Billy Monger

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Munter

31,319 posts

241 months

Monday 19th November 2018
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grumpy52 said:
zarjaz1991 said:
Billy is incredible but as I posted some time back after he gave a particular interview, sometimes his expression and tone of voice are giving away a real sadness within him at what he has lost. That is evident in this programme at times as well.

I hope that in the long years to come, as his parents age and the public fuss has died down, that he is able to cope. "After the Lord Mayor's Parade", so to speak.

I hope I don't sound too negative. He's truly awesome, I just feel so bad for him and what has happened to him has got to have hurt him mentally.
He does seem to have shut away something , I do find him to be an amazing young man and believe he will be the first disabled champion .
Maybe his ability to close some things away is that thing that separates the champions from the also rans .
If you spend any time with champions you soon realise that they are different to the rest of us .
I don't know. To me he looks like those of us who answer the question and then can get embarrassed that the person looking at you wanted more than the answer, but there's nothing else in your head to say.

zarjaz1991

3,480 posts

123 months

Monday 19th November 2018
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grumpy52 said:
He does seem to have shut away something , I do find him to be an amazing young man and believe he will be the first disabled champion .
Maybe his ability to close some things away is that thing that separates the champions from the also rans .
If you spend any time with champions you soon realise that they are different to the rest of us .
Maybe he's blanked it all out. Maybe that's the only way to handle it. I have no idea. frown

It is obvious he will be a long standing champion of something, of that there is no doubt, and yes champions ARE different to everyone else, so maybe it's just that.

I struggle to comprehend his situation to be honest. It's too awful. frown

It was great to see him walking unaided in this video, at times he didn't even have crutches and you'd almost never know. There's a huge amount of effort gone into that alone. How do you even start?

zarjaz1991

3,480 posts

123 months

Monday 19th November 2018
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Munter said:
I don't know. To me he looks like those of us who answer the question and then can get embarrassed that the person looking at you wanted more than the answer, but there's nothing else in your head to say.
Several times he seemed genuinely lost for words when people much older than him approached him and said what an inspiration he was to them.
What DO you say if someone says that? How could a 17 year old boy possibly know what to say?


mattyn1

5,753 posts

155 months

Monday 19th November 2018
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zarjaz1991 said:
Munter said:
I don't know. To me he looks like those of us who answer the question and then can get embarrassed that the person looking at you wanted more than the answer, but there's nothing else in your head to say.
Several times he seemed genuinely lost for words when people much older than him approached him and said what an inspiration he was to them.
What DO you say if someone says that? How could a 17 year old boy possibly know what to say?
By Christ that was an emotional watch, even though we all knew the ending with that podium. He certainly knows what he wants.

egor110

16,858 posts

203 months

Monday 19th November 2018
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zarjaz1991 said:
Billy is incredible but as I posted some time back after he gave a particular interview, sometimes his expression and tone of voice are giving away a real sadness within him at what he has lost. That is evident in this programme at times as well.

I hope that in the long years to come, as his parents age and the public fuss has died down, that he is able to cope. "After the Lord Mayor's Parade", so to speak.

I hope I don't sound too negative. He's truly awesome, I just feel so bad for him and what has happened to him has got to have hurt him mentally.
I was quite surprised he didn't meet any soldiers/marines who also have lost limbs and then had the whole we've all had a really st day in the office and that's never going to change but we can still carry on doing the stuff we want , maybe slightly differently but we can still be active and do stuff .

But he didn't , he'd got his head around it seemingly right after the op all on his own.

anonymous-user

54 months

Monday 19th November 2018
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Super lad and a super program. Keep at it Billy.

skeggysteve

5,724 posts

217 months

Monday 19th November 2018
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zarjaz1991 said:
Maybe he's blanked it all out. Maybe that's the only way to handle it.
From my personal experience I'd say you are correct when you say he has blanked it out.

The trouble is that in private when it all get to much he will let it out and his parents and sister will have to cope.

But they will all cope because they love him. It really is a simple as that IMHO.

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Watching him drive the car in the wet showed to me that he has a talent but to be honest in the F3 race he did look like he was over driving the car, maybe it was a case of get a result or we can't pay for you anymore.

What ever he is a very brave and amazing person.

I wish him every luck in his future what ever that is.

StevieBee

12,874 posts

255 months

Tuesday 20th November 2018
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Munter said:
grumpy52 said:
zarjaz1991 said:
Billy is incredible but as I posted some time back after he gave a particular interview, sometimes his expression and tone of voice are giving away a real sadness within him at what he has lost. That is evident in this programme at times as well.

I hope that in the long years to come, as his parents age and the public fuss has died down, that he is able to cope. "After the Lord Mayor's Parade", so to speak.

I hope I don't sound too negative. He's truly awesome, I just feel so bad for him and what has happened to him has got to have hurt him mentally.
He does seem to have shut away something , I do find him to be an amazing young man and believe he will be the first disabled champion .
Maybe his ability to close some things away is that thing that separates the champions from the also rans .
If you spend any time with champions you soon realise that they are different to the rest of us .
I don't know. To me he looks like those of us who answer the question and then can get embarrassed that the person looking at you wanted more than the answer, but there's nothing else in your head to say.
I feel the same. Who knows, though? But he's become disabled at time when disability is fast become far less of an issue than it once was. There's a documentary somewhere on Netflix about the development of prosthetic limbs; some of the stuff that is being developed is truly amazing. Bio-tech integration stuff! Interestingly, Williams has been one of the tech consultants on some of it. How cool would it be for Billy to get a drive for Williams using limbs that they had helped develop!

