An epidemic of insanely slow drivers
An epidemic of insanely slow drivers
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Wardy78

2,034 posts

78 months

Friday 26th September
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Granadier said:
Wardy78 said:
theplayingmantis said:
zarjaz1991 said:
Wardy78 said:
And I'm struggling to of roads signs that are not just either self-explanatory or downright bleeding obvious. My daughter is 16 (and also neurodivergent, Inattentive ADHD for her). She is starting the process to learn to drive and I'm asking her about road signs all the time. Very few she doesn't get automatically.
Yeah. I think neurodivergent types may be better at this type of thing. Wish her all the best with this and tell her my story if it helps because it sounds like she's going to p*ss the theory test and I think if you do that you find the physical test much easier and you're a better driver for it. That's my thinking. I bet she turns out to be a good driver.

Scott
Everyone is neurodivergent now. It's an excuse for poor behaviour in most cases. This iisnt aimed at you, it's a general observation. I'm also high functioning spergs, I take a keen interest in things like signs as well, have to have one of everything, and I have trouble focussing on certain things as I get easily bored, and my intense fads pass into disinterest after an intense burn typically, but on the most part it's a load of utter nonsense and people who just need a smack and to be shouted at to pay attention or not being a dick, for example in class is labelled neuro diverse.

Again it's an easy cop out for poor behaviour and a general lowering of standards, and the desire to label everyone and for bad parents to have an excuse.

And this isn't to take away from those who actually have these conditions in a truly life limiting way and not just as an excuse.

But this is OT.
I agree in part, but I don't think it's driven solely by parents. School are complicit as well as they want max numbers of SEN students.
Someone close to me works for CAMHS, and even a lot of their clinicians privately agree that self-labelling neurodivergence is way out of hand, it's become almost fashionable
So true, which makes it immensely hard for those with conditions to get recognised. Our school saw enough to get their 'support' and as part of that referred her to our GP then did nothing. The GP then met her, was clueless, and made a referral. with a 72 week wait time.

So we went to the ADHD Foundation who were brilliant. Couple of assessments, Qb test then a referral to a consultant who has been amazing. She's now on a low dose of medication.
Meanwhile, half her year are claiming to have ADHD and the school supports them all, or rather seeks support for them all.

Wardy78

2,034 posts

78 months

Friday 26th September
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zarjaz1991 said:
Wardy78 said:
Thank you. We'd considered getting her to do an auto-only test because of her challenges, but put her on the Young Driver courses to see how she'd cope with a manual, and she's taken to it easily.

...and I hope you're right, she's my taxi from the pub for the next few years if so wink
lol! Yeah still plenty of call for manuals and it sounds like she clearly has that skill as a natural. The signs are all good, she's going to be great at it. She might even end up "one of us" and become an enthusiast.

Scott
Yes, she really surprised us with how quickly she's picked it up. 5 YD lessons in and she's almost getting to changing gear subconsciously. Proper driving lessons won't start for 6 months, but by then, the mechanics of making the car move will be second nature. Such a good product to get kids driving sooner.

RSTurboPaul

12,581 posts

278 months

Friday 26th September
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Wardy78 said:
zarjaz1991 said:
Wardy78 said:
Thank you. We'd considered getting her to do an auto-only test because of her challenges, but put her on the Young Driver courses to see how she'd cope with a manual, and she's taken to it easily.

...and I hope you're right, she's my taxi from the pub for the next few years if so wink
lol! Yeah still plenty of call for manuals and it sounds like she clearly has that skill as a natural. The signs are all good, she's going to be great at it. She might even end up "one of us" and become an enthusiast.

Scott
Yes, she really surprised us with how quickly she's picked it up. 5 YD lessons in and she's almost getting to changing gear subconsciously. Proper driving lessons won't start for 6 months, but by then, the mechanics of making the car move will be second nature. Such a good product to get kids driving sooner.
I think we should be engraining subconscious operation of the machinery first, as you say, as it will make dealing with the actual road environment much less taxing with less new things to do mentally!

Heaveho

6,530 posts

194 months

Friday 26th September
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Gad-Westy said:
Heaveho said:
I'm starting to notice a thing where the driver in front slows almost to a total stop when turning left, having already arrived at said left turn at a speed where slowing down any further is completely unnecessary. Compounded when it's a traffic light junction with a short light. I shouldn't, but I've become compelled to lean on the horn in this situation, to the point where I've now started working my way through the vehicles I own retrofitting twin horns to get my point across.

Edited by Heaveho on Thursday 25th September 21:15
I have to admit, I'll sometimes be very slow turning into a street that has lots of parked cars causing a width restriction. Too many people blindly turn into those and block oncoming traffic. But I guess you're not really talking about that kind of scenario. But either way, can't see what air horns are going to achieve I'm afraid.
No complaints about your scenario, I'd do the same. This is on main roads, turning from one to another, no obstacles to consider other than the corner itself.

