tuesday 31st January 2023
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The Road probably

Although the bit where the kids go to limbo in his dark materials still depresses me 20 years after I first read it.

CallThatMusic

2,557 posts

88 months

Tuesday 31st January 2023
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The Great War For Civilisation: Robert Fisk.

Pixel Pusher

10,191 posts

159 months

Tuesday 31st January 2023
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One that stood out for me is The Rape of Nanking : Iris Chang


TheChampers

4,093 posts

138 months

Tuesday 31st January 2023
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SS427 Camaro said:
On The Beach, had to read it @ school, utterly depressing…….
After many attempts over the last few years, I finally read this, over Christmas, overlooking a beach in Seychelles, and it almost broke me. I couldn’t read it again in the same way as Grave of the Fireflies, Schindler’s List and Sophie’s Choice are films I couldn’t watch again. Brilliant but harrowing.

Hammerhead

2,700 posts

254 months

Sunday 26th February 2023
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Jude the Obscure (Thomas Hardy). No happy endings.

JapanRed

1,559 posts

111 months

Saturday 18th March 2023
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dontlookdown said:
JapanRed said:
perdu said:
In fiction the saddest, most desolate book ever.

"On The Beach" Nevil Shute.

I know I will never read that book again although some of his others are inspirational such as "Trustee From The Toolroom".
I’ve ordered this book from Amazon. Had never heard of it until you mentioned it but the synopsis reads brilliantly.
If you haven't read any Shute I envy you! A treat awaits. Try Trustee from the Toolroom, No Highway, Most Secret, and another v poignant one for this thread, Requiem for a Wren.

Edited by dontlookdown on Tuesday 7th September 07:51
Sorry for taking almost 18 months to reply to this, I read “on the beach” about a year ago and it has gone into my top 10 books of all time. I’ve ordered a few of the other Shute books you’ve recommended. Thank you smile

otolith

56,036 posts

204 months

Sunday 19th March 2023
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Just finished the first two books in the Book of Dust (which are very good) and was reminded of how sad the end of The Amber Spyglass was.

bucksmanuk

2,311 posts

170 months

Wednesday 29th March 2023
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Easy Meat
https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/29367054
The full (one presumes) background to the Rotherham grooming gangs. It is difficult to believe - to put it mildly - that this goes on in 21st century Britain from a number of perspectives. It also occurs in other countries too.
Young girls from troubled homes are left to their own devices.
A wide range of authorities have some "strange" agendas for dealing with the issue – or not.

And the worse bit – one strongly suspects its happening in a number of locations in the UK, probably as one is reading this.

varsas

4,007 posts

202 months

Thursday 11th May 2023
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Haven't seen these mentioned yet, my first reaction was 1984.

Never Let Me Go - Kazuo Ishiguro (also wrote 'Remains of the Day' which is mentioned earlier). They never had a chance anyway, and what little time they did have was stolen from them. Also a fantastic film.

A Song of Stone - Iain Banks

Some of this is the stuff of nightmares. You know when you wake up and think 'gosh, I didn't know I was capable of imagining such horror'? I think it's as much the combination of the beautifully style it's written in and the utter emtiness of all the characters that has stayed with me.

I'd also say 'The Quarry'; reflecting, as it does, the authors own illness and impending death.

Lotusgone

1,179 posts

127 months

Sunday 4th June 2023
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To The Kwai and Back, Ronald Searle. An account of his time as a POW of the Japanese, with the drawings he was able to hide and come back with.

After reading that, The Bridge on the River Kwai seems like Hollywood froth.


rasto

2,188 posts

237 months

Sunday 4th June 2023
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Mayflies by Andrew O'Hagan. The BBC did a great adaptation of it, was on at Christmas. I read it 2 years ago I was a bawling wreck at the end, it's all about male friendships and the main characters are about my age so it resonated hard with me.

Waynker Renee

905 posts

169 months

Sunday 8th October 2023
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TheChampers said:
SS427 Camaro said:
On The Beach, had to read it @ school, utterly depressing…….
After many attempts over the last few years, I finally read this, over Christmas, overlooking a beach in Seychelles, and it almost broke me. I couldn’t read it again in the same way as Grave of the Fireflies, Schindler’s List and Sophie’s Choice are films I couldn’t watch again. Brilliant but harrowing.
This,just had a week in Malta and finally finished it.
It was the only book of his that I’ve struggled with having acquired this as a joblot 10 or so years ago.

tertius

6,850 posts

230 months

Sunday 8th October 2023
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Waynker Renee said:
This,just had a week in Malta and finally finished it.
It was the only book of his that I’ve struggled with having acquired this as a joblot 10 or so years ago.
Nice collection i have a few of those in just the same editions.

Pastoral is probably my favourite of his.