By the way, a bit disappointed - this being Pistonheads and all that - that nobody has yet mentioned that his sister is rather easy on the eye! smile





egor110

16,858 posts

203 months

Tuesday 20th November 2018
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When he first had his accident there was a radio interview with a woman who lost her legs and started playing wheelchair rugby.

She was saying until then she never had a criminal record ( the whole team went on the piss and got arrested ) and that in some ways she's lived more post being in a wheel chair than before .

CooperD

2,866 posts

177 months

Tuesday 20th November 2018
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Very moving and insightful programme. Great to see he has a very supportive family around him and here's hoping he has plenty more success.

Dave Brand

928 posts

268 months

Wednesday 21st November 2018
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Looks like I'm the only one who found that programme intensely boring. 15 minutes' worth of material stretched out to an hour.

mcdjl

5,446 posts

195 months

Wednesday 21st November 2018
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Dave Brand said:
Looks like I'm the only one who found that programme intensely boring. 15 minutes' worth of material stretched out to an hour.
Isn't that most TV?

Greg the Fish

1,410 posts

66 months

Wednesday 21st November 2018
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Watched this last night. Very very moving.

Incredible young lad.

HustleRussell

24,689 posts

160 months

Wednesday 21st November 2018
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Finally caught up last night. Good uplifting bit of TV. As well as all of the obvious it was very brave for Billy and family to invite a film crew to document his rehabilitation from as early as three months after the accident when they would have had no idea about whether he would be able to race a single seater again let alone be competitive. I knew he had scored poles and podiums since the accident but I had no idea he was on the podium for his first race back. An incredible achievement. Nobody in F3 is fking about.

zarjaz1991 said:
Billy is incredible but as I posted some time back after he gave a particular interview, sometimes his expression and tone of voice are giving away a real sadness within him at what he has lost. That is evident in this programme at times as well.
Don't read too much into it IMO, I imagine talking in front of the camera and recording voiceovers comes naturally to very few teenagers.

skeggysteve said:
Watching him drive the car in the wet showed to me that he has a talent but to be honest in the F3 race he did look like he was over driving the car, maybe it was a case of get a result or we can't pay for you anymore.
Never driven an F3 car of any type so I don't know, what I will say is you aren't driving that poorly if you are on the podium on debut. Also I found the 'on track action' element of the documentary excruciating, they chopped the footage about so much, there was footage clearly from the green flag lap spliced into the middle of the race etc... Don't think you can trust it.

HustleRussell

24,689 posts

160 months

Wednesday 21st November 2018
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The most incredible thing is possibly the speed with which Billy's brain must've rewired itself- being able to respond to cues from the car and redirect those instinctive reactions learned over a decade of racing to his hand controls rather than his feet. I realise he still brakes using his leg, however it was his right and I presume he would've been braking with his left foot before?

Learning the hand throttle, and dealing with it simultaneously with steering angle, learning to brake with his right upper leg instead of his left leg / foot, and doing that in a matter of a handful of months?

I'd have been impressed if he had been battling to get into the top 10, and never saw the podium again...

Also, Jesus Christ- the upper body strength to haul yourself out of a confined, high sided carbon tub race car within the FIA's driver exit time?

Toma500

1,221 posts

253 months

Thursday 22nd November 2018
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So whats next for billy has he another season in F3 pencilled in or is he doing something completely different ?

shaunroche

210 posts

146 months

Thursday 22nd November 2018
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Dave Brand said:
Looks like I'm the only one who found that programme intensely boring. 15 minutes' worth of material stretched out to an hour.
The content of the programme for me was largely irrelevant - it was used as vehicle to highlight the trials and tribulations of a quite remarkable fella who just happens to be a teenager and whom has already had more to cope with and overcome than most of us will in all our lives. I'm sure the film isn't aimed at the normal and educated people like us, but those weirdos who know nothing about our World of cars and Motorsport maybe?

SpudLink

5,766 posts

192 months

Thursday 22nd November 2018
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Finally got around to watching this. I was surprised to be moved watching a story that I already knew. He’s an extraordinary character to just put everything he’s lost to one side in pursuit of his goal.

It’s the first time I’ve re-watched the accident since it happened. I was watching the live TV coverage at the time, and my first thought as the rear of the other car came towards the camera was he’d suffered a head injury. It looks like his carbon fibre helmet took quite an impact, but did it’s job well.

I don’t know how far his tallent would have taken him if not for the accident, but it’s amazing that he’s been competitive this season after re-training his brain to drive without his feet in a short period of time. I really hope he’s able to make a career as a racing driver, even if it’s not in F1.



Vaud

50,448 posts

155 months

Thursday 22nd November 2018
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HustleRussell said:
Also, Jesus Christ- the upper body strength to haul yourself out of a confined, high sided carbon tub race car within the FIA's driver exit time?
And the sheer body strength to haul his massive bks around each day.

That young man is like Zanardi. Inspirational.

p4cks

6,908 posts

199 months

Thursday 22nd November 2018
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He's got a very wise head on his shoulders. When he said that he doesn't see himself any differently, but knows that others now perceive him differently showed incredible emotional intelligence for someone so young.

Kudos young man, kudos.