Air horns? No, I'm not doing that, even I've left the 70s behind! laugh Twin horns.

theplayingmantis

5,364 posts

102 months

Friday 26th September
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Wardy78 said:
theplayingmantis said:
Wardy78 said:
robinessex said:
I did a SAC once.. About 75% on the course wouldn't pass a driving test now. Some were so driving illiterate, I'm surprised they managed to get to the course without having an accident. Two of the ladies leaving couldn't even get out of the car park, claiming there wasn't enough room. Everyone else managed it ok.
I did one, got nabbed at 53 on a section of dual carriageway that is 50mph for a mile between two 70-limit sections, dangerous bd I am, I'm lucky not to have been just shot on sight.

Anyway..... The course was fine. Covid times so all online. Consisted of a lot of pictures/question of roads and their signs, nothing taxing in the slightest. I was the only one that got 100%. But the surprising thing was that everyone else got way less than 50%!

Things like the NSL sign. Photo of a road with a lot of street lamps asking what speed limit. Photo of a clear single carriageway with no lights or markings. etc etc.

Some didn't get a single question correct. The biggest surprise was the lack of surprise from the instructor??


This is why I think every driver should be made to resit (or sit, I never took it) the theory test every 5 years. It would remove a huge swath of st drivers from our roads AND/OR generate so much revenue from the 'driving without.....' fines that the country wouldn't be (as) bankrupt.

53 in a 50? I'd be keen to see evidence of this. Thanks
Not quite sure what evidence you'd want 3 years after the event?

Here's the email to show I completed the course?


i struggle to believe anyone got done for 53 in a 50 what with the tolerances.

unless im missing something, and its one of those mythical things on here where i don't think any evidence has ever appeared showing someone being nicked within 10%.

unless im being thick!

sure it wasnt 58 not 53 perhaps?

theplayingmantis

5,364 posts

102 months

Friday 26th September
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Wardy78 said:
zarjaz1991 said:
Wardy78 said:
And I'm struggling to of roads signs that are not just either self-explanatory or downright bleeding obvious. My daughter is 16 (and also neurodivergent, Inattentive ADHD for her). She is starting the process to learn to drive and I'm asking her about road signs all the time. Very few she doesn't get automatically.
Yeah. I think neurodivergent types may be better at this type of thing. Wish her all the best with this and tell her my story if it helps because it sounds like she's going to p*ss the theory test and I think if you do that you find the physical test much easier and you're a better driver for it. That's my thinking. I bet she turns out to be a good driver.

Scott
Thank you. We'd considered getting her to do an auto-only test because of her challenges, but put her on the Young Driver courses to see how she'd cope with a manual, and she's taken to it easily.

...and I hope you're right, she's my taxi from the pub for the next few years if so wink
i learnt quite late for various reasons, ex back in my 20's who wouldnt be driven, uni in london, working in london etc. all may m8s said i would be terrible due to my attention span, but i passed with one made up minor (pulled out too wide???) after a 4 day intense course with some lovely chavvy old dear (wrinkled tattoos in her late 60's) instructor, although i had driven farm vehicles for years on private land. if anything it makes me hyperfocussed and aware of everything...I've probably jinxed it now....so i dont think its necessarily bad for driving. i did initially learn/pass auto but then did my manual later.

bigothunter

12,811 posts

80 months

Monday 27th October
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robinessex

11,725 posts

201 months

Monday 27th October
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We don't need speed limits. If drivers were taught how to drive properly instead of just passing a 50-year-old out-of-date 'test', we'd be a long way down the path of drivers being able to drive at a sensible speed for the CURRENT conditions of the road they're on. When I first got mobile on my motorcycle, the only speed limit was 30mph in towns.

cirian75

5,000 posts

253 months

Monday 27th October
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Yesterday Sunday AM around 1030, nugget doing 20mph in a 30 all the way from Chorlton to the major junction near to old Trafford where he went up Trafford road and I went up Wharfside way.

No doubt he crawled up Trafford road too.

This morning, another absolute nugget in the right hand lane of the Princess parkway (road) dong 15mph in a 30 with nothing in front of him = mass undertakes.

swisstoni

21,333 posts

299 months

Monday 27th October
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bigothunter said:
A lot of people drive around as though lobotomised. And I'd say that some of it is due to the fact they are normally law abiding types who have at one time or another fallen foul of a speed camera, a bus lane or some other gotcha. Perhaps quite a lot. And they are now in fear of getting caught again.

Others are just flicking through social media or fiddling with the sat nav. Driving is a nuisance for them.

Either way it's too late. If there was a golden age of urban driving it is long gone and autonomous cars can't come soon enough for a lot of drivers.

