Holding grudges with people on PH
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I hold one grudge against a member of the tvr forum who decided, having never met me nor knowing a thing about my circumstances, to try and stop a body shop from taking a job on for me. That person I'm afraid will always be remembered because it transitioned from a schoolboy on a forum to real world personal.
Otherwise i just ignore those who annoy me.
Otherwise i just ignore those who annoy me.
Edited by Zippee on Thursday 16th May 14:24
It's all a load of b
ks so to hold a grudge would be ridiculous. I do remember when I hadn't been on here that long I made a very mild jibe about old Merc MLs not being very reliable - hardly controversial stuff - but purely off the back of that somebody accused me of stinking out the forum with my bad vibes, and also accused me of being a long-standing member posting from a second account for some reason. It was just so weird that I can't help but be reminded of it whenever I see a post by that member, and the rest of his posts are perfectly sane which makes it all the stranger.
ks so to hold a grudge would be ridiculous. I do remember when I hadn't been on here that long I made a very mild jibe about old Merc MLs not being very reliable - hardly controversial stuff - but purely off the back of that somebody accused me of stinking out the forum with my bad vibes, and also accused me of being a long-standing member posting from a second account for some reason. It was just so weird that I can't help but be reminded of it whenever I see a post by that member, and the rest of his posts are perfectly sane which makes it all the stranger. 
Zippee said:
I hold one grudge against a member of the tvr forum who decided, having never met me nor knowing a thing about my circumstances, to try and stop a body shop from taking a job on for me. That person I'm afraid will always be remembered because it transitioned from a schoolboy on a forum to real world personal.
Otherwise i just ignore those who annoy me.
Why on earth did they do that?!?Otherwise i just ignore those who annoy me.
Edited by Zippee on Thursday 16th May 14:24
TheAngryDog said:
Anyone here do it? I know there a few posters that I either have to ignore because I think they're an idiot, or because they think I am one 
Held one, no.Had a few held against me, definitely.
I'll be the first to admit that I can be a person who holds strong opinions but I don't take forums seriously. A forum is a bunch of people behind pseudonyms that cant really do anything to me beyond call me a nasty name. You have to be a sandwich short of a picnic to seek validation from a place like this.
OTOH, I've had a few people who no matter what I've said, have taken it upon themselves to vehemently prove it wrong because "everything I've ever posted has been wrong". I mean if I said water was wet, they'd swear until they were blue in the face it was dry. Most of these nutters aren't on here any more, not through any actions of my own but because they had similar fights with a lot of other posters. Alas, I wish I were special.
There are a few posters I ignore because they are idiots, but that's not a grudge, that's just me not caring. Those posters likely wont know who they are because I never make a big deal out of it.
I try not to rub people up the wrong way or get into arguments, I get stuff wrong and will hapilly defer if someone has a better view or knowledge on something.
But, I am sure I have caused annoyance, dont hold a grudge against anyone, at worst may be a bit wary if someone can be a bit confrontational or aggressive.
But, I am sure I have caused annoyance, dont hold a grudge against anyone, at worst may be a bit wary if someone can be a bit confrontational or aggressive.
pincher said:
Zippee said:
I hold one grudge against a member of the tvr forum who decided, having never met me nor knowing a thing about my circumstances, to try and stop a body shop from taking a job on for me. That person I'm afraid will always be remembered because it transitioned from a schoolboy on a forum to real world personal.
Otherwise i just ignore those who annoy me.
Why on earth did they do that?!?Otherwise i just ignore those who annoy me.
Edited by Zippee on Thursday 16th May 14:24
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