Moral dilemma over insurance

Moral dilemma over insurance

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stuartmmcfc

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8,662 posts

192 months

Tuesday 19th September 2017
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I have an aquintance who I like and who seems quite a decent sort.
Only last week she was saying how much she loved the car and how nothing has ever gone wrong with it and how she worries a small crash would write it off.
She's had it from new and it's now 17 years old so it's probably only worth a few hundred quid.
Ironically my Wife reversed into it this morning and dented it. She's had a quote from a local garage of £500 to repair it.
This would write it off.
My Wife would have put it through the company insurance but this would mean D's car was scrapped.
Should she pay her self (which luckily we can afford but it's a lot of money) or say "tough" and suffer the guilty concience?

Bungleaio

6,330 posts

202 months

Tuesday 19th September 2017
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Pay the money to get the car repaired. You are likely to need to pay the excess anyway.

elanfan

5,520 posts

227 months

Tuesday 19th September 2017
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Yeah yeah - reversed into this morning and already got a £500 quote. If this happened show us the ohoto sof the damage to both cars.

51mes

1,500 posts

200 months

Tuesday 19th September 2017
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Bungleaio said:
Pay the money to get the car repaired. You are likely to need to pay the excess anyway.
£500 - provided they find nothing else wrong - and when you speak to the garage explain it's not an insurance job. is probably what declaring a fault accident to your insurers would cost you over the next few years anyway, even excluding the excess.

Remember that has to be declared over all the policies she has cover under ..

S.

MorganP104

2,605 posts

130 months

Tuesday 19th September 2017
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elanfan said:
Yeah yeah - reversed into this morning and already got a £500 quote. If this happened show us the ohoto sof the damage to both cars.
I agree that pics would be useful in this instance, though I wonder if suggesting the OP is a liar is the best way to open a discussion on the matter.

counterofbeans

1,061 posts

139 months

Tuesday 19th September 2017
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elanfan said:
Yeah yeah - reversed into this morning and already got a £500 quote. If this happened show us the ohoto sof the damage to both cars.
What a strange post

stuartmmcfc

Original Poster:

8,662 posts

192 months

Tuesday 19th September 2017
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counterofbeans said:
elanfan said:
Yeah yeah - reversed into this morning and already got a £500 quote. If this happened show us the ohoto sof the damage to both cars.
What a strange post
Like elanfan, I have very little to occupy my time.
Unlike elanfan, I try and fill it with something worthwhile rolleyes

Edited by stuartmmcfc on Tuesday 19th September 13:46

Blue Oval84

5,276 posts

161 months

Tuesday 19th September 2017
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Is it actually just a dent or has the paint broken?

A really good PDR guy (or girl!) could almost certainly massively undercut a bodyshop.

strain

419 posts

101 months

Tuesday 19th September 2017
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I'd pay, would cost that in the long run, accidents happen if she's a proper friend you would want to do the best option...

stuartmmcfc

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8,662 posts

192 months

Tuesday 19th September 2017
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I'm pretty sure she'll pay. She's got to many morals to make D loose her car.
Unfortunately it did break the paint, even though it was a very low speed bump on our drive.
I get the impression her garage is quite small, not a main dealer or body shop.
Incidentally, as my Wife drives a company car, putting it through her company insurance wouldn't actually affect her financially realistically, particularly as she's one of the bosses.
My car is motability, so equally that would have no monetary effect either.

TwigtheWonderkid

43,351 posts

150 months

Tuesday 19th September 2017
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Bungleaio said:
Pay the money to get the car repaired. You are likely to need to pay the excess anyway.
There's no excess to pay on a claim against you by a third party.

Sycamore

1,779 posts

118 months

Tuesday 19th September 2017
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Is it a common car, and likely only panel damage? If it has been quoted at £500 I can't imagine it's a little ding but worth a shot.

I reversed into a neighbours old Vectra when I'd not long gotten my licence.

I bought a new bumper for £15 and fitted it myself. Seeing as it was old enough anyway, there wasn't a colour miss-match. I spent more on the bottle of whiskey I bought him as an apology.

FWIW I'd just pay to have it repaired. It'll just sit as a marker against your wife when it comes to insurance.

QuickQuack

2,193 posts

101 months

Tuesday 19th September 2017
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I'd just pay it. The cost of increased insurance for both your wife and D over the next few years will be many times that for a start, and then it'll be a real headache for D to get a replacement car. That could well end up putting a lot of strain on your relationship with D. On the other hand, if you don't ever want to see them again because D is a PITA type of person, it's the perfect opportunity... wink

stuartmmcfc

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8,662 posts

192 months

Tuesday 19th September 2017
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Sycamore said:


FWIW I'd just pay to have it repaired. It'll just sit as a marker against your wife when it comes to insurance.
The marker won't have any effect on our situation but it won't be forgotten by me next time I do something wrong hehe

herewego

8,814 posts

213 months

Tuesday 19th September 2017
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If it's genuinely only a dent maybe she wouldn't be that bothered about it for an old car. Maybe she'd be as happy with £100 of something for herself since it won't last much longer anyway.

Eddieslofart

1,328 posts

83 months

Tuesday 19th September 2017
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counterofbeans said:
What a strange post
Farmer, Welsh? No further explanation req.

OP's missus seems to be doing the decent thing. Hats off.

elanfan

5,520 posts

227 months

Tuesday 19th September 2017
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Still have my doubts about this I'm sorry. It does seem very coincidental that the subject of writing D's car off was only recently discussed and then the very scenario occurs bizarrely caused by OPs wife. Then a quote for repair has been obtained all within a few hours. Photos would prove it and then I'd happily apologise.

As to occupying my time with something useful - how about your wife reports the accident as she should do, her insurer will want to write off the TP car but they cannot make this happen so they'll need to make her a cash offer. Probably won't be a lot but might well be enough to get the repair done at a local repair shop outside insurance and if not your missus could top it up?

ging84

8,897 posts

146 months

Tuesday 19th September 2017
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get her to make the claim directly with your insurers, she can refuse to allow them write it off (it's her car and she has no contract with your insurer), insist on a repair contribution instead, and if you feel obligated make up the difference your self.

elanfan

5,520 posts

227 months

Tuesday 19th September 2017
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ging84 said:
get her to make the claim directly with your insurers, she can refuse to allow them write it off (it's her car and she has no contract with your insurer), insist on a repair contribution instead, and if you feel obligated make up the difference your self.
There's an echo in here?