The0perator

523 posts

49 months

Monday 27th October
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bigothunter said:
Sums it up well

Basically, driving was a skill. But now its just something people expect to do without any effort or attention and they get bored so scroll their phone, mess with the huge screen in the middle and not really pay attention because they are bored.. and no one is going to tell them off or fine them for that. However 35 in a 30 and they'll pay for the fine and the increased insurance.

Its maybe not a popular opinion but more coppers on the road actually policing it rather than cameras would be a big improvement.

zarjaz1991

5,271 posts

143 months

Monday 27th October
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The0perator said:
Sums it up well

Basically, driving was a skill. But now its just something people expect to do without any effort or attention and they get bored so scroll their phone, mess with the huge screen in the middle and not really pay attention because they are bored.. and no one is going to tell them off or fine them for that. However 35 in a 30 and they'll pay for the fine and the increased insurance.

Its maybe not a popular opinion but more coppers on the road actually policing it rather than cameras would be a big improvement.
I securely still see driving as a skill.

I have just started advanced driver training with RoSPA to pull me up a level or two because I realise I've got sloppy and I'm actually appalled at that.

Scott

speedking31

3,771 posts

156 months

Tuesday 28th October
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bigothunter said:
And journalists, it would appear
Jethro Bovingdon said:
... as a fresh faced 12 year old I was flown to Australia for the ‘Vauxhall’ Monaro launch.

John D.

19,814 posts

229 months

Tuesday 28th October
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I noticed that hehe

Heaveho

6,530 posts

194 months

Tuesday 28th October
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Anyone who still has the willpower to consider driving a skill, something to be celebrated, and want to experience the liberating sensation of freedom to pursue their interest without interference, could do a lot worse than spend a week ( or more ) on the IOM in a quick car with decent handling.

I did exactly this in July and had a wonderful 7 days reuniting myself with the speed limit free mountain road, surrounded by locals all driving quickly and well. It seems a remarkablly accident averse environment considering how those on the mainland who are intent on forcing us to believe that speed kills continue to pursue us with their drivel.

Edited by Heaveho on Tuesday 28th October 07:36

zarjaz1991

5,271 posts

143 months

Tuesday 28th October
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Heaveho said:
Anyone who still has the willpower to consider driving a skill, something to be celebrated, and want to experience the liberating sensation of freedom to pursue their interest without interference, could do a lot worse than spend a week ( or more ) on the IOM in a quick car with decent handling.

I did exactly this in July and had a wonderful 7 days reuniting myself with the speed limit free mountain road, surrounded by locals all driving quickly and well. It seems a remarkablly accident averse environment considering how those on the mainland who are intent on forcing us to believe that speed kills continue to pursue us with their drivel.
Now you've got me thinking about that for next year. I haven't been to the IOM since I was a child so have never driven it. Sounds exactly the sort of thing I'd love....

Scott

Heaveho

6,530 posts

194 months

Tuesday 28th October
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I took the Evo. One of the best times I’ve had in it for a decade. Worried I may have given away a secret and everyone will be there next time I go, lol.

zarjaz1991

5,271 posts

143 months

Tuesday 28th October
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Heaveho said:
I took the Evo. One of the best times I ve had in it for a decade. Worried I may have given away a secret and everyone will be there next time I go, lol.
LOL.

I've only got Mondeos but I might look to hire something. Saying that I enjoy drives like that in those cars regardless, it doesn't need to be something "nice" for me to enjoy a good drive. Not to say it's not more fun if I do have something nice though.

Scott

The0perator

523 posts

49 months

Tuesday 28th October
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Heaveho said:
Anyone who still has the willpower to consider driving a skill, something to be celebrated, and want to experience the liberating sensation of freedom to pursue their interest without interference, could do a lot worse than spend a week ( or more ) on the IOM in a quick car with decent handling.

I did exactly this in July and had a wonderful 7 days reuniting myself with the speed limit free mountain road, surrounded by locals all driving quickly and well. It seems a remarkablly accident averse environment considering how those on the mainland who are intent on forcing us to believe that speed kills continue to pursue us with their drivel.

Edited by Heaveho on Tuesday 28th October 07:36
Does go to show, actually driving makes all the difference. Unfortunately less people on said roads probably helps... but people who drive because they have to and people who drive because they enjoy it, has to be a difference in attention/skill whatever

zarjaz1991

5,271 posts

143 months

Tuesday 28th October
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The0perator said:
Does go to show, actually driving makes all the difference. Unfortunately less people on said roads probably helps... but people who drive because they have to and people who drive because they enjoy it, has to be a difference in attention/skill whatever
Totally agree. I've been on back roads and ended up in a sort of convoy with a couple of other people clearly driving it for the same reason as me - enjoyment. And even though you've no idea who they are, there's clearly a sort of shared experience going on, the driving is competent, you're not held up or annoyed. I find it a joy to be sharing a road like that with someone who obviously both enjoys driving and is very good at it. Doesn't actually matter what the car is, or what your car is. It's a shared joy.

